asian women not want old white men....go away to old white, wrinkled woman...

Please tell me that the poor grammar in this post is the result of the poster not checking their work and not some misguided attempt to be "funny."

It's anecdotal of course, but I currently have two very beautiful 20-something young women for neighbors. None of my business, but I've not seen any evidence of young men in their lives. Guess that means there's no young men in Washington? Or just not the RIGHT young men...?

Or maybe they are gay. It is 2018 and women can date women and be happy.

For the single moms - what is preventing your exDH (or child's father) from spending time with his kid and giving you some free time?

My daughter lived with me when we got divorced (she was a senior in high school.) I found time to date even with going to every sporting event, helping out with fundrasing and school stuff, etc. Now, she could drive and that made a HUGE impact.

I have dated single moms who were still tied to driving kids and the driving seemed to be the hardest part (i.e., they had trouble making plans for an evening since they would need to drive their DS/DD someplace during the evening.) But you could have fun waiting for that time and fun afterward.

Man here.

I think if you could work on the important factors (e.g., making sure everyone is disease free and stays that way, no one gets pregnant, no spending huge amounts of money on the AP) with your SO and with your AP you could make it work.

The sister is (or soon will be) taking a ride on the bone train. She will ride the train until she finds a man who loves to cheat on his partner.

Then, she will marry him and bitch (likely on this site) about his cheating. He will dump her and she will get back on the train and ride until she finds another of the same type.

Meanwhile, her kids get to watch mommy get on and off the train with as many stops as she can fit in.

OKCupid has a vibrant group of women who are attached and a seeking a partner.

Do not use a photo that shows your face, was taken in your home, or someplace that would be tied to you. On the site, you have the chance to search for someone you would like to meet.


Contact the ones you interested in, weed out the ones who are not a fit, and find what you are looking for.

Take it slow and give yourself time to meet people. Try dating just to meeting people and not a part of searching for that "special someone" until you get back in the swing of dating.

Yes, there are bitter divorced people out there (and, sadly, on DCUM every now and then.) However, there are happy, fun, and well adjusted people out there as well.

Kids can be screwed up in happy marriages and bad marriages. They can be fine in good divorces and hostile divorces. The variable is your relationship with your child -- which you can control -- not whether you are married or not.

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Thanks everyone.

If the DH decides he doesn’t want to have a baby, shouldn’t the DW just purchase some sperm from a donor and meet her needs that way?

If she is cute, I am sure she could get it for free.

Please reply with a book or website you recommend on intermittent fasting (starting as a beginner here.)

Thanks.

When you go over child bearing age (35), the only people that will take you are 2x-2.5x your age

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Not sure I agree.

I am a 54 year old man and only want to date within 5 years of present age (up or down.) I had a GF who was 60 who was beautiful, smart, and fun to be around (ended because, at that time, I did not want to date just one person.) I was lucky to have met her.

One other item. My current GF had her youngest at 41, so please PP, make sure you consider that before believing the child bearing ceiling is 35.

I doubt they do. But at the same time, I am unclear on how negative an impact it has to model a relationship for them in which the mom and dad never talk, kiss, or act affectionate. And right now, DH goes out in the evenings to the gym or to visit his friends, so most nights he's not even home until 9pm. What would really be different if we got divorced, I wonder?

The economics of your life are likely to be very different post-divorce.

I made a deal with my EXDW to split my income for five years after our divorce (both kids are adults and I help them with graduate school, etc.) If we had gone to court, it is likely I would not have owed her as much support; however, she did stay home for a number of years with the kids and I wanted to make sure she got as good a start on single life as was possible.

One question. Have you considered the fact that your DH may be having an affair? The fact that he is out most nights until 9:00 pm without you (and not at work) seems like he might have something else going on. Best of luck to you.

Most guys are not aging very well as it is, so its not as if you have a whole to offer, physically.

OMG. And here we have bitchy judgmentalism cloaked as "honesty". Are you so much more attractive than most women your age (or believe yourself to be) that you are able to make such a narcissistic statement? If so, you should be able to post a photo and show us all what it takes to be --- you.

DW claimed she was bi when we married. She has an unlimited hall pass with women whom she never seeks out to my knowledge.

Who are these men who protest their wives fooling around with other women? Fools!

Everyone who wants to cheat on a partner (or wants to be a cuckold) can find reasons why the person they are committed to does not meet their needs (or should be allowed to cheat.) A same-sex relationship can bring all of the love and emotional involvement an opposite sex relationship can. You may enjoy having your wife bang others. Many men do.

However, many men and women uphold their end of a committed relationship. Calling someone a fool because they do not follow your lifestyle (cuckoldry) does not make you right.