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I've done it a few times and we both had a LOT of fun. You see a lot more couples in strip clubs these days.
Anonymous wrote:Blonds skin ages faster than any other woman.
Or redheads.
Anonymous wrote:I found a new hair cream I want to try. I also had a nice chicken dinner.
I just flossed my teeth.
Anonymous wrote:No normal person does this
Not until photography was invented.
Anonymous wrote:Nope, never sent or received a nude photo. Just don't understand the appeal.
You don't? Seriously?
Anonymous wrote:ZachF wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:ZachF that was such a great and informative post!
I thought he only gave advice on how to sleep with married women.
Only if asked, and you say that like it's a bad thing? Read this forum much?
Hi! I knew you would comment back but I expected you to be snarky and you actually have a sense of humor!
#sleepingwithmarriedsiswrongthough
Sorry. Off day I guess and I don't want to hijack her thread. But I do agree, sleeping with married women is wrong. She doesn't carve out a few hours to sneak away just to end up sleeping. She can do THAT at home. She wants to do something she isn't doing at home.
Anonymous wrote:Tell that ass to go to hell.
If my husband EVER told me I was fat and unattractive I'd lose 180 pounds over night and have him served with divorce papers the next day. What a mean thing your husband did.
Take his shit and find happiness without him. Who the f does he think he is ? God's gift ?
I would never let any man tell me to lose weight. For him. F him.
Fair enough. What request for change or self-improvement would you honor from your husband? Just curious. What would you expect him to do for you if asked?
Anonymous wrote:There are people here saying fat women just don't give men erections...
That is sad... and obviously know nothing about chubby chasers. There are more men interested in "fat women" than skinny... believe me!!
As for the OP - you can work out or tell him to f off and leave his a$$!
Something tells me his "fat wallet" will be a lot more skinnier and loveable then...
Yeah rigghhhtt. Keep telling yourself that. And no matter, her H isn't one of them and it doesn't sound like he's going to change into one of them because she gained 50. To be certain, there are chubby chasers and chasers of all kinds of types. You are delusional if you think there the majority of men like them fat. The decent shape, miserable husband of a fat wife is way too common a thing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:ZachF that was such a great and informative post!
I thought he only gave advice on how to sleep with married women.
Only if asked, and you say that like it's a bad thing? Read this forum much?
Anonymous wrote:ZachF that was such a great and informative post!
Thank you. I've seen enough of this MLM stuff to know.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You sound manipulative, OP. He obviously works hard to stay fit. It's not "superficial" to lose attraction to a spouse who puts on a significant amount of weight. Bringing up your mother's cancer and using this as a guilt trip is bush league and unrealistic. And you management to insult him on top of that. Stop externalizing your problems onto other people and own them.
Maybe I am emotional now.
I am sad he isn't attracted to me unconditionally.
I would love him and find him sexy no matter what he weighs. I wish he was he same.
And if he can't love me at this size, I do wonder what would happen if my body was ravaged by cancer.
Stop comparing obesity to cancer or yourself to a cancer patient. You don't contract obesity like you do cancer. People with cancer fight for their lives. They agree to go through agonizing, painful, humiliating, horrible treatments just to buy a little more time on this earth. Many do it knowing they still won't survive, but just to have more time (with a reduced quality of life) with their loved ones. What they go through just for that in no way compares to you suffering through a bit of diet and exercise where you will feel healthier and more attractive with each pound shed. And you compare that to chemo, radiation, and having body parts removed?
So OK, I'll play along anyway. You caught this sickness somehow and now you are fat and unattractive to your husband. I have good news! Unlike cancer, you can be completely cured and will only feel better and look better the whole way through "treatment." Unlike a cancer patient, you won't die from this no matter what you do, you don't need surgery, your hair (fingernails, toe nails, eye lashes, eyebrows, and pubic hair) won't fall out. You won't puke for days, unable to figure out what foods you can hold down. You only need to eat smart and get more exercise and your husband will be all over you. That's it!! Will you do it?
I'm sorry to tell you but love and attractiveness is NOT unconditional. Would you still be attracted to him if he stopped bathing and let his toenails grow out?
He gave you his honest feelings and you make no mention in this thread about doing anything about it. Just, why can't he accept my fat self? Why doesn't he love how I look no matter how many pounds I pack on? Give me a F'ing break. You could change, but you think he should change his view on what he finds attractive because that would be easier on you. Doesn't work that way and you know it.
This is real simple. Ask her what she thinks are the ten best products they sell and the purchase cost of each. Or five.
Then tell her you will get back to her. Go on ebay and put those in a search. She should be shocked to learn that a bottle of something that she is trying to sell retail for $24.95, or whatever, is on ebay with an asking price of $5 and still may not get sold at that price. THAT is her competition and she doesn't stand a chance.
Who are these people (in my best Jerry Seinfeld voice) listing this stuff so cheaply on ebay? That will be her once she finally admits failure and is stuck with all the products she bought and can't sell.
These companies make money by selling large quantities of their stuff wholesale to people they can convince, like your sister, that there is a willing market out there for their wonderful products. The products are stacked up in spare bedrooms and garages of these gullible people all over the country.
I've actually known a few people who were successful in MLM. Call it Amway, Quickstar, whatever. Exactly 2. I won't bother to mention, nor could I recall and count all the people I've met who tried and failed at it. The two I know both worked full time, good paying jobs and they were among the best in the country at the MLM thing as a sideline.
They both had their wives fully involved and yes, it was very cult like. They worked it every single day and spent many evenings a week putting on recruiting seminars in a hosts house because to make any money at all, you spend all your time recruiting new members to buy the products these members hope to sell.
Both of these guys were top level, professional sales people who would be successful in most any sales environment. No one else I've ever met could possibly do the job I saw them do.
For some reason, people get conned into thinking that sales is easy and any idiot can do it. By your description, your sister is the farthest thing from a sales person and has no business getting involved in this, any more than she should perform brain surgery.
I feel for her and I know you are concerned for her, as you should be. Especially because she left her job to do this which means she really drank all the Kool-Aid they fed her. It takes someone with years of successful sales experience, tons of charisma, a driving desire, and total support from her spouse to make this work. As you say, she has none of that and there is zero chance she will profit from this. In fact, she will take a loss.
Try to talk some sense into her before she buys any more product. Help her to open her eyes and see that the demand is just not there and she is not cut out for sales and marketing or she would already be doing that job somewhere. And ask her, why would anyone buy this from you at $XX when they can buy it online for like 1/4th $XX.
Then tell her you will get back to her. Go on ebay and put those in a search. She should be shocked to learn that a bottle of something that she is trying to sell retail for $24.95, or whatever, is on ebay with an asking price of $5 and still may not get sold at that price. THAT is her competition and she doesn't stand a chance.
Who are these people (in my best Jerry Seinfeld voice) listing this stuff so cheaply on ebay? That will be her once she finally admits failure and is stuck with all the products she bought and can't sell.
These companies make money by selling large quantities of their stuff wholesale to people they can convince, like your sister, that there is a willing market out there for their wonderful products. The products are stacked up in spare bedrooms and garages of these gullible people all over the country.
I've actually known a few people who were successful in MLM. Call it Amway, Quickstar, whatever. Exactly 2. I won't bother to mention, nor could I recall and count all the people I've met who tried and failed at it. The two I know both worked full time, good paying jobs and they were among the best in the country at the MLM thing as a sideline.
They both had their wives fully involved and yes, it was very cult like. They worked it every single day and spent many evenings a week putting on recruiting seminars in a hosts house because to make any money at all, you spend all your time recruiting new members to buy the products these members hope to sell.
Both of these guys were top level, professional sales people who would be successful in most any sales environment. No one else I've ever met could possibly do the job I saw them do.
For some reason, people get conned into thinking that sales is easy and any idiot can do it. By your description, your sister is the farthest thing from a sales person and has no business getting involved in this, any more than she should perform brain surgery.
I feel for her and I know you are concerned for her, as you should be. Especially because she left her job to do this which means she really drank all the Kool-Aid they fed her. It takes someone with years of successful sales experience, tons of charisma, a driving desire, and total support from her spouse to make this work. As you say, she has none of that and there is zero chance she will profit from this. In fact, she will take a loss.
Try to talk some sense into her before she buys any more product. Help her to open her eyes and see that the demand is just not there and she is not cut out for sales and marketing or she would already be doing that job somewhere. And ask her, why would anyone buy this from you at $XX when they can buy it online for like 1/4th $XX.
In the right moment it can be kind of hot. All the time? Not so much.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Move out of Virginia.
Actually, drive more IN Virginia. 20 over in VA means not a speeding ticket, but a court date for reckless driving. The judge will likely take her license for 6 months+ which will make her wake up.
MD is 30+ to get a reckless.
It's actually 20 in Maryland, or going over 80 regardless of the speed limit. Waze can be helpful at times, but it's usually pretty useless. Almost all the reports it shows of police are officers who already have someone pulled over, or are at the scene of an accident. Very few reports show them doing speed patrols, but I'm grateful when that does work out.
Roundup is your best bet but then you have to wait to re-seed. Otherwise, any plastic will work fine. Left on top of your lawn on a sunny day, the plants will die within an hour from the heat but leave it there a good week to really get the job done.