Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Most of the women I met on dating sites had sex with me on the first date. ALL the others did the coffee thing first, then planned sex on the next date, or no next date. Yes, it's the norm now. My biggest surprise is how few, like only two, insisted on condoms.
This is insane. STD rates in DC are through the roof, including HIV.
Yet somehow, I've managed to never catch anything while enjoying condom free sex. Woman sure love that I have a vasectomy.
How do I do that? By knowing how that demographic for the STD rates in DC Baltimore area breaks down.
How does it breakdown? Where do you get your information ??
Anonymous wrote:I don’t think he meant he was really Joe. I thought he meant he played the part of Joe, in similar situations
Anonymous wrote:I’m never doing it once. I was a pioneer in seeing the pitfalls of marriage and didn’t want any part of it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I prefer a woman who is kinky.
That's a deal breaker for me also but I will add this. I'd rather be in a relationship with a woman who has suppressed kinky desires she never got a chance to explore before, than one who has been practicing kink for some time. I'll help her explore the life. But she still has to have long hair I can grab hold of.
Why? You only want her to be a kinky whore with you? Pig.
Yeah, pretty much. If you know the world of kink and the women in it, you would understand better. A lot of them get really get damaged by it because of the F'd up men they get with. Or they have really hardened views of what is the true way, as they've experienced it in the past. It's sooo much more fun to lead someone down that path myself and have her explore it as something new. And there are plenty of women who want to explore that side of them but have only been with vanilla men who would never think of it, or she would never approach him about it.
I am a woman in the “world of kink”. And you sound like one of those F’d up guys. Maybe they have hardened views because they know what they like, and are too smart and experienced to let some rando dictate to them. The fact that you only like inexperienced women says a lot about you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. How much is 100%? I just don’t know if I can wait for months to slowly amass info. If I have the weird text, find condoms & see a weird number. Is that enough?
SO still & consistently since we met, talks about a big trip we’ll take in a few years when the kids are old enough, and our retirement (decades away but has always been our fav topic)
F. I can’t believe it.... but I think it’s time I do.
Proceed cautiously down this rabbit hole! It will suck the life out of you and your career, parenting and other relationships. Put your energy instead into building contentment and have faith the truth will come out eventually whatever it may be. The only thing worst than being cheated on is a lifetime of insecurity and suspicions, it is Hell. My advice is don’t even look unless it’s pretty freaking obvious or you just happen to find out some other way.
I think that's absurdly stupid advice.
Anonymous wrote:My (ex) husband changed my bridal registry behind my back. Instead of receiving the china & silver I had put on it, I received a bunch of leather animals which you put your feet on.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is this a new thing, sleeping over at the hospital after your wife gives birth? When did this start? I had 3 kids and was never asked or expected to stay the night. The last one was in a "birthing room" back when that was a new thing. It had a couch but there was no mention or suggestion of sleeping over. No hard feelings or resentment either and the baby and mother got all the care they needed. Do hospitals suck that bad now that they can't manage without the extra help?
Yes, it's a "thing" now that hospitals have gotten rid of the nurseries and are staffed so sparsely that there is 0 help for women who have just given birth. It's part of the "baby friendly" initiative and it sucks. This isn't 1995 anymore where the mom can send the baby to the nursery to be cared for while she gets a few hours of sleep, you are completely on your own the moment that infant leaves you body.
Anonymous wrote:I had to cut ties with a guy because I found out that he didn't use a washcloth to clean himself and only showered at night. Meaning if we had sex at night(after he showered), he wouldn't shower again until the next evening. Hygiene is a big deal to me.