Anonymous wrote:In our McLean neighborhood, nobody (literally) mows their own. Every single home has a lawn service. DS16 has a job, but I do prefer he do something a little less dangerous than mow lawns.

There is your answer right there. Men have gotten weak and now lawn care is deemed too dangerous.

Anonymous wrote:As soon as you see the slightest bit of pink on them, pull the tomatoes and put them in your house to ripen. At that point, they are no longer producing sugars and can ripen on your counter or windowsill. After years of having the little critters steal our tomatoes we have had a bumper crop this year with this strategy. 6 tomato plants and we've harvested almost 2 dozen tomatoes in the last four days, all green with the faintest bit of color and then they ripen within 36hours on the countertop.

Caprese salad for days. Mmmm....

That^^^^^ is the ONLY solution. It's a fools errand to think you can outsmart a squirrel. They will ALWAYS get to their food, but they won't eat a tomato until it at least starts to ripen. If you let them ripen on the vine, as you've learned, you are just feeding the wildlife.

He sure is dumb. He better not ever cheat for real because he will be caught for sure.

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

It's so awesome of you to mock this woman who, according to you, was raped multiple times. You must be such a great person! It's so thoughtful of you to not "create the drama" of having been raped. Kudos!

Big flag. Unless she was a victim of war crimes or held prisoner, it's doubtful she was raped multiple times.

I was thinking the same thing.

Aside from all the statistics, or childhood abuse etc., I'd steer clear of any woman who told me she was raped multiple times. Especially by multiple men and especially if she claims that several of the guys she was in a relationship with raped her. Date a woman like that and you will likely be next on her list.

Anonymous wrote:But the divorce has taken a toll on my body, and I probably have 30 extra lbs sitting around on my middle.

You blame your divorce for being overweight? Most divorced people lose weight very quickly right after the divorce.

Anonymous wrote:

It's so awesome of you to mock this woman who, according to you, was raped multiple times. You must be such a great person! It's so thoughtful of you to not "create the drama" of having been raped. Kudos!

Big flag. Unless she was a victim of war crimes or held prisoner, it's doubtful she was raped multiple times.

Nope. No agreement necessary if both desire to be divorced ASAP. Just don't let him sleep over in your bed even one time, or the one year clock starts over. I'm sure your attorney will tell you the same.

Your post reads like this:

The guy died and I'm certain his wife is to blame because she was a slut before they married. Should I warn the new guy?

WTF? So you are "certain" his wife gave it to him..how?? Were you with him at the doctor's office? Are you privy to any testing they did on him or his (former bartender-horrors) wife?

You sound like a truly horrible and misogynistic person. But don't let us stop you. Go warn all the men who are dating these harlots who had a sex life before them. Make it your mission in life to save the pure men from certain disease.

You have to decide if you can deal with a life of lies from her. She told you how her thought process works. When faced with telling you something difficult, she would rather lie and the pattern continues. Once she lies she fears telling the truth so more lies are needed to cover the first big lie. And so it goes. BTDT. You may never know what other lies she has told you but you would be foolish to believe that this is the only one.

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, being passed knickers isn't hot. Especially if they have been on all day and are not in the best of conditions.

I disagree. If they've been worn all day that's best No one person can speak for all men and what they like.

Go into your settings on Facebook, change it so that no one but you can see your friends list. Problem solved.

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Anonymous wrote:How do you even know she sees it as an emotional affair? Are you sure the infatuation was mutual?

She certainly flirts with him and feeds his ego. When dh mentioned he was sweaty and needed to take a shower, she said she would lick his body up and down. She then asked what he would do if she came over to our house right then, in the middle of the night.

OK, so here is the deal. She stepped way out of line and I don't know what his motivation is for telling you, but now that he has, it's all fair game to act on. You are not bound by any agreement not to repeat his words. Contact her by phone and say, I hear you want to lick my husband's body up and down? Do you also want to die? Is that part of your fantasy? Because that's how you die.

I would and I have. Especially if you don't think your partner is using the right language, or making things clear for whatever reason. Who cares if that makes you, "the crazy one." Would you rather be the passive one who gets stepped on and takes it? Some people need to be confronted. How you do it and what you say is another matter.

Anonymous wrote:Christina Hendricks is the sexiest woman alive.

And...not a real redhead.