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Breathing and heart rate may be the problem? Is he holding his breath, shallow breathing? As another said, maybe exercise and cardio would help?
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Anonymous wrote:TwistdMike wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you speak Spanish? Does she speak English? And I don’t mean basic skills but full fluency. I’ve spent significant time living in Argentina and have visited every country in Latin America through a combination of tourism and business travel. In no country did I get more male attention than Argentina. I also regularly had people ask me to write visa sponsorship letters for my country which is not the US.
OP Here -- Yes she speaks English very well. I'm very well traveled and have met lots of nice foreigners, but this is the first one that has made me consider anything more than a fling. We've been texting since I've been back and sharing pictures from the trip. Mostly small talk with some talk about possibly meeting up again. The consensus here seems to be that I'm about to get scammed and lose a kidney.
If you were going to lose a kidney, it would have already happened while you were there.
I’ve had relationships abroad, ended up marrying one of them, going on double digits in happy years. Not everyone is out to get you or use you for your nationality. My wife has said many times, the land of the free is not free at all. Meaning the taxes, laws, conservative views are much more restrictive than her native country.
Just go into the relationship with a little caution, not giving more than you’re willing to lose, until you get to know her, her family, culture, and what will be expected of you.
Learning a new culture, experiences, foods, etc. can be a great and happy journey.
Go for it and enjoy!
OP Here - Thanks -- how did you build the relationship over long distance? Honestly, I want to move out of the US if the circumstances were right. A lot of other countries are awesome.
Expat life is not for everyone, but if you’re built for it and open minded, it’s great. I’ve had a good ride and don’t see an end to it anytime soon. Depending on your career choice, it may be easier to achieve than you think, even teachers can get jobs abroad for english skills.
I frequently traveled to her country, so we were able to spend time together quite often, maybe 5 months out of the year. Social apps such as WhatsApp, Facebook, FaceTime, etc. filled in the gaps with online camera time. We did this for a year or so before making the larger commitment. Even today, we still are separated from time to time, depending upon life, activities with family and friends, we probably spend 3 months out of the year apart. I think it makes us appreciate each other more.
Long distance relationships are like expat life, some are built for it while others are not. You will never truly know unless you try it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you speak Spanish? Does she speak English? And I don’t mean basic skills but full fluency. I’ve spent significant time living in Argentina and have visited every country in Latin America through a combination of tourism and business travel. In no country did I get more male attention than Argentina. I also regularly had people ask me to write visa sponsorship letters for my country which is not the US.
OP Here -- Yes she speaks English very well. I'm very well traveled and have met lots of nice foreigners, but this is the first one that has made me consider anything more than a fling. We've been texting since I've been back and sharing pictures from the trip. Mostly small talk with some talk about possibly meeting up again. The consensus here seems to be that I'm about to get scammed and lose a kidney.
If you were going to lose a kidney, it would have already happened while you were there.
I’ve had relationships abroad, ended up marrying one of them, going on double digits in happy years. Not everyone is out to get you or use you for your nationality. My wife has said many times, the land of the free is not free at all. Meaning the taxes, laws, conservative views are much more restrictive than her native country.
Just go into the relationship with a little caution, not giving more than you’re willing to lose, until you get to know her, her family, culture, and what will be expected of you.
Learning a new culture, experiences, foods, etc. can be a great and happy journey.
Go for it and enjoy!
Research your state laws, there should be something in regards to access to minors, it’s illegal. Maybe highlighting this will help? However, typically the laws do not stop with minors, includes family, visitors, contractors, etc.
Most LTC holders are lawful and will not infringe. I always have control of my firearms or they are secured.
Good luck!
Most LTC holders are lawful and will not infringe. I always have control of my firearms or they are secured.
Good luck!
Anonymous wrote:F here. It bothers me when DH doesn't say "excuse me". Or, if he's otherwise inconsiderae (say, comes in the car and lets one out as soon as he closes the door; should have farted on the sidewalk.)
I do this to DW, as soon as the elevator door closes.
Anonymous wrote:Revenge served hot:
1. I aired all our dirty laundry to one of the executive admins at his job knowing she would spread anything I told her.
Revenge served warm:
2. Told him I wanted to work things out and got him into marriage counseling and just when he thought things were settled down I served him papers while he was at lunch with clients. Awkward!
Revenge served cold:
3. Years after the divorce I found out he was getting remarried so I sued for a custodial modification by serving him on the morning of the wedding and also asking for more child support.
4. I also saved up all the medical bills for months and had a few thousand dollars of reimbursement receipts delivered to him the day they returned from their honeymoon.
5. A month into the case I dropped my attorney and started calling his attorney every day to discuss various things because I knew his lawyer was charging $500 per hour. I did that for several months until just before the hearing and I dropped the case. It cost him around 20 grand. I know this caused a lot of problems for him during their first year of marriage. It also made the kids upset with him because he didn't have money for their Christmas and birthdays.
6. Occasionally I'll agree to extended summer vacations for the kids and then play "hard to get" concerning the pickup and drop off dates. This really pisses him off when he needs to buy airline tickets because he can't really make reservations for anything until that gets worked out. He likes to make reservations in advance.
Q: Why is divorce so expensive?
A: Because it's worth it.
Q: What do you call a woman who has lost 90% of her intelligence?
A: Divorced
Twenty Years Ago A woman awoke during the night to find that her husband was not in bed. She put on her robe and went downstairs. He was sitting at the kitchen table with a cup of coffee in front of him. He appeared to be in deep thought, just staring at the wall. She saw him wipe a tear from his eye and take a sip of his coffee. "What's the matter dear? Why are you down here at this time of night?" she asked. "Do you remember twenty years ago when we were dating and you were only 16?" he asked. "Yes, I do," she replied. "Do you remember when your father caught us in the back seat of my car making out?" "Yes, I remember." "Do you remember when he shoved that shotgun in my face and said, 'Either you marry my daughter or spend twenty years in jail?'" "Yes, I do," she said. He wiped another tear from his cheek and said, "You know...I would have gotten out today."
source: http://www.jokes4us.com/dirtyjokes/divorcejokes.html
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Damn, this thread is discouraging for short guys!
Short men are creepy and gross. I'm taller (5'9") and athletic (NCAA D-1 volleyball&bball) and being in an elevator with a short man makes my skin crawl. I'm taking short like less than 5'7". I can feel their eyes on me, looking me up and down like I'm some prized tree they can climb. Yuck! Plus, short men have less to offer in the bedroom, too. Taller is better because bigger is better, haha!
What if their nickname is "Tripod", that's gotta be worth a few inches in height?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Without getting explicit, are you comfortable... fulfilling that need for him?
She doesn't have a very important part that he may be unable to go without longterm....
Amazon.com... you can buy just about anything there. She just needs to be willing to fulfill that need or want.
Just show him a new port that he plug his joystick in, problem solved 
Anonymous wrote:Did you force him to get the tattoo or something? Is he like this with other things? He sounds unhinged and unable to deal with things. Please don't have kids with this man.
The DW keeps trying to push me into getting a tat, but I refuse to get "Mimi's Bitch" on my ass !
Sure, I'll hold the door for anyone, that is within five paces, I do it with a smile and without expectations. I've found if you do it with a smile, catch their eyes, say good morning, usually receives a positive response.
However, I will go out of my way to open doors for my DW. That small gesture always puts a smile on her face, makes her feel special, and is always appreciated. The returns are tenfold. I see it as how any man should treat his DW, that he loves and respects.
I'm 42...
However, I will go out of my way to open doors for my DW. That small gesture always puts a smile on her face, makes her feel special, and is always appreciated. The returns are tenfold. I see it as how any man should treat his DW, that he loves and respects.
I'm 42...
Anonymous wrote:He can't be satisfied unless he has multiple partners?? Don't all vaginas do the same thing? You two sound like two idiots running from your problems just to create more problems
But the women attached to the vaginas aren't the same.
Attitude and how you use them to keep your man happy is the discerning difference
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?
Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?
OP here. No one in mind specifically, though I've been talking with some blasts from the past. I'm really just looking to screw a strange man - lol.
Hi. I'm Mike.
Pleased to meet you, with meat to please you.
Good luck in your adventures and take it a little slow to weed out the wierdo(s)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Because it leaves one parent to do bedtime duty. If they have small kids, that's a job that requires all hands on deck
One person can do it
Let's be real OP waited 4 hours to decide to eat. She's not cut out to handle bedtime on her own.
I wonder if this is the same poster who needed her husband to console her over a dress, and who wakes her husband up to entertain her when she can't sleep at night.
If it is I strongly suggest counseling the infantile behavior comes from someplace, and she needs help .
I happily entertain my wife when she can't sleep, poor man's sleeping pill