Can I have sex?

[Anonymous]

I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

[Anonymous]

You can.

Should you?

What are you looking to gain from it?
Pure pleasure and release you're probably okay/ Wanting to prove you're still hot and make your STBX jealous not a good idea.
How good are you from separating emotions from the physical?

If you catch feelings easier it might be better to hold off until you on more solid ground emotionally.

[Anonymous]

You can do whatever you want. Just be ready to accept the consequences of it, which are broad and deep.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can.

Should you?

What are you looking to gain from it?
Pure pleasure and release you're probably okay/ Wanting to prove you're still hot and make your STBX jealous not a good idea.
How good are you from separating emotions from the physical?

If you catch feelings easier it might be better to hold off until you on more solid ground emotionally.

Definitely looking for pleasure and release. I've always been very sexual so my recent drought has been tough. I just want to get laid - not looking for love or a boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can do whatever you want. Just be ready to accept the consequences of it, which are broad and deep.

Examples?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You can do whatever you want. Just be ready to accept the consequences of it, which are broad and deep.

Examples?

The ex finding out and using it against you in proceedings

The new fwb actually using you emotionally or financially (trust me they smell this from a mile away)

[Anonymous]

Dumbest question ever
Most of the reponses are equally dumb
OP: yes

[Anonymous]

Yes, go ahead. There won't be any issues. If you have kids, keep them FAR but sex for its own sake is easy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You can do whatever you want. Just be ready to accept the consequences of it, which are broad and deep.

Examples?

The ex finding out and using it against you in proceedings

The new fwb actually using you emotionally or financially (trust me they smell this from a mile away)

Oh FFS. Sometimes a screw is just screw. OP do it! I'm in the same boat and it is soooooo liberating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?

OP here. No one in mind specifically, though I've been talking with some blasts from the past. I'm really just looking to screw a strange man - lol.

[Anonymous]

Yes!!! Go get some girl. Just use condoms and birth control.

[Anonymous]

How are you going to make the emotional connection that I hear women need before they want sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Do you have someone in mind for this or are you looking for a man on dcum?

OP here. No one in mind specifically, though I've been talking with some blasts from the past. I'm really just looking to screw a strange man - lol.

Maybe hire an escort?

[Anonymous]

Do it!! It feels sooooo good! The first time after a divorce is amazing. I had so many orgasms.

FYI my FWB ended up being my absolute soulmate and we have been happily married for 11 years. But I would have been fine with just a hookup!