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Don't poo in your own bathroom.

You have to go to the nearest public restroom. So, plan ahead...
1st world problems... am I right?

It's really not that big of a deal, that's what courtesy flushes are for.

It's part of life. Through the trenches of raising a family, illnesses, life in general, she has seen me at my worst as I her. From holding her hair back while she was ill to cleaning the bed after the unexpected. It is life.

What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger. Same in relationships.

There are much worse things in life. At least you're not on a buddy system while they go do the dooty to ensure they're not eaten by the lions, tigers, bears... hogs.
If the parents are paying 30k, 50k, 70k, etc. for the wedding... then they can wear whatever they want.
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Anonymous wrote:Prediction:

This is the end of transparency for the OP's husband because after this never-ending browbeating he's never going to divulge the full details of anything that happens ever again.



Haha my Husband didn't get a browbeating. Ffs.

I didn't even bring it up , he brought it up immediately and I just let him share. He asked what I would have done. I said it's hard to say I might have frozen too but I think just excusing yourself and offering her your seat would have looked a lot better and made me more comfortable. that was it. We've moved on. He's embarrassed, I'm embarrassed for him. He thought everyone at work would bring it up today. I'm sure if they did be will want to talk about again tonight. And I will let him


A very sane and rational response, props to you!
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Anonymous wrote:If you are uncomfortable calling him your ex, it may be too soon to have sex with others.


Let's not a couple of you start judging that fast. I know it's DCUM. I didn't say I was uncomfortable, but was asking what the appropriate word was. I've been calling him my ex, my ex-husband, and my husband, not sure what I should call him.

You have sex 4 times in 4 years and see where you end up when you move out of the house and it's agreed the marriage is over.


Sounds like it doesn't matter what you call him... he ain't cuming. Ba dum tss
Self-preservation. He was probably worried about a picture popping up on some social app.
I've been to Thailand and SE Asia over a dozen times and never once slept with a prostitute. I value "miniMike" too much and our health.

It depends on a persons moral compass.

As others have said, the seedy areas are evident. Stay away from those areas and the country, people are wonderful. There are many, many things to do there other than the sex industries.

"Don't go on a date with a loaded gun"

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9p3j294sqM8
What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.

Or does it? If the relationship did take that extra step, could you live with it?
The dynamics of our relationship is ever changing, depending upon the topic or area of our life. Sometimes I lead and sometimes she leads, the power shifts, it works well for us. There are times we may not agree, but being respectful of each other and discussion is key.

The bedroom is much the same, depending on mood. Sometimes I like to let her wear the pants just so I can take them off.

For me, I like her being strong and opinionated, it leads to good conversation and fun. She is often the life of the party and all of our family & friends enjoy time with us, because you never know what next we might say or do.
Anonymous wrote:I thought my DH was doing this. Turns out he had raging jock itch and was vigorously scratching his balls in his sleep.

Gross.


Well... There's that... OMG... hilarious

We like going to the movies every once and a while. Usually we try to go on a weekday while others are working, no crowds and can choose the best seats.
Libido surge, cycle from time to time, he may be having a peak at the moment? Rather than waking you up and letting you get a full night's rest, he chose to take matters in his own hand.

If you're willing to put in the extra time, tell him in a frank, easy, loving way. If not, continue to play possum.
Anonymous wrote:DW and I keep our sex life private. Plus if our circle of friends New how kinky we were they would probably be shocked to death.


Us too!

However, I did tell my best friend to go to my house and get rid of the looked carry-on bag if something was to happen to the DW and me. Definitely wouldn't want friends and family to find that.
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