So Hot for Redheads- how can you tell a fetish from a preference with an attraction to redheads?

Anonymous
What defines a redhead fetish?
Anonymous
I am a redhead and I don't know how to tell you whether to are a creep but I know when to avoid one. Generally anyone interested in knowing the color of my pubic hair is not getting anywhere with me. My DH is not a redhead chaser. I wouldn't want him to be. I find them creepy.
Anonymous
Meh. I'm a redhead and I don't mind guys who like redheads. I like guys with dark hair. NBD. Now, if the guy had a shrine to redheads that might be weird.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Meh. I'm a redhead and I don't mind guys who like redheads. I like guys with dark hair. NBD. Now, if the guy had a shrine to redheads that might be weird.


Some guys are gross about it though. It's fine to have preferences, but some guys take it too far. Assuming I'm crazy, good in bed, or slutty because I'm a redhead won't get you very far. I am good in bed, but it's not because of my hair color. It really turns me off when guys say they always wanted to be with a redhead, because it makes me feel like they're just crossing something off their bucket list, or they wouldn't be talking to me if I had brown hair.
Anonymous
Red heads and poorly the skin is bad
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meh. I'm a redhead and I don't mind guys who like redheads. I like guys with dark hair. NBD. Now, if the guy had a shrine to redheads that might be weird.


Some guys are gross about it though. It's fine to have preferences, but some guys take it too far. Assuming I'm crazy, good in bed, or slutty because I'm a redhead won't get you very far. I am good in bed, but it's not because of my hair color. It really turns me off when guys say they always wanted to be with a redhead, because it makes me feel like they're just crossing something off their bucket list, or they wouldn't be talking to me if I had brown hair.

Sure you are. LOL
Anonymous
Christina Hendricks is the sexiest woman alive.
Anonymous
I'm still pretty hot, but back in the day my nickname was 'burning bush'.
Anonymous
I'm married to one....do it if you want crazy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Christina Hendricks is the sexiest woman alive.


I'm sorry you haven't met me yet...keep looking.
ZachF
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Anonymous wrote:Christina Hendricks is the sexiest woman alive.


And...not a real redhead.
Anonymous
Before getting to know someone we just like what we like for no real good reasons. I love women's legs, if I hear high heels clicking somewhere my head will uncontrollably spin around to find her, but if that beautiful pair of legs was attached to someone dumb, or mean or racist or what have you they could never be someone I would want to be with.
Anonymous
A fetish is an extreme attraction or a requirement in order to get off sexually. In another post, I mentioned I dated a guy with a foot fetish. His fetus has meant he exclusively focused on my feet. When having vaginal sex, he was bored. But slobbering on my feet, he could get off. That's a fetish b

I have a friend who is into some really freaky stuff. (Don't want to be explicit on this board). He can no longer have regular sex. Or even slightly kinky stuff. He has to go all out super kinky every time. He'd rather not have sex than have regular sex. That's a fetish.

So if you have to be with a red-head. If you focus solely on her hair. If every sexual encounter has to have her hair involved. If you can't see past her hair and see her as a complete human beyond her hair, then you might have a fetish.

If you notice her red hair and that makes you want to get to know her more, then you are just attracted to red heads.
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