I’m with my kids right now! I never lost visitation (??). |
You previously said that you sent your kids overseas to live with your ex while you were in school. Contemplating being a stripper. |
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This is all so icky and I feel sorry for you and your kids.
Peace, Actual former stripper with a truly beautiful life. |
Attention seeking you mean… |
And so not Interesting. |
| Income per year? |
| I'm confused. At least post links to the other threads so nrw folks can figure this crap out. |
Perhaps OP should have titled the thread Update rather than AMA. But it is absolutely interesting when someone who was in despair comes back with a positive outcome. |
| Did you ever go to therapy? Did you figure out why you are predisposed to making really bad life choices? |
Yep. My car broke down and I had zero money to replace it. My ex offered to keep the kids while I got on my feet. Today I am remarried, own my home, finished my degree program, and work as a professional. |
What’s icky? |
Combined HHI of $240k. |
| When did you get remarried? Was it to the guy who owned the farm? |
I started therapy two months before I left my ex-husband. I made poor life choices due to C-PTSD from being physically, emotionally, and sexually abused as a child. I was retraumatized in my previous marriage to an emotionally and financially abusive spouse who also cheated on me. Despite my many struggles after leaving my ex, it was a period of tremendous growth and I learned many positive habits to create a functional and happy life for myself and my kids. I’ve since married a man who treats me like gold. And I’m still in therapy! |