Can/will this be used against me?

[Anonymous]

I'm just landing on my feet after leaving cheating husband. Two small children. He's avoiding paying for them (has given me $700 in two months) and child support services seems convinced they can't collect while he's overseas (he lives in Europe). I've found an okay job but it's not really enough to support the three of us well. I'm thinking of stripping a couple of days a week to create a cushion. Could this be used against me in a divorce?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't do it, it could be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm just landing on my feet after leaving cheating husband. Two small children. He's avoiding paying for them (has given me $700 in two months) and child support services seems convinced they can't collect while he's overseas (he lives in Europe). I've found an okay job but it's not really enough to support the three of us well. I'm thinking of stripping a couple of days a week to create a cushion. Could this be used against me in a divorce?

You have a degree use he degree you have to get a better job and go to nursing school. This assumes you are an actual woman in this situation.


Otherwise get a life a find a better way to spend your time, writing fanfiction is a better use of your time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm just landing on my feet after leaving cheating husband. Two small children. He's avoiding paying for them (has given me $700 in two months) and child support services seems convinced they can't collect while he's overseas (he lives in Europe). I've found an okay job but it's not really enough to support the three of us well. I'm thinking of stripping a couple of days a week to create a cushion. Could this be used against me in a divorce?

You have a degree use he degree you have to get a better job and go to nursing school. This assumes you are an actual woman in this situation.


Otherwise get a life a find a better way to spend your time, writing fanfiction is a better use of your time.

I do have a degree and have been applying to professional jobs, to no avail (yet). Stripping is (would be) a stop-gap option, not a long-term plan. I need more financial security to go back to school.

[Anonymous]

You need to ask your lawyer. I don't think it can be used against you, but you need to ask your lawyer, not the internet.

[Anonymous]

Just do some waitressing. Cocktail waitress would be easy, heavy tips, and also at night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm just landing on my feet after leaving cheating husband. Two small children. He's avoiding paying for them (has given me $700 in two months) and child support services seems convinced they can't collect while he's overseas (he lives in Europe). I've found an okay job but it's not really enough to support the three of us well. I'm thinking of stripping a couple of days a week to create a cushion. Could this be used against me in a divorce?

You have a degree use he degree you have to get a better job and go to nursing school. This assumes you are an actual woman in this situation.


Otherwise get a life a find a better way to spend your time, writing fanfiction is a better use of your time.

I do have a degree and have been applying to professional jobs, to no avail (yet). Stripping is (would be) a stop-gap option, not a long-term plan. I need more financial security to go back to school.

Use your communications degree to get a job that pays more than you $9 an hour and gives you benefits. You've been given advice before but you just don't want to work hard. You want a quick fix to all your problems.

[Anonymous]

It probably won't be used against you, but stripping is not simply easy money. You have to almost lose your soul for a few hours to do it. Imagine anybody who walks into a room being able to see your body. You don't get to pick and choose. Then you must be willing to grind on and be gripped by anyone willing to pay a few bucks. I used to strip and I'm so much happier being an educated professional my family can be proud of.

It is not glamorous with tons of easy money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm just landing on my feet after leaving cheating husband. Two small children. He's avoiding paying for them (has given me $700 in two months) and child support services seems convinced they can't collect while he's overseas (he lives in Europe). I've found an okay job but it's not really enough to support the three of us well. I'm thinking of stripping a couple of days a week to create a cushion. Could this be used against me in a divorce?

You have a degree use he degree you have to get a better job and go to nursing school. This assumes you are an actual woman in this situation.


Otherwise get a life a find a better way to spend your time, writing fanfiction is a better use of your time.

I do have a degree and have been applying to professional jobs, to no avail (yet). Stripping is (would be) a stop-gap option, not a long-term plan. I need more financial security to go back to school.

Use your communications degree to get a job that pays more than you $9 an hour and gives you benefits. You've been given advice before but you just don't want to work hard. You want a quick fix to all your problems.

Lol sure. Did you see where I wrote "I've been applying for professional jobs"??

[Anonymous]

I don't think stripping could be used against you nor do I think selling your children into child slavery could be used against you. But, i'm not an attorney. If you are not a troll you are an idiot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It probably won't be used against you, but stripping is not simply easy money. You have to almost lose your soul for a few hours to do it. Imagine anybody who walks into a room being able to see your body. You don't get to pick and choose. Then you must be willing to grind on and be gripped by anyone willing to pay a few bucks. I used to strip and I'm so much happier being an educated professional my family can be proud of.

It is not glamorous with tons of easy money.

OP here - I'm not under the impression that it is. I have a girlfriend who used to dance at a NoVA club and still has connections there. She gave me a good idea of what to expect. I'm simply concerned about potential ramifications.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think stripping could be used against you nor do I think selling your children into child slavery could be used against you. But, i'm not an attorney. If you are not a troll you are an idiot.

An idiot for wanting to pay my bills? Must have had an easy life there princess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think stripping could be used against you nor do I think selling your children into child slavery could be used against you. But, i'm not an attorney. If you are not a troll you are an idiot.

I agree - why not just apply for a high paying job and during the interview bend over, touch your toes and say that you would like to assume an entry level position.

[Anonymous]

DCUM, yet again, shows how disconnected from reality this subset of overprivileged, overeducated know-nothings really are.

[Anonymous]

If you promise not to keep posting, your answer is yes, strip. Sounds very classy. Your kids will be proud.