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So tell him what the problems you are seeing... talk to the kid's parents... I don't know what you're looking for for an answer here.
Anonymous wrote:OP, as an African American, I must say that I am not surprised by you comments. I have always known that there is so much that others would love to say about me or to me.
But keep in mind, there are many things that I hold back on too. These are things that aren't even insults, but observations that I think many others would find offensive. Things having to do with white family structure, and so on (won't elaborate).
Importantly, even though on the outside, I appear to be the model black woman, you really wouldn't guess what I go through. I am thin, pretty, make 300K a year, well educated, parents well educated, and even married to a white man! I speak foreign languages, traveled and so on. That should do the trick, shouldn't it? But I hope that you understand that I often ask myself things like why the white women I work with get more relaxed schedules when they have babies, and why they make 50K more than I do. (BTW, before you get into that bell curve nonsense, my SAT scores were over 1400 in the days that no one "studied" for them, so were my 4 sisters'). In the end, the stress is unbearable at times.
For the record, I would never let Dr. Laura into my home because she is crass, and that was before these comments. Also, my husband does not hang out with low classed people like the ones that caller identified as her husband's "friends".


I really don't understand the point of this response.. All you've really managed to do, is tell me that you see problems with white people/families, and than proceed to build yourself up.. IMO, some of the biggest "racism" problems that we face today, are people looking for ways that they're being discriminated against so that they can call racism. And that's not just African Americans either.. (how many times have you heard things like "well if we had a White Entertainment Television, it'd be discrimination and racist" and comments like that...)
I would have to agree with the PP that asked how old your child was... because IMHO that makes a big difference.. just make sure you keep his feelings in mind.
I don't remember the name of the OB but I had my daughter at Bethesda National Naval Medical Medical Center. They induced me because I had high blood pressure, and than after 28 hours of labor (and their charge nurse screwing up my pitocin levels twice) I had a C-Section. That went really well, they did everything they could to make sure I was as comfortable as you can be.. and I healed miraculously quickly..
Maybe if you didn't watch so much porn and/or if you weren't trying to hide your excessive porn viewing, you wouldn't have this problem.. just saying..
It must be like this in all the malls because I notice it in the Dulles Town Center also, just walking by turns me away from going in there.
I don't understand what the point of this conversation even is. It's stupid. Anything that might come across with even the slightest potential insult shouldn't be said. Is it really that hard to control ourselves? Should it be that difficult to censor ourselves from saying things that we really shouldn't be saying to begin with? Why would you be interested in saying things that would be hurtful to anyone else..
I wash them and than I put them in a pillow case when I dry them because it's supposed to help them stay fluffier...
TROLL..... that's what I have to say about that.
Glad I'm not the only one who smells a troll here.
Seriously what is the point of this question? He doesn't like to talk about kids, some people just don't like kids.. leave it at that, it doesn't matter if any of us have seen it before.. just leave it alone... With all of the pps that don't get why it matters.
Someone said something about the kids not living lives of seclusion?? Have you forgotten that they live in the freakin whitehouse?? Where I'm so sure they just go bored all day every day right?
Do you get paid every two weeks? We usually pay all of our monthly bills with the first check of a month, and than the next months rent with the second check. That works really well for us... We also do alll of our banking and bill paying online like the PP said, it makes life SOOO much easier.
Obama's whole campaign was about change. Better economy, more jobs, better health care and the like. What of the things he has promised is anywhere close to being better? (and don't say health care reform that's a whole other topic that just sucks.)
You know, you said that in the other thread also.. but yes, for people who don't like him already, this is indeed another affirmation of our dislike. You're absolutely right. I really don't know what you're hoping to accomplish with that statement but you keep making it lol
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