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Anonymous wrote:I lived together with DH for three years before getting married. It's seven years later and we have two kids..... I will caveat with this -- I don't see the point of having a live-in boyfriend if you are too young -- I think that early 20s should be sent playing the fields as women rather than cereal monogamy to get used to living on your own for a while.... For example, I think that it might be a mistake to move in with boyfriend straight out of college b/c you never get a sense of independence.... But to each their own!


ITA. You've got to play the aisle. Wheaties, Cheerios, All-Bran, Kashi, Shredded Wheat, Total, Chex, Rice Krispies, Life -- there are so many tasty options from which to choose.


Whats that make the generic Giant brand?
Anonymous wrote:I've never responded with this before but this is just dying for it. Mind your own damn business OP. Nobody cares what you think of their living arrangements.


This. You also tend to forget the area in which we live. More often than not, it is MUCH more cost effective to live with a boyfriend/girlfriend before getting married simply because it is expensive to maintain two separate domiciles while courting one another.

Think it all the way through.
You will need to find out the other dudes intent with you first, before you can plan or decide anything about your current life.

Make educated decisions.
Can very well be nerves. I used to throw up all the time before a big wrestling match. Happened from about 7th grade all through college. Never had a problem.

Watch, and let her decide. She will know if she can 'go' or not.
That really sucks OP but I think you got your answer.

Sorry.
I would never want to know.

If there was a time when you needed something and I wasn't providing that something, well, I ca understand but don't be stupid enough to get caught or tell me.
If you want to feel threatened at a mall, go to Springfield Mall. Nothing wrong with Pentagon City at all. Crime occurs everywhere.

If this was a brutal mass murder event, then my thoughts would be different.

Stay safe to all.
I havent read this whole thread, but my kid used one until she was about 3 months old and then never again. Now though, she sucks her thumb most of the time just like one would with a paci - minus the tantrums.

Whats the consensus on the kids using the thumb vice a paci?
Anonymous wrote:I only bathe once a year, dirt is a protective coating that prevents the plague.


lol... Dont joke. I know people like that.
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday i saw a picture of myself at a road race. I'm fit and have a 21 BMI and still my boobs looked like they were at my waist and my thighs were flapping in the breeze. I was totally unprepared for the discovery that even a fit 43 yo body looks like shit. I think i am going on are hunger strike though it probably won't help. I guess I could just avoid cameras.


What might look like shit to you, might look good to others.

lol... For some reason lots of guys think that if they talk trash about their woman, another woman will want to make everything all right. Ive actually had these conversations with friends and I just have to walk away at some point. Its absurd.
Oh yeah. Any guy who tears his wife down to another female in hopes of getting laid is a guy who's trying for a pity fuck.

That's just wrong.
Should have told you. Ask him if he wants you to disappear without him knowing.
Anonymous wrote:Does anybody get the vibe that this is that poster who's posted here a few other times about his wife...he starts off pretty reasonable sounding but then over a few pages morphs into this paragon who is totally perfect but just married to a shrew? There's this one dude who keeps coming back...I think the last time it was about a depressed wife who didn't do anything all day. Remember?


Im new so no but I did get the feeling that this was sort of along the lines of some mental script. Like the story has been told many times before.
Anonymous wrote:I actually think this is normal and I'm surprised to hear other people say it's not. I have never found another parent who has never had the thought crossing their mind of horrible things happening to their children. Find me that parent, and I'd say there is something wrong with THEM.


This.

Thoughts are just thoughts until they turn into actions.
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