Anonymous wrote:Yell at her- are you ignoring me cause I'm white?? You are racist!!!
Anonymous wrote:Really, for women it is often nothing to do with the physical, and everything has to do with mental, and not like you would think. OP, women need to be appreciated outside of the bedroom. The more you appreciate her for everything she does for the family, help her and show gratitude, the higher the likelihood you pass will work. Hug her, without the expectation of it leading somewhere here and there. Hold her hand. Romance her, but build into it slowly, because you need her to think this is about you appreciating her, not about getting sex. It may take some time, but appreciation everyday followed by romance works. Good luck.
Anonymous wrote:I am occasionally plagued with worries about my kids' well-being - to the point that i vividlyimagine something terrible happening like DD falling and hitting her head and becoming unconscious, or a car colliding into the rear of mine and seriously injuring my kids...awful feeling. It doesn't help that we were recently involved in a car accident (though were all fine). I have a vivid imagination and an anxious nature. Anyone else go through this? It's not constant, and I can usually shake it off, but I don't know if it's a normal part of parenthood or if it's time to see a therapist.
Anonymous wrote:Someone posted in the sausage discussion about this and I was wondering if others don't wash with soap too. I wash with soap and then dry with a towel before air drying. I know that is not what you are supposed to do but I can't bear not to wash the thing. I've had the thing for 15 years and it occasionally gets rusty but I wash the rust out then use and it's fine. Am I missing something?
Anonymous wrote:Hi FBO, OP here and I actually did it with a little water on medium heat. for about 15 mins, draining the water and browning for few minutes afterwards. However, I had cooked a batch of peppers and onions in olive oil beforehand. Took me awhile to get used to this whole cast iron skillet thing (can't wash it with soap? I'm Jewish, that's an anathema to me.) But now I've got this sucker properly seasoned and I love it! So much better than non-stick chemical coated pans. Healthier and better tasting results. Have a great day!