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With the box support for the diamond, you will need a large diamond to fill the space. It will look much smaller when set.
We get weird when you guys are pregnant because all kinds of stuff is going through our heads. He may be overly concerned for your health during the labor and stuff and his way of not stressing out over it is to not talk about it.

One week before my daughter was to be born, I had a buddy call me and the only thing he said was 'which one?' I asked him what he meant and he said "When the doc turns to you during the c-section and says 'I can only save one, your wife, or the daughter, which one will you pick?" I doubt i was the perfect partner after that leading up to the delivery but I never told her about it - she just thought I was upset at work.

There may be things you dont know about and him not letting you talk to him about your feelings is not going to help. Its a tough spot, but you both have to find a joint voice to work through it together.

Just a thought.
I have to agree with above. You know what you need to do but you dont want to admit it. You need to put YOURSELF first in this one and decide what YOU need to be happy for the rest of your life.

BTDT & it sucks. But its what you have to do to keep YOU.
Anonymous wrote:Really? Hmmm, I have never bought anything off E-Bay before. Where should I look? Do a search for frumpy fat lady exercise clothes? I am only kind of kidding. B/c that is how I feel. Thanks...


If that is how you feel, then just do something differently that makes you feel differently. Then you can go from there.

Buy a size up, drawstring waistbands, spanx or mens boxer briefs under the shorts will help as well. Plus they help you to sweat more
Communication and talking to one another. Being HONEST about what you feel, and what you want. And don't take every single freaking word as a personal attack on you.
Under Armor on E-bay. Seriously. Only buy stuff that still has the tags on it.

Also, if you are putting in the time to lose the weight, who gives a flying f- what someone thinks you look like? You're losing the weight for YOU, so dont worry about it and before you know it, the cycle will be broken and you will fit into those smaller clothes.

Any person that wants to judge you on what you are wearing working out, without recognizing the action of working out, can get lost.

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