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Ive heard that site is a joke but I know nothing about it except the concept.
Fight fire with fire.
Why do most kids stop biting if they are biters? Most common answer is: because they get bit back!
When they go bonkers, put on the Drill Instructor voice and calm the situation.
Why do most kids stop biting if they are biters? Most common answer is: because they get bit back!
When they go bonkers, put on the Drill Instructor voice and calm the situation.
Only in the winter. Insurance will take care of the rest.
I dont think this thread turned out as expected.
When my ex and I split, we went through everything in the house and decided to keep it, or throw it away. It was crazy how many trips I had to take to the dump.
I used to could fit in 2 seabags. Now I fit in a large u-haul and that is good enough for me.
I used to could fit in 2 seabags. Now I fit in a large u-haul and that is good enough for me.
Anonymous wrote:Life is long. You will have ups and downs and so will other people. They may have professional success greater than yours and personal struggles greater than yours. Wasting your emotional energy on jealousy and envy will only make you miserable. Love what you have. Believe it is enough because it is.
And learn to love yourself unconditionally.
That right there is what its all about.
Anonymous wrote:If I was attracted to the guy, hell yes.
So would you make a move on the guy? Or wait for him to try it first?
Just curious.
For those posters above... sorry 
I found one of the potential problems with marriage is that the little things start getting taken for granted, or they get lost becuase of time. Little things like the text that just says "damn, I miss you" or the single rose that you pick up on your way home. We tend to make marriage a business more than a partnership and businesses rarely make it through the things a marriage has to make it through.
Im divorced, and it was entirely because of what I stated above. My ex and I are wonderful friends, see each other all the time, raise our kid together, all of that but there was no passion anymore. We stopped trying and we acted like it was a business. Business and passion dont work together; we recognized that and moved on in our lives for our own good.
I learned from that and now understand what it means to truly be with someone - mental first, then the physical. Its been working so far.
Oh, and once every two months would be more than unbearable. I dont know how you guys do it; Im way to charged up everyday for that.
I found one of the potential problems with marriage is that the little things start getting taken for granted, or they get lost becuase of time. Little things like the text that just says "damn, I miss you" or the single rose that you pick up on your way home. We tend to make marriage a business more than a partnership and businesses rarely make it through the things a marriage has to make it through.
Im divorced, and it was entirely because of what I stated above. My ex and I are wonderful friends, see each other all the time, raise our kid together, all of that but there was no passion anymore. We stopped trying and we acted like it was a business. Business and passion dont work together; we recognized that and moved on in our lives for our own good.
I learned from that and now understand what it means to truly be with someone - mental first, then the physical. Its been working so far.
Oh, and once every two months would be more than unbearable. I dont know how you guys do it; Im way to charged up everyday for that.
My girl and I have had this discussion. Sex is sex until you make it something more.
Ive seena LOT of bad stuff in my day but I could not watch that.
Anonymous wrote:FBO wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sexual incompatibility.
Oh, that really sucks... Sorry.
I think this is really common for a couple of reasons. Often young women don't think sex is that important and then once they hit their mid-30's/40's they realize that it really IS important. Also, they don't mind putting out in the beginning, but just can't sustain it with someone they married that they weren't compatible with.
Sure, I can understand that and the age difference makes sense. I was taught back in the day that men expect women to be interested in sex instead of interesting women in sex. It also ges back to the actual moment. When you are with someone, too many people focus on the moment instead of the bigger picture. Think 'missing the forest for the trees'. Instead, a part of sex should be about enticing that other person to come BACK for more and more. As a man, we tend to extract the most we can out of that one moment. But if you want sustainability, you have to be good in the moment while also planting the seeds for why they need what you give over and over and over.
I mentioned this elsewhere but being with a woman is as much a mental game as a physical game, if not more.
Anonymous wrote:Sexual incompatibility.
Oh, that really sucks... Sorry.
No. Shes just another human being. The issue men have is not that they can't date a supermodel, it's that they can't stand all the attention the supermodel will get even with him right there.
Its about balancing trust and jealousy.
ETA No - menaing, No I would not be intimidated.
Its about balancing trust and jealousy.
ETA No - menaing, No I would not be intimidated.
The real question is that if you KNOW that this man is an abusive man, WHY would you expect him to act any differently?
Anonymous wrote:What makes my marriage happy? Having an insanely talented lover on the side.Flame away.
No flames. If it works for you, it works for you.
People shouldn't be so judgmental anyway. My 2cents
