How do you get an affair/relationship started with another married person?

[Anonymous]

since we have cheating experts here, is it easier to get something going with another married person (assuming you are married also) or with someone single?

how does one broach the subject/topic and get things started in that direction? how do you get a feel for it said person would be interested in going there with you?

all the above questions do not involve going to a website where i can meet other cheaters. im asking on the strength that both people see each other often in a work setting or socially somehow.

[Anonymous]

Do everyone a favor, act mature and get divorced first.

[Anonymous]

if you are a woman, remove top and say hi, if you are a man, its more complicated

[Anonymous]

Some people just come out and ask...I'm assumming after there is a friendly relationship to begin with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:since we have cheating experts here, is it easier to get something going with another married person (assuming you are married also) or with someone single?

how does one broach the subject/topic and get things started in that direction? how do you get a feel for it said person would be interested in going there with you?

all the above questions do not involve going to a website where i can meet other cheaters. im asking on the strength that both people see each other often in a work setting or socially somehow.

No one knows. That is why people go on those websites. If you ask the wrong person, they could get upset and tell your spouse or someone who knows your spouse. Very risky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do everyone a favor, act mature and get divorced first.

then where is the "fun" if i do what you suggested

[Anonymous]

1423 man here so i guess im SOL?

1427 so one is better served going to a website huh?


my inquiry is serious by the way. just curious on how it gets started. i sit through meetings at work looking around wondering who would and wouldnt "go there" in the right situation and wonder how it would get started to begin with

[Anonymous]

1423 here. I'm female, but was just outright asked by a man. It 'worked'.

[Anonymous]

Suggestive remarks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1423 here. I'm female, but was just outright asked by a man. It 'worked'.

How so?

"Excuse me can you help me fax this document, oh and do you want to fuck?"

That was a joke but what exactly would a co-worker say and is it always going to be a male accosting me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1423 here. I'm female, but was just outright asked by a man. It 'worked'.

its 1431 and not the PP who also asked you what im about to.

so were you already "open" to going there or did the daring aspect of the demand turn you on and get you open?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do everyone a favor, act mature and get divorced first.

then where is the "fun" if i do what you suggested

Most people don't consider devastating and betraying your spouse, destroying your family and causing your kids emotional distress to be 'fun'.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do everyone a favor, act mature and get divorced first.

then where is the "fun" if i do what you suggested

Most people don't consider devastating and betraying your spouse, destroying your family and causing your kids emotional distress to be 'fun'.

reading on here it doesnt seem to bother anyone so you seem to be the rare person on here with a moral compass of some kind

[Anonymous]

This is one of those things - if you have to ask, the answer is no. If you don't have the game to seduce a woman carefully, so that you can deny it and back off safely at any second, then you arent cut out for it. And anyway, I agree that cheating is lame, keep it in yr pants.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is one of those things - if you have to ask, the answer is no. If you don't have the game to seduce a woman carefully, so that you can deny it and back off safely at any second, then you arent cut out for it. And anyway, I agree that cheating is lame, keep it in yr pants.

I am a woman and I totally agree with this - the if you have to ask part. Seriously dude, don't bother you will go down in flames.