Anonymous wrote:I've been mistaken/embarrassed before for offering my seat to someone who I thought was elderly. The woman I offered the seat to looked hurt that I thought she was elderly. Same thing with pregnant woman. You have to be damn sure that she's pregnant first.
So true! That's why I generally stand unless its pretty empty or I'm exhausted. But yes, people are rude or just in their own worlds not paying attention to others who may need a seat more than them. My dad had a stroke and was scooting around with a walker on the metro...no one gave up their seat for him.