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Anonymous wrote:I'd only be concerned if there were three towels on the headboard!
Maybe Mom is a squirter?
Anonymous wrote:I've thought about it but never done it. DH is just much lower drive than I am and it makes me sad. He's a great guy but it has been the same situation for 15 years now and it never changes, no matter how much I talk to him, try to look nice. When we were dating, it wasn't as noticeable to me because I was working 70 hours a week or so, but once we got married and I switched jobs, it started bothering me a lot more. I am 95 percent sure that I will never actually have an affair, because I know it is wrong, but this situation is disheartening and I feel unattractive and undesired.
I don't know if this helps but eating is not cheating.
1) Don't move out!!!
2) As close as possible.
2) As close as possible.
I'm just here hoping for a catfight.
OP: Please stop nagging your wife. Signed, a concerned neighbor across the street.
I'm more Grinchy than 10,000 Grinches.
Yes, yes there is.
If you think he is obnoxious now, just wait until he joins Crossfit.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What's the least amount a man must make around here to be considered a catch?
I say 150k by 32.
he should make zero. ordinary income, and their taxes, is for losers.
at 32 he should be living off the interest of his interest and cutting deals for equity and ownership. Buffett-style.
What do you bring to the table?
I got my $10M flywheel going.
I got one of those too but I bet mine is bigger.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Because men aren't helping with anywhere near their fair share of housework and childcare and women are fed up and filing for more divorces than ever.
This above. My 17 year marriage dissolved because I stopped respecting my XH. He didn’t lift a finger around the house and left everything to me. He’d be sitting on the couch playing games on his phone while I’d be cleaning up the dog poo in the back yard so I could mow. He complained about how I did his laundry. He never put a dish in the dishwasher (he would rinse the dish then leave it in the sink). We both worked full time. And he wondered why I never had energy for sex (it wasn’t just a lack of energy, I didn’t respect him so it wasn’t enjoyable). Neither of us were good partners to the other.
The second we split he started taking care of his business and I’m sure he’ll be a great partner to the next wife.
Did you try counseling?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Someone really needs to crunch those numbers, but it looks like Asians have the lowest rates, and the white rate is one-half the Hispanic rate and one-tenth the black rate.
My hunch is that it is correlated with income. Asians in the U.S. have higher incomes than whites. And condoms are expensive, funding has been severely cut for free condoms. They are really only given out free at Planned Parenthood and college health centers. They are no longer in public schools or just generally free in convenient locations. If you're not regularly on a college campus or a nearby free health clinic, you're probably not near free condoms.
Trojans are something like $13 for a box of 40 at Costco. Not exactly a ruinous expense.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....
A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.
That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.
Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.
Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?
I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.
We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!
You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?
NP here.
I remember his Member's Only jacket.
No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.
Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.
+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.
My ears are burning!
Anonymous wrote:If his initials are AH, then he's not just dating you . . . .
Eva Braun has joined the thread.....
Anonymous wrote:Your lawyer hadn't told you to wait until after your divorce is finalized? Everyone I know was told by their atty to not date or sleep with anyone else while still legally married.
She only got that advice if her lawyer went to law school in the 1940s. It does not matter a bit who she dates or sleeps with unless it somehow involves the children, and even then it probably won't affect custody.
OP: if you need someone to take care of your needs, you know who to IM.
Anonymous wrote:You believe the actual goal of online dating is casual sex with new people?
I hope that's in your profile. Otherwise, you might be misleading some women who think the actual goal is to find a long term partner/spouse.
Not the PP but the way Millennials, and increasingly others, date is to have casual sex with several people until they find someone they like enough to be in a relationship with. This is reality in 2017. Don't like it? Find a time machine and set the dial to 1955.