S/O: Ladies do you ever think about your exes?

[Anonymous]

If so, what kind of thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Previous sexual encounters

[Anonymous]

Yes. I think about the ones who were grwat lovers. Others I think about trips we did and the others I think about what losers they were. I however never fantasize about any of them. I leave that for strangers.

[Anonymous]

Nope. I'm happily content with my life, that I don't think about people from my past.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but mostly about being young and having fun. It's mostly the trip, or party memory and something about who I was with comes to mind.

[Anonymous]

Yes because I'm not over him. I wonder what he's doing on weekends or who he is dating. It's not often, but every once in awhile I look at his FB page. (We aren't connected on social media )

[Anonymous]

Very rarely, if a movie we saw together comes on tv etc. I wish them the best but the relationships ended for a reason.

[Anonymous]

I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. I think about the ones who were grwat lovers. Others I think about trips we did and the others I think about what losers they were. I however never fantasize about any of them. I leave that for strangers.

Same

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, I will see one two week nights and EOW for another decade. So I have to think about him a lot.

[Anonymous]

Nope, but he thinks about me all the time. Constantly getting booty call texts from him between midnight and 2am. I string him along and go back to my life.

[Anonymous]

I only think about him because I wish he was dead. Otherwise, no.

[Anonymous]

I think about my first husband often in the context of missing that particular stage of my life since its connected with other stages of my life like a.) having my kids/their baby and toddler years b.) buying my first home and finishing up grad school c.) the last years of my parents good health/when they were able to be active grandparents etc etc. Its not that Im particularly missing HIM as much as that segment of my life has a lot of memories in it. The one thing thats hard is out of respect for my current husband I dont put up pictures in my home of these times. Most of them have him in them and that wouldn't be right. There are a few vacations that I just love love looking back upon. Once in awhile Ill go in my office and pull out my old lap top and look at them. I love seeing how little my kids were and just a simpler time, like when we could all be together because there was no "other house" to split the time with.

[Anonymous]

Hm. with the exception of two I am still in touch with my old flames going back to high school so no need to worry about their lives or whatever. The two I am not in touch with I don't think about and dont care about

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.