S/O: Ladies do you ever think about your exes?

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.


Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.


+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.


My ears are burning!
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.


Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.


+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.


My ears are burning!


Keep dreaming!!
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face


I'm sure HE appreciated you playing with it too. In fact, I'm sure he'd love to give you another chance!


+100

Would you give him another chance?
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face


I'm sure HE appreciated you playing with it too. In fact, I'm sure he'd love to give you another chance!


+100

Would you give him another chance?


He won't give me the chance - it was an illicit affair and his commitments lay elsewhere.
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face


I'm sure HE appreciated you playing with it too. In fact, I'm sure he'd love to give you another chance!


+100

Would you give him another chance?


He won't give me the chance - it was an illicit affair and his commitments lay elsewhere.


I can guarantee you he thinks about it. And has probably thought about it while in the shower.
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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I do think about one ex in particular. The others were not that important. But the one ... it isn't the sex, it isn't that I'd want to be with him (well, maybe a little), but mostly it's him. He was my best friend, and I miss him. It has gotten less the further I've gotten away from him (20 years).


Yep, this is me too. He was my best friend and boyfriend in college. He "got me" like few people ever have. If I think about college (and I do on occasion because those were some of the best year of my life), I think about him. We had such fun together!
We parted on good terms and are now both have been married for years to other people. My husband also "got me" and "gets me" and I'm 100% loyal to him in the here and now.

As such I'm not connected on social media with my college boyfriend because I don't think any good would come of it. I don't need to complicate my life. But I do think of him from time to time.
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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I do think about one ex in particular. The others were not that important. But the one ... it isn't the sex, it isn't that I'd want to be with him (well, maybe a little), but mostly it's him. He was my best friend, and I miss him. It has gotten less the further I've gotten away from him (20 years).


Yep, this is me too. He was my best friend and boyfriend in college. He "got me" like few people ever have. If I think about college (and I do on occasion because those were some of the best year of my life), I think about him. We had such fun together!
We parted on good terms and are now both have been married for years to other people. My husband also "got me" and "gets me" and I'm 100% loyal to him in the here and now.

As such I'm not connected on social media with my college boyfriend because I don't think any good would come of it. I don't need to complicate my life. But I do think of him from time to time.


+1, exactly my situation too. My husband is wonderful, and I think our marriage is happier / works much better than being married to my college ex would've. But at the same time, he and I had something special, and in general that was just a wonderful fun happy time in my life. I definitely think about him from time to time, and get a little wistful and miss him/what we had. I too have chosen not to connect with him on social media...I see him pop up in mutual friends' pictures from time to time, but I'm sure having the ability to stalk on demand would lead to random nostalgia-fueled walks down memory lane / have him pop up more in my mind than the random passing times it does now. Just no need.
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face


I'm sure HE appreciated you playing with it too. In fact, I'm sure he'd love to give you another chance!


+100

Would you give him another chance?


He won't give me the chance - it was an illicit affair and his commitments lay elsewhere.


Did he break it off with you? Or the other way around?
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face


I'm sure HE appreciated you playing with it too. In fact, I'm sure he'd love to give you another chance!


+100

Would you give him another chance?


He won't give me the chance - it was an illicit affair and his commitments lay elsewhere.


Did he break it off with you? Or the other way around?


Broke it off math me after being caught multiple times. He just could lie anymore and had to face the music.
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.


Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.


+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.


OK - I'm now curious. What made it so beautiful?


It was big and just- pretty. Nothing flawed about it- just smooth and large and just pretty. I guess I have to invoke the Supreme Court line "You know it when you see it." Also he was absolutely ripped with a six pack so it was just gorgeous jutting out under that...


I wonder how common it is for a woman to occasionally day dream about a really endowed ex?
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.


Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.


+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.


OK - I'm now curious. What made it so beautiful?


It was big and just- pretty. Nothing flawed about it- just smooth and large and just pretty. I guess I have to invoke the Supreme Court line "You know it when you see it." Also he was absolutely ripped with a six pack so it was just gorgeous jutting out under that...


I wonder how common it is for a woman to occasionally day dream about a really endowed ex?


Pretty much NONE of them.
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.


Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.


+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.


OK - I'm now curious. What made it so beautiful?


It was big and just- pretty. Nothing flawed about it- just smooth and large and just pretty. I guess I have to invoke the Supreme Court line "You know it when you see it." Also he was absolutely ripped with a six pack so it was just gorgeous jutting out under that...


I wonder how common it is for a woman to occasionally day dream about a really endowed ex?


Probably very.
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.


Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.


+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.


OK - I'm now curious. What made it so beautiful?


It was big and just- pretty. Nothing flawed about it- just smooth and large and just pretty. I guess I have to invoke the Supreme Court line "You know it when you see it." Also he was absolutely ripped with a six pack so it was just gorgeous jutting out under that...


I wonder how common it is for a woman to occasionally day dream about a really endowed ex?


Pretty much NONE of them.


Obviously the person who said none of them is a man. I think about the big ones that got away daily. I have always had a very healthy sex drive. Is it wrong for women to objectify men as men do with women all the time? Sorry but sometimes it's just sex for the sake of sex. How often do men think of an ex with a great body - odds are all the time.
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