Thank you for sharing your post with us. It is ok to be friendly and polite with others but he needs to realize that he now is married to you. He needs to be more prudent do not be too much close towards other women because he is now married. The relationship between husband and wife is exclusive and there’s no third party. I would encourage your husband to set boundaries of how to interact with his colleagues especially towards women to avoid gossip, flirting, and temptations of infidelity. While you do not see nothing suspicious I encourage you to trust in your husband and keep the communication, affection and dialogue with him. Marriage counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You and your husband are valuable and worth of fighting for. Please let me tell you my friend that you are not alone. Maybe you can take out good of this situation that you have to deal with. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers my friend.-keep us posted, OK?

Thank for your question. I think that many are suffering anxiety or depression because of many factors. However much of this can be attributed to lack of love and communication in families, the excessive use of the social media, iPhone, tablets, video games, that block the interaction between human beings. Also, because of the breakdown of the traditional family.

Thank you for sharing your story with us. Sometimes as women we want to meet someone to share our lives with. If you are interested in this man it is important that you know that being divorced is like loss a love one. That caused wounds in a person and that takes time to heal and may be it would be good for him to take a therapy. We do not know the reasons that he decided to divorce his wife. I think you have all the answers and I encourage you do not be afraid to meet other men that you can date and may be you can find in the near future the right match for you. I do not know whether if you believe in God, but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.

I’m sorry that you are going through. It is understandable the way that you feel. I think for you have said you have behaved as a good friend helping her in all the moments that she needed, babysitting her children, doing any type of favors, being available and supportive any time of the day. That speaks very well of you, you are a very generous and have a beautiful heart because you really care about others. You expected the same from her but you were disappointed because she did not respond in the same way that you expected. I lived a similar situation with a friend of many years in the past. And I took out a big lesson of this situation. It is important to learn of being prudent do not cross the line and then being hurt. I encourage do not judge your friend, maybe she is not able to be empathetic, she does not do that to you on purpose. In the case of my friend was because she did not have a loving mother, she used to mistreat her and that has consequences in the adult life. I do not know what caused in your friend do not put in the shoes of others and that comes from her childhood. I read that in psychological article about why some people are unable to feel empathy? In conclusion: Your first priority is your marriage, the relationship with your husband and TTC. One day you will be bless having your own children or have you and your husband thought the possibility of adopting children? From my experience I’ve decided to move on, because I understood that I cannot be the third part of her marriage and she needs to learn how to solve her own problems with her husband directly. I received from pastor the advice that if a friendship cause you constantly conflict and make you lose your inner peace let her go. I’ve already forgiven her and sometimes we send messages back and forth but it is not like before. She is still my friend and I love her because we shared a lot of things, dreams in common and she is a good person but I think it is healthier for both to keep our distance and focus in our own marriage. Maybe in the future we will be more mature and we can retake our friendship. Have you thought of forgiving your friend and yourself? Forgiveness does not mean that these things did not happen to you but that you let the problem go. I think that it can sound hard to forgive but forgiveness it is the first step of change and healing and it will restore you your peace and joy As a result, I discovered that some friendships come and go and I opened my heart to another local friendships. I encourage you the same to open your heart to new friends in your area. You can meet friends for example: volunteering job, craft making, sewing, groups from church, groups from marriage couples, etc. I do not know whether if you believe in God, but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.

Thank you for sharing your story with us. Sometimes as women we want to meet someone to share our lives with. If you are interested in this man it is important that you know that being divorced is like loss a love one. That caused wounds in a person and that takes time to heal and may be it would be good for him to take a therapy. We do not know the reasons that he decided to divorce his wife. I think you have all the answers and I encourage you do not be afraid to meet other men that you can date and may be you can find in the near future the right match for you. I do not know whether if you believe in God, but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.

I’m so sorry for what you are going through. Let me tell you that you are valuable, important, a person worth of dignity. Even in the darkest moments of your marriage, there’s always hope. Perhaps have you thought that you can help yourself with marriage counseling. Counseling can be helpful to work through things like this. You and your husband are valuable and worth fighting for.” Therapy can help you to identify what you feel in that way. You are able to change things in your marriage for the good. Did you know when people got married they bring their own luggage, that there are the wounds from their own families. Please, let me tell you that you are not alone. Things happen for a reason. Please, it is a hard situation that you are living now, but do not feel discourage. Hang it there!! Please do not give up! There is no perfect persons so there’s no perfect marriage, however, your marriage is something worth fighting for. Courageous couples are those who ask help for a third part. Do you have a belief or system to go through things like this? I do not know whether if you believe in God, but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend . – keep us posted, OK?

I am sorry for what you are going through. It’s understandable the way that you feel and I think it is not easy to deal with a loved one losing his job. I’m sorry that it’s also affecting your relationship. Have you considered encouraging him to look to any type of place that offers career training (work enforcement) or have you thought of asking him to evaluate his job skills and past employment and why he is not motivated to keep his employment? Maybe he chooses jobs that he does not like and at the end it is tough for him to keep them. Perhaps another possibility is to encourage him to look to connecting with others websites. Counseling can be helpful to work through things like this. I do not know whether if you believe in God, but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend.

I’m sorry for what you are going through. You should not worry about finding the right person, the day will come when you discover that special person. I think that this is a precious time to cultivate friendship. That is a good beginning and then you will see. Try to enjoy at least time with your friends and family while you are still single. Marriage is not something you want to immediately get into, it is better to take the time to know the right person when you do meet even if you get married into your thirties. We live in a time when many people do not believe in marriage but let me tell you that it is possible to be married and make happy your husband, and vice versa. Love is not a feeling, but is a commitment, is a decision and included sacrifice for the other. I experienced a similar situation as yours, I had to wait for long time to meet my husband. But I used all that time to know myself, improve my weaknesses and strengthen my skill and abilities. I encourage to think all the things that you can do for being a better version of yourself. Please let me tell that you are not alone. Have you thought of online encounters, speed-dating (if there are any in your local area or if there young adult groups in local churches for example), you can involve in groups that you know you can meet other people. Do you have a faith or believe system to help guide you through this? I do not know whether if you believe in God but I will keep you in my prayers, my friend

I’m sorry for you are experiencing this situation. Even in the toughest parts of your marriage, there’s always hope. Counseling can be helpful to work through things like this. You and your husband are valuable and worth fighting for. Therapy can allow you to learn and promote communication and dialogue. Please let me tell you that there’s hope that maybe your husband can open up in your marriage. I encourage you to be open to the forgiveness. I know that it can sound very difficult to hear but forgiveness has a great impact in our lives. Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right, does mean that you appreciate more the relationship that you have with him. Forgiveness is like building bridges in the relationship but no walls of resentments. Forgiveness is the first step to change and heal. Have you ever thought about it? Also I encourage you to discern if you and your husband can improve the relationship and see if both can solve the problems and motivate each other to forgive and start again. Get help from an objective party who is a position to help you that is a very good choice. Marriage is made up of two imperfect persons that want to work together to build a family and never give up. I do not know if you whether believe in God but I will keep you in my prayers my friend. Keep us posted, Ok?

I’m sorry for you are experiencing this situation. Even in the toughest parts of your marriage, there’s always hope. Counseling can be helpful to work through things like this. You and your husband are valuable and worth fighting for. Therapy can allow you to learn and promote communication and dialogue. Please let me tell you that there’s hope that maybe your husband can open up in your marriage. I encourage you to be open to the forgiveness. I know that it can sound very difficult to hear but forgiveness has a great impact in our lives. Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right, does mean that you appreciate more the relationship that you have with him. Forgiveness is like building bridges in the relationship but no walls of resentments. Forgiveness is the first step to change and heal. Have you ever thought about it? Also I encourage you to discern if you and your husband can improve the relationship and see if both can solve the problems and motivate each other to forgive and start again. Get help from an objective party who is a position to help you that is a very good choice. Marriage is not made of two perfect persons but two imperfect persons that want to work together to build a family and never give up. I do not know if you whether believe in God but I will keep you in my prayers my friend. Keep us posted, Ok?

I’m sorry for you are experiencing this situation. Even in the toughest parts of your marriage, there’s always hope. Counseling can be helpful to work through things like this. You and your husband are valuable and worth fighting for. Please let me tell you that there’s hope that maybe your husband can open up in your marriage. . I encourage you to be open to the forgiveness. I know that it can sound very difficult to hear but forgiveness has a great impact in our lives. Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right, does mean that you appreciate more the relationship that you have with him. Forgiveness is like building bridges in the relationship but no walls of resentments. Have you ever thought about it? Also I encourage you to discern if you and your husband can improve the relationship and see if both can solve the problems and motivate each other to forgive and start again. Get help from an objective party who is a position to help you that is a good choice. Have you ever heard about the book: His needs and her needs by William Harley Jr.? It is an interesting book of a psychologist based on his experiences of counseling married couples. He discovered that the problem is not in the communication but in learning how to love your spouse. This book was a great tool for me when the things didn’t go well in the relationship with my husband however it helped us very much. . I hope this can help. I do not know if you whether believe in God but I will keep you in my prayers my friend. Keep us posted, Ok?

I’m sorry that you are going through. It is a difficult situation that you are in. Even in the darkest moments there is always hope. It is understandable the way that you feel because everyone expects that our husband accept us and affirm us as wives. Counseling can be helpful to work things like this. . You and your husband are valuable and worth fighting for. I’m hopefully both of you can restore your relationship. I encourage you to forgive him. Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right but it is that you appreciate more the relationship that you have with him and let go each other differences. Also I encourage you to discern if you and your partner can improve the relationship and see if both can solve the problems and motivate each other to forgive and start again. Get help from an objective party who is a position to help you that is a good choice. Have you ever heard about the book: His needs and her needs by William Harley Jr.? It is an interesting book of a psychologist based on his experiences of counseling married couples. He discovered that the problem is not in the communication but in learning how to love your spouse. This book was a great tool for me when the things did go well in the relationship with my husband however it helped us very much. . I hope this can help. I do not know if you whether believe in God but I will keep you in my prayers my friend. Keep us posted, Ok?