I can't remember the last time I went out on a double date. Nightlife ended a long time ago for me...I suppose that's partly why I started up my dance classes...so I could party with fun women in the neighborhood several times a week. Some may call it sad that my "night on the town" is an hour dancing with a bunch of women, but I can get down like I used to in my party days.
this happened to my colleague. She was recently divorced, and when the news broke, many of my coworkers avoided her to avoid any uncomfortable conversation. Me, I tried to be understanding and offer my shoulder and ears should she need them. A few weeks went by before things returned to normal. But I suspect your friends are unsure of what to say...perhaps they are waiting for you to signal that you are okay emotionally before they approach you.
I saved them after my first, I knew I would want another one down the road. After the second, I saved them only until I lost all the weight...and then I gave them to a pregnant friend.
I had all the candidates listed on one yellow sheet and I was carded. Everyone was nice except for the picketers outside who made me feel like I was going to pro-life rally instead of a voting booth.
I was shocked. I got there at 9:00 and there was no line at all! NADA! THere were people trying to shove their agendas in my face, but it took me less than 5 minutes to walk in the door, vote, put a sticker on my daughter and leave. This was in N. Arlington. HOORAY let the counting begin!
I had low amniotic fluid and was able to get it back up with bed rest and lots of fluid. However, I had an extremely stressful pregnancy with what was going on in my life at the time, and ended up delivering at 27 wks. She is almost 4 now and very healthy.
My advice to you: drink A LOT, rest, drink A LOT, whatever you can do to keep yourself calm and unstressed, and drink A LOT!