Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

https://dailyactive.info/2019/05/12/stop-sitting-on-your-balls/

How old is he? I get it if he’s in his 80s maybe. My husband is in his 60s and most definitely does not have this problem.

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

How old is he? I get it if he’s in his 80s maybe. My husband is in his 60s and most definitely does not have this problem.

Omg. I don’t think he’d tell you. And at 60 those beans are def sagging MUCH lower than in youth, or even middle age.

Well, I see him naked all the time and I’ve known him since we were in our early 20s, so I think I’d notice.

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Anonymous wrote:We are both 56, married 32 years. Kids are in college. 1-2 times per week.

I no longer have any sex drive now that I am menopausal. I do really enjoy it once we get started, but never think about it AT ALL otherwise, and left to my own devices would rarely have sex. But it is still very important to DH, and he is important to me. So I treat it like exercise--I make sure it's on my mental to-do list and while I often feel less than excited to start, it feels good and I'm always happy to have done it.

Uh oh, you mentioned having kids. Ergo, you must only have sex in front of them when they're home on breaks, you sick pervert.

Why do people keep putting that they have kids? What does that have to do with the OP question?

How often do you have sex? I have kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

How old is he? I get it if he’s in his 80s maybe. My husband is in his 60s and most definitely does not have this problem.

Omg. I don’t think he’d tell you. And at 60 those beans are def sagging MUCH lower than in youth, or even middle age.

Well, I see him naked all the time and I’ve known him since we were in our early 20s, so I think I’d notice.

Ah. He’s tiny. Got it!

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Anonymous wrote:We are both 56, married 32 years. Kids are in college. 1-2 times per week.

I no longer have any sex drive now that I am menopausal. I do really enjoy it once we get started, but never think about it AT ALL otherwise, and left to my own devices would rarely have sex. But it is still very important to DH, and he is important to me. So I treat it like exercise--I make sure it's on my mental to-do list and while I often feel less than excited to start, it feels good and I'm always happy to have done it.

Uh oh, you mentioned having kids. Ergo, you must only have sex in front of them when they're home on breaks, you sick pervert.

Your kids are asking you to get off the sex thread on here.

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

How old is he? I get it if he’s in his 80s maybe. My husband is in his 60s and most definitely does not have this problem.

Omg. I don’t think he’d tell you. And at 60 those beans are def sagging MUCH lower than in youth, or even middle age.

Wait! PP you are telling the other PP that her husband’s testicles are sagging and specifying an amount. That is creepy to be commenting on and even creepier to have such enthusiastic (MUCH lower…) opinion about. Ick. Get a life.

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Anonymous wrote:sex twice a week, anal once a month.

Do you clean up for the anal? Or you guys like it raunchy and dirty?

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53f and 56m, once a week, sometimes twice. Married 31 years. 2 kids in college.

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Anonymous wrote:sex twice a week, anal once a month.

Do you clean up for the anal? Or you guys like it raunchy and dirty?

Gross! MYOB

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

How old is he? I get it if he’s in his 80s maybe. My husband is in his 60s and most definitely does not have this problem.

Omg. I don’t think he’d tell you. And at 60 those beans are def sagging MUCH lower than in youth, or even middle age.

Well, I see him naked all the time and I’ve known him since we were in our early 20s, so I think I’d notice.

Ah. He’s tiny. Got it!

Ha, no! You have no idea!

But he is very active and athletic- he runs and we work out together almost every day. Most people think he’s much younger than he is, so maybe he just has great genes.

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Anonymous wrote:53f and 56m, once a week, sometimes twice. Married 31 years. 2 kids in college.

Mom, get off!

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Anonymous wrote:sex twice a week, anal once a month.

Do you clean up for the anal? Or you guys like it raunchy and dirty?

Gross! MYOB

No it's ok we like it dirty...

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Anonymous wrote:53f and 56m, once a week, sometimes twice. Married 31 years. 2 kids in college.

I’m your age and no way in hell would I marry at 22. Are your college kids getting married soon too?

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Anonymous wrote:Wow and I thought once a week was bad. 46.

Yes. Once per week IS bad!

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Anonymous wrote:We’re both 48. I can’t remember the last time. He really stopped wanting any sexual contact around 41. I am pretty devastated about it and feel much older than I should. I was always high drive and pursued in previous relationships- we got together in late 30s. He was never strongly sexual, but is so awesome I missed the signals this could happen. I don’t want to split up, and the drought is a huge issue for us (or at least me).

been there, it’s tough, we had years of 1-2 times per year then once kid was off to college I said cannot imagine living the same way for another 25years so how about splitting, that was not an option for him so talking all aspects even if weird after 25 years together in the end paid off and for couple of months it was almost daily then for the next several months once per week, cannot believe we got that back, not PIV as I’m not getting back on the pill, I’m in peri menopause but both getting there in other ways