Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?

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Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

Why?

Yes, made me cringe too. It was the mentioning she had teens so that painted the picture of her having sex
with her kids around. And then that it was with her boyfriend like she is some 20 something. Could have just said how often and left the other stuff out.

Do your kids really not know you have sex? Is sex a bad thing?

Go ahead and do it in front of them if you want. Not my thing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

Why?

Yes, made me cringe too. It was the mentioning she had teens so that painted the picture of her having sex
with her kids around. And then that it was with her boyfriend like she is some 20 something. Could have just said how often and left the other stuff out.

Do your kids really not know you have sex? Is sex a bad thing?

Does it need to be broadcasted?

[Anonymous]

I am in my early 40s and he is in his early 50s.

We probably average 3-4 times/week, but it definitely varies.

Some weeks, we have sex every day, sometimes more than once per day. Every once in a while, we can go 10-14 days due to travel or work pressures. On average, however, we have sex at least 3 times/week.

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

Aah this is so unbearably cringey

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Twice per week here. Shocked at all the PPs in low sex marriages. That is divorce worthy.

[Anonymous]

We’re both 48. I can’t remember the last time. He really stopped wanting any sexual contact around 41. I am pretty devastated about it and feel much older than I should. I was always high drive and pursued in previous relationships- we got together in late 30s. He was never strongly sexual, but is so awesome I missed the signals this could happen. I don’t want to split up, and the drought is a huge issue for us (or at least me).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Twice per week here. Shocked at all the PPs in low sex marriages. That is divorce worthy.

It is if your marriage is otherwise shitty.

[Anonymous]

Wow and I thought once a week was bad. 46.

[Anonymous]

Probably last year sometime. We have teens, I've never had a high sex drive, but as I've aged it's gone down drastically throw in menopause and now a cancer diagnosis. I'm incredibly lucky my DH is so understanding. I think most would have divorced me. Other than this we have a great marriage.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

Age gap much?

The gf was 40, who the hell cares? It’s not like she was underage. Good for them!

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

Age gap much?

The gf was 40, who the hell cares? It’s not like she was underage. Good for them!

Maybe good for him, not for her.

[Anonymous]

When I was 40, it was 2-3x a month which I thought was terrible. Now, I pine for those days, late 40s and 1x a month.

My kingdom for an AP. Not even sure my spouse would care.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

Huh? What are you defining as the sex you're having multiple times per night if not "bangs"? Her leg brushing against your schlong when she turns over?