Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?

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Anonymous wrote:no s** for over 3 years. DH got cancer and I got the vibrator.

If you were my wife, I wouldn’t be happy about doing it, but I would definitely encourage you find a lover.
My wife is so beautiful when she is having sex, I could never deny her that. Even if I dont get to witness it which I probably wouldn’t.

This is heavy. You sound like a loving husband.

No, that is ridiculous. Just divorce and be friends if he feels so inclined to let her get a sex partner.

If you haven't loved a person with a disability, you're not qualified to comment.

Found the person who has had an affair. And is quite sensitive about it.

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Anonymous wrote:no s** for over 3 years. DH got cancer and I got the vibrator.

If you were my wife, I wouldn’t be happy about doing it, but I would definitely encourage you find a lover.
My wife is so beautiful when she is having sex, I could never deny her that. Even if I dont get to witness it which I probably wouldn’t.

This is heavy. You sound like a loving husband.

No, that is ridiculous. Just divorce and be friends if he feels so inclined to let her get a sex partner.

If you haven't loved a person with a disability, you're not qualified to comment.

Having a spouse with a disability is not a free pass to go screwing others.

Who said it was a free pass?

Oh, so do it in secret. That makes it better.

You have serious reading comprehension issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?

Early in relationship, yes with all of them. After 3 years, no.

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Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?

My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

The PP is much older - this is typical boomer behavior. My first ever manager used to keep a spreadsheet together with his sexual activity and also prostate problems, such as how many times a night he'd wake up to pee, and reminders for viagra, cholesterol, herpes meds etc. He'd keep it on the share drive and it was not password protected. I don't know if he was just stupid or didn't care.

Oh he had no idea that was public. That's hilarious!

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Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?

My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.

Sorry but APs and 2nd marriages don't count. Everyone has lots of sex in the first few years of a relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:53f and 56m, once a week, sometimes twice. Married 31 years. 2 kids in college.

Mom, get off!

well son, I think we both did...it's that the whole point?

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Anonymous wrote:no s** for over 3 years. DH got cancer and I got the vibrator.

If you were my wife, I wouldn’t be happy about doing it, but I would definitely encourage you find a lover.
My wife is so beautiful when she is having sex, I could never deny her that. Even if I dont get to witness it which I probably wouldn’t.

This is heavy. You sound like a loving husband.

No, that is ridiculous. Just divorce and be friends if he feels so inclined to let her get a sex partner.

If you haven't loved a person with a disability, you're not qualified to comment.

Having a spouse with a disability is not a free pass to go screwing others.

Who said it was a free pass?

Oh, so do it in secret. That makes it better.

You have serious reading comprehension issues.

Tired dcum comeback.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?

My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.

Advanced placement?

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Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?

My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.

Advanced placement?

An*l Partner

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Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?

When I wrote that I did with my (younger) girlfriend above, I was attacked.

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

The PP is much older - this is typical boomer behavior. My first ever manager used to keep a spreadsheet together with his sexual activity and also prostate problems, such as how many times a night he'd wake up to pee, and reminders for viagra, cholesterol, herpes meds etc. He'd keep it on the share drive and it was not password protected. I don't know if he was just stupid or didn't care.

I'm a boomer and don't do any of that stuff. And why would anyone need a reminder for Viagra??

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

The PP is much older - this is typical boomer behavior. My first ever manager used to keep a spreadsheet together with his sexual activity and also prostate problems, such as how many times a night he'd wake up to pee, and reminders for viagra, cholesterol, herpes meds etc. He'd keep it on the share drive and it was not password protected. I don't know if he was just stupid or didn't care.

I'm a boomer and don't do any of that stuff. And why would anyone need a reminder for Viagra??

No clue but I'm also a woman. This was 20+ years ago, so maybe the pharmacy didn't have a refill reminder option back then?

[Anonymous]

47DW and 51DH with 3 kids (college and HS aged)

we're typically 1-2/week - and he would like it more often. He has always been a great lover and he can still give me a couple (or more) big O's every time.

But with DH about to start on some supplements (at my urging as part of improving overall health), I know his drive will kick even higher and I am bracing myself for it.

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Anonymous wrote:Anybody have it really good? 5X+ a week?

My AP and I do, and have been for years. Both mid-40s.

Sorry but APs and 2nd marriages don't count. Everyone has lots of sex in the first few years of a relationship.

It's been 10 years but ok.