Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

Why?

Yes, made me cringe too. It was the mentioning she had teens so that painted the picture of her having sex
with her kids around. And then that it was with her boyfriend like she is some 20 something. Could have just said how often and left the other stuff out.

What on earth? Sex is icky once you're a parent and over age 29?

REPRESSED!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

Why?

Yes, made me cringe too. It was the mentioning she had teens so that painted the picture of her having sex
with her kids around. And then that it was with her boyfriend like she is some 20 something. Could have just said how often and left the other stuff out.

What on earth? Sex is icky once you're a parent and over age 29?

REPRESSED!

No and that was never said. The poster wrote in that she had teens and made the connection, not me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

Why?

Yes, made me cringe too. It was the mentioning she had teens so that painted the picture of her having sex
with her kids around. And then that it was with her boyfriend like she is some 20 something. Could have just said how often and left the other stuff out.

What on earth? Sex is icky once you're a parent and over age 29?

REPRESSED!

The OP asked about how often having sex. Not about kids. You’re repressed in your way of trying to twist things. You do sound icky.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

[Anonymous]

We are both 56, married 32 years. Kids are in college. 1-2 times per week.

I no longer have any sex drive now that I am menopausal. I do really enjoy it once we get started, but never think about it AT ALL otherwise, and left to my own devices would rarely have sex. But it is still very important to DH, and he is important to me. So I treat it like exercise--I make sure it's on my mental to-do list and while I often feel less than excited to start, it feels good and I'm always happy to have done it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are both 56, married 32 years. Kids are in college. 1-2 times per week.

I no longer have any sex drive now that I am menopausal. I do really enjoy it once we get started, but never think about it AT ALL otherwise, and left to my own devices would rarely have sex. But it is still very important to DH, and he is important to me. So I treat it like exercise--I make sure it's on my mental to-do list and while I often feel less than excited to start, it feels good and I'm always happy to have done it.

Uh oh, you mentioned having kids. Ergo, you must only have sex in front of them when they're home on breaks, you sick pervert.

[Anonymous]

Late 40’s for both, 2 times per week. Sometimes more, sometimes less…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

Um, does he run without a jock strap? I don’t think that happens to middle aged men unless they’ve never worn any sort of supportive underwear. It’s kind of like women and bras- far less sagging in middle age if the chest has always had good support.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

Um, does he run without a jock strap? I don’t think that happens to middle aged men unless they’ve never worn any sort of supportive underwear. It’s kind of like women and bras- far less sagging in middle age if the chest has always had good support.

1. Are you male?
2. Age?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

Why?

Yes, made me cringe too. It was the mentioning she had teens so that painted the picture of her having sex
with her kids around. And then that it was with her boyfriend like she is some 20 something. Could have just said how often and left the other stuff out.

Do your kids really not know you have sex? Is sex a bad thing?

Does it need to be broadcasted?

They were broadcasting to their kids, they were broadcasting on an anonymous forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

How old is he? I get it if he’s in his 80s maybe. My husband is in his 60s and most definitely does not have this problem.

[Anonymous]

Two to four times a week. Age 44 and 47, one ten year old, married 18 years and both work very intense jobs. Remote work has been super helpful. Can’t do it every day, because jobs are way too demanding, but it typically allows us to squeeze in one or two weekday sessions. Plus weekends. We both travel a lot for work, which means some weeks are more like twice a week, but I don’t think it’s fair to fully account for that in our average since we can’t do anything about the fact that we’re physically apart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Last relationship: gf was 40, I'm 55. Sex 2-3 times a night every night we were together. 12-15 bangs per month (BPMs). Much more sex than I had in a 20+ year marriage.

You are most probably lying. You are most probably also a jerk and most women probably realize this after conversing with you for more than a minute or two.

Of course he's lying. At that age, 70% of men have erection problems. Don't forget that they need pull ups for their balls, because gravity is cruel.

I agree entirely wit the PP who says he’s prob lying and a jerk. So +1 there.

But on the next comment: Unless you live at the ISS, most balls do in fact hang and do so very comfortably, not cruelly at all. Most men wouldn’t have it any other way. Not sure the handiwork you’ve been using for your research.

My husband sat on his own balls yesterday. Gravity def increases with age.

How old is he? I get it if he’s in his 80s maybe. My husband is in his 60s and most definitely does not have this problem.

Omg. I don’t think he’d tell you. And at 60 those beans are def sagging MUCH lower than in youth, or even middle age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

Why?

Yes, made me cringe too. It was the mentioning she had teens so that painted the picture of her having sex
with her kids around. And then that it was with her boyfriend like she is some 20 something. Could have just said how often and left the other stuff out.

Do your kids really not know you have sex? Is sex a bad thing?

Does it need to be broadcasted?

They were broadcasting to their kids, they were broadcasting on an anonymous forum.

Bless your heart.