Couples in your 40s and 50s - how often (s**)?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Its FRIDAY night finally.

In case it wasn’t clear, weekly sans red corvette.

Its okay, I would like more but DW is always worn out by work and 5 yr old

Both 47.

Red corvette? WTH?

[Anonymous]

We're both 50, twice a week - maybe 3

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You can say sex.

If you can’t say it how do you do it?

OP here. I would have typed it out but board says non explicit and I didn't want to risk it being taken down. A month back there was a brief discussion here about vibrators and it got taken down really quickly.

They have to keep it unblocked…how else would we talk about the sex/gender of babies on the expecting moms board

Well, most of us are not biologists and are not qualified to discuss that anyway.

[Anonymous]

No sex. My husband is a short fugster.

[Anonymous]

You mean s*x?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

[Anonymous]

We are 54. Married 33 years. All five of kids are adults. We probably average once a week. Some weeks more. Some weeks not at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are 54. Married 33 years. All five of kids are adults. We probably average once a week. Some weeks more. Some weeks not at all.

You married when you were 21 years old?

[Anonymous]

Mid 40s. 1-2x a month but sometimes a month or two without. If I push, I get a pity screw. It sucks. We should swap spouses

[Anonymous]

I have found this link fascinating. https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2014/12/4/sex-question-friday-how-often-do-married-couples-have-sex/

Only a out one in five couples have sex more than once a week by this age and about 20% are sexless.

Makes you realize why infidelity is so common.

You doing it twice a week is a rare minority, at least for first marriages

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are 54. Married 33 years. All five of kids are adults. We probably average once a week. Some weeks more. Some weeks not at all.

You married when you were 21 years old?

DP. Looks that way, I was 21 also, married 31 years so far….

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

That made me jealous and had set me off on daydreaming about getting divorced.

[Anonymous]

Mid 60's.

Usually, once a week.

But.....twice this week. Celebrated 42nd anniversary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

you again? with the vomit? get that checked, you may be pregnant

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Divorced with teenagers. Have been dating BF for two years. I’m late 40s, he’s mid 50s. At least 3 or 4 times a week. I figure I’ve had more sex with him than I did in my 20 year marriage.

That made me barf.

That made me jealous and had set me off on daydreaming about getting divorced.