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Breaking up after she was a drunken embarrassment at a wedding?
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Anonymous
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She got tanked at her brother's wedding on Saturday. Fall down drunk, crying, then calmed down slightly. I start chatting with her family and look up and she's literally grinding on one of the groomsmen. Small wedding. Just mortifying, for me.
The next day she wakes up and says what a blast the wedding was. Had no recollection of being sloppy. Zero remorse. She just left a voicemail crying saying she feels bad... now. |
Anonymous
| What a baby you are. You can't take the fact that she got blackout drunk once? Grow the hell up. |
Anonymous
| Definitely a red flag. Is there a history with the groomsman? Some other issue? Is she older and resentful that her brother is getting married first? Something else going on in her life that would make this just a bad night rather than a possible pattern? Has she done this before? |
Anonymous
| I think a break up is in order. |
Anonymous
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You have to ask about breaking up?
She is a sloppy drunk. Don't marry someone who gets like that unless you want a lifetime of grief from substance abuse issues. |
Anonymous
| At least it was her brother and family and not yours! |
Anonymous
| Huge red flag. I would never stay with someone who behaved like that. I've been married to my DH for 30 years. We started dating at 15 and got married at 21. We are both 50. I've seen him drunk one time when he was 17. |
Anonymous
| How old is she? How old are you? |
Anonymous
| How long have you been together? |
Anonymous
What are you talking about? This woman sounds super trashy. Most people do not behave like this at family weddings, even "once." Big red flag, OP. |
Anonymous
...said the village drunk. |
Anonymous
| How old are you OP? This isn't as big of a deal as you are making of it |
Anonymous
She's 27. Only sibling is the brother, so understandable she was emotional. But the vulgar grinding with brother's friend at a quaint wedding was just awful. He was taking full advantage too. No, I'm not insecure or threatened. Without question most embarrassing experience of my life. |
Anonymous
| Drinking to much at her brother's wedding I could pass as just having too much fun and getting a little out of control. The grinding up against a groomsman deal breaker |
Anonymous
| She got drunk at a wedding? News at 11!!!!! |