One of them is lying to me - the cleaners or the neighbor

[Anonymous]

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The problem, OP, is that you were racist when you said your cleaners were Mexican vs your nice middle class neighbors. You are implying a difference between them.

If you don't care what anyone thinks here, then stop responding. You are not getting out of the perception that you believed your nice MC drug addict neighbor over you Mexican cleaners whose daughter looked at you stone faced when you asked her to do a better job cleaning something. You went in trying to sway the audience with your own terms.

Ah, OK so calling a Mexican Mexican is racist now. Good to know.

It was racist in that she used it in contrast to "nice middle class neighbor" as if her cleaners were none of those. She used "Mexican" as a catch all, as if this single word in itself was descriptor enough to let us know the difference, and as if somehow this made the cleaners more apt to lie than the drug addict next door. Mexican in itself is not racist. But OP used it in a racist way.

[Anonymous]

OP, get a life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Known drug addict next door reports smell of drugs.

You [if you were NTA]: “Really? Jeez. I never noticed that before. Thanks for letting me know”

and that’s the end. It was an option. For some reason you decided to get off at YTA Highway instead.

Not the addict. Her mom really reported it to me. I later found out it was her DD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best part of this post is that the OP keeps coming back to claim she’s not racist, but doubles down on the racism.

OP how on earth is it more believable that a mother and daughter hot boxed a car together at 7:30 am while at work, than the drug addict next door was smoking and lied about it? Other than blatant racism, there really is no explanation.

Uhm, because I’ve known mothers using together with their children?
Do you think this never happens? Do you live under a rock?

[Anonymous]

OP is why I do not recommend my housekeeper to anyone who I do not know extremely well. White people are so panful.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If they were smoking that much in the car the smell would stick to them. Did they smell like pot inside your house? If you have never smelled pot on them then your neighbor is lying. I would have never confronted the cleaners and just said "thanks for the information" to the neighbor.

The OP has a curious disability that precludes smelling weed. She has to rely on the neighbor's daughter to detect it. Sound insane? It is.

Jeez, I'm sorry. Was I supposed to be sniffing my property thoroughly? I assumed my neighbor was telling the truth. Why would she lie?

She just saw two people drive up and decided this was convenient moment to blame them? Knowing I would probably let them go and they would never be back?

BECAUSE HER DAUGHTER LIED TO HER MOTHER TO DEFLECT ATTENTION AWAY FROM HERSELF BECAUSE SHE WAS SMOKING WEED.

No adult can be this dense. This has to be a troll.

At 7:30AM in the morning in her house while her whole family is at home? I find it hard to believe she would be so idiotic.
She could drive for 2 minutes and smoke somewhere else.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If they were smoking that much in the car the smell would stick to them. Did they smell like pot inside your house? If you have never smelled pot on them then your neighbor is lying. I would have never confronted the cleaners and just said "thanks for the information" to the neighbor.

The OP has a curious disability that precludes smelling weed. She has to rely on the neighbor's daughter to detect it. Sound insane? It is.

Jeez, I'm sorry. Was I supposed to be sniffing my property thoroughly? I assumed my neighbor was telling the truth. Why would she lie?

She just saw two people drive up and decided this was convenient moment to blame them? Knowing I would probably let them go and they would never be back?

BECAUSE HER DAUGHTER LIED TO HER MOTHER TO DEFLECT ATTENTION AWAY FROM HERSELF BECAUSE SHE WAS SMOKING WEED.

No adult can be this dense. This has to be a troll.

At 7:30AM in the morning in her house while her whole family is at home? I find it hard to believe she would be so idiotic.
She could drive for 2 minutes and smoke somewhere else.

Not really. 7:30 am and she really needs a hit after waking up. Nowhere to reasonably go at 7:30am and return. Store? Seems suspect, not to mention how to get rid of the smell then too. She goes outside, then can deflect to cleaners. And her mom can't afford to believe anything else.

OP, I guess you are getting hammered so hard because you seem to refuse to consider that you did anything wrong, or at the very least consider the possibility that the drug addict might have lied. You keep doubling down on it must have been the cleaners.

[Anonymous]

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You and your neighbor mother both made a horrible decision to believe the daughter with a drug problem over hard working cleaners. The fact that you have to mention that they are Mexican, that you have to identify that you don't know whether they are legal or not. Both of those comments are racist justifications for why are tended towards believing your white neighbor over your cleaners. If your neighbor family was Mexican and your cleaners were white, I bet that you would have believed the cleaners and you wouldn't have the problem.

I’m beginning to think that you all are projecting.

I mentioned their Mexican and possibly illegal as this would be a good explanation why they immediately jumped to the thought that thy are not safe because neighbors could call cops in them. If they weren’t I would think they were guilty because people are ordinarily not afraid that someone will call cops on them as they have done nothing wrong.

Also, I told you we had a similar situation a few years ago when our neighbors alerted us that people renting our property were doing pot. They were white. I believed the neighbors and confronted the renters. Was I racist against white people too? Please, spare me from your victimhood.

[Anonymous]

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OP, I guess you are getting hammered so hard because you seem to refuse to consider that you did anything wrong, or at the very least consider the possibility that the drug addict might have lied. You keep doubling down on it must have been the cleaners.

I do consider that the neighbor lied hence the name of this thread.

[Anonymous]

Your reaction was super weird and over the top regardless of race.

[Anonymous]

1. Neighbor kid smoke pot.
2. Mom caught her.
3. She blamed your cleaners.
4. You are a moron that deserves bad things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you made a mistake in accusing the cleaners of smoking marijuana without having any direct evidence yourself. I would expect you’d have been able to smell it on them if they were doing it in the car.

A better course of action would have been to thank the neighbors for the info and keep an eye on things. I’m not sure how you expected this to go.

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[Anonymous]

The neighbor could have lied. It was a balsy move if she did it, drawing attention to herself like that. If before she flew under radar, now all the attention is on her.

There are two things that were suspicious about the cleaners.
1. They were terrified that cops will be called.
Do you worry that cops will be called on you? I don’t because I have done nothing wrong.
2. They played the race card. The neighbors accused them of smoking pot because of racism and they were racially profiled. Seriously?

If I was in their situation I would just say they “may have smelled something but it wasn’t pot” or “oh, no, it wasn’t me”. I would not go into this whole conspiracy against me because of my race.

[Anonymous]

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OP, I guess you are getting hammered so hard because you seem to refuse to consider that you did anything wrong, or at the very least consider the possibility that the drug addict might have lied. You keep doubling down on it must have been the cleaners.

I do consider that the neighbor lied hence the name of this thread.

But that seemed like a throw away to get attention. You have consistently made it clear you believe the neighbors over the cleaners.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is why I do not recommend my housekeeper to anyone who I do not know extremely well. White people are so panful.

Putting all white people in the same bag is kind of racist. I hope you go to bed now, have a restful sleep, and wake up with a clear mind tomorrow. It’s been a long day.