What to do about daughter’s classmate? Outspoken racist parent

[Anonymous]

OP you are ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

OP I hope you know that those of us who are conservative have to deal with this all the time and we are able to do it easily. I don't fault kids for their parent's misguided beliefs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ostracize the child and the entire family for their beliefs. Only way to stop this nonsense it to sever it from the rest of us. Let a little bit of this attitude get into the world and it taints everything. Better to let them be among themselves and not part of civil society.

Agreed. Cancel culture is the way to go. Also exclude any kids from controversial religions. Might as well exclude any kids whose parents are Republicans also.

[Anonymous]

I feel like this and the post about the colleague posting anti-BLM statements on Facebook have to be stirring the pot...right? Do people really care that much about what their acquaintances (not even friends - parents of kids’ friends, colleagues, etc.) believe in their own time? Honestly, who cares. As long as they’re not spouting hate at the birthday party let it go.

[Anonymous]

Wow, this is the kind of stuff people did in Nazi Germany.
Their daughters were friends with the little Jewish girls until they weren't. Then the Jewish girls were excluded from the birthday parties.

Sure exclude the Jews, Muslims, Christians, Yazidis, and Republicans and Democrats.

You end up with Communist China or Soviet Russia.

[Anonymous]

OP, in North Korea and China they imprison family members based upon the actions of one person in the family.

Do you truly want to live your life this way?

[Anonymous]

I would shun all of them. Those people should only feel comfortable in their own terrible circles. Especially if the little girl is turning into a pint sized Nazi.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, this is the kind of stuff people did in Nazi Germany.
Their daughters were friends with the little Jewish girls until they weren't. Then the Jewish girls were excluded from the birthday parties.

Sure exclude the Jews, Muslims, Christians, Yazidis, and Republicans and Democrats.

You end up with Communist China or Soviet Russia.

Nobody is excluding people because of religion of political affiliation. They are excluding a racist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow, this is the kind of stuff people did in Nazi Germany.
Their daughters were friends with the little Jewish girls until they weren't. Then the Jewish girls were excluded from the birthday parties.

Sure exclude the Jews, Muslims, Christians, Yazidis, and Republicans and Democrats.

You end up with Communist China or Soviet Russia.

Nobody is excluding people because of religion of political affiliation. They are excluding a racist.

Excluding based on some beliefs is OK, but not other beliefs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow, this is the kind of stuff people did in Nazi Germany.
Their daughters were friends with the little Jewish girls until they weren't. Then the Jewish girls were excluded from the birthday parties.

Sure exclude the Jews, Muslims, Christians, Yazidis, and Republicans and Democrats.

You end up with Communist China or Soviet Russia.

Nobody is excluding people because of religion of political affiliation. They are excluding a racist.

Excluding based on some beliefs is OK, but not other beliefs.

All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others.

[Anonymous]

I had to deal with this for a loooooonnnnnnggggg time.

There are a few drug addicted/alcoholic parents in my neighborhood and I would explain to my kids, you can play with the kids, but there is an issue with the parents and I can't trust them to be around them alone. They would need to be keen on talk about drugs or mention of using drugs... I would not tolerate it.

My kids also have some friends with parents who are extremely right wing racist, homophobes and mercenaries.

I did not exclude the kids but I did talk to my kids and tell them that these kids come from a different "bad" home life than drug addiction and that I could not trust them alone with their parents but the children were welcome in our home... but if I hear any talk that is xenophobic, homophobic or killing... I would speak up and if they did not want me to speak up they should exclude the children. They never did exclude them.

Of course, kids are a product of their home life and there were many comments made over the year and I did not tolerate it.

"I can tell what country people come from, those men speak dirty spanish and my family speak educated spanish, you can't tell but I can"... Larlo, we don't speak about people as dirty or not dirty, you are a Xtian and that is not okay. No human is dirty.

I could go on and on and on about the comments... but you get the idea, so sure they can be friends but NO I won't allow kids to be racist in my house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow, this is the kind of stuff people did in Nazi Germany.
Their daughters were friends with the little Jewish girls until they weren't. Then the Jewish girls were excluded from the birthday parties.

Sure exclude the Jews, Muslims, Christians, Yazidis, and Republicans and Democrats.

You end up with Communist China or Soviet Russia.

Nobody is excluding people because of religion of political affiliation. They are excluding a racist.

Excluding based on some beliefs is OK, but not other beliefs.

Some actions are not okay. I don't let my kids go over to houses of addicts, sex abusers, or racists.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I hope you know that those of us who are conservative have to deal with this all the time and we are able to do it easily. I don't fault kids for their parent's misguided beliefs.

Because liberals have values that offend you like healthcare for all and let’s let everyone vote. Give me a break. Alt right is a synonym for nazi. OP, I’m shocked at people saying to invite the child. Sorry for the kid, but I wouldn’t invite hitler’s kids to a party either. If you wouldn’t have the parents in your home, you shouldn’t invite the kid. It is a unspoken way of saying you accept who they are. They do not belong in polite society.

[Anonymous]

You have to draw a line somewhere, OP. Where is your line when it comes to racism?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, this is the kind of stuff people did in Nazi Germany.
Their daughters were friends with the little Jewish girls until they weren't. Then the Jewish girls were excluded from the birthday parties.

Sure exclude the Jews, Muslims, Christians, Yazidis, and Republicans and Democrats.

You end up with Communist China or Soviet Russia.

Lol this comment takes the cake! It’s like PP would be mad that Jews didn’t want to invite Nazis to their parties. Alt right people are white supremacists who advocate violence against anyone but white men. F you PP if you’re that ignorant.