Eating a single chocolate-covered strawberry, versus "a piece" of one, is not a huge contrast. Eat the whole damn strawberry. It's really okay. |
No offense, but to these disordered biddies, you're not thin. (Of course you are) |
We like to eat when we get done with work, I guess. Instead of coming home and grabbing a snack, we just make and eat dinner. Our kids are also young - 6, 3, and a baby - so early dinner works great for them. But even before kids we’d eat that early. We’re early birds in the morning too, fwiw. Up before 6am, even on weekends. |
Literally every meal of the day “just adds calories” to your day. You could say this about lunch or dinner, too. I’m 107 pounds and I feel sick if I don’t eat breakfast. I don’t care about lunch and don’t feel it’s necessary. Everyone’s body is different. |
Both are in contrast with what you really expect: eating the whole box or at least half of it is what normal people should do. |
Okay, obviously a digression, but this was kind of rude. I am not a SAHM, but my kid is older. SO I walk the dogs in the early a.m. for an hour. They get another 45 minutes after work, and 20 minutes before bed. So not 2.5 hours, but it can be done and some people do make the time. And your dig at SAHMs who have nothing better to do than walk their dogs was so unnecessary. |
Our culture is so messed up that the idea of eating a single chocolate cover d strawberry is so offensive to some people. I sometimes eat a few small pieces of dark chocolate after dinner and I find it pretty satisfying. I don’t need to binge and eat the entire package, I can stop eating after a few. Clearly some of you cannot do this. |
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All of you thin people with great genetics, I envy you! Used to be pretty thin in 20's and 30's (size 0/2, 5'5"), but since my mid-forties I have to really be on the straight and narrow not to blow up. At 51, I wear a size 6, but have to work really hard to stay there. If I eat more than 1400 calories a day (of veggies/fruit, lean protein, v. limited carbs/sweets, no alcohol), I gain weight. And I exercise 7 days a week, cardio and weights.
TL;DR: menopause can really throw you a loop, weight-wise! |
I think I’m trying to lose about 10 lbs ideally. But I don’t think I’m starving myself by any means. I didn’t even write what I eat the rest of the day there. |
Feel free to make a super easy alternative suggestions! I’m open to it! But I’m getting 3 kids and myself ready for work and school and I don’t have much time at all. Like two mins. Lol. |
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Genetics and don’t drink alcohol. Also eat smaller portions - I’m just not able to eat as large servings as I did when I was younger.
Also 8 hrs of sleep a night. Little sleep = weight gain. |
I try not to get involved in these catty remarks on other people’s food choices, but that oatmeal really is terrible. Just get plain oats if you want oatmeal. Another easy suggestion is to grab a couple of hard boiled eggs - you can buy them already cooked and peeled! - and eat. No prep time at all, high protein and filling, no sugar. |
| People who tell you oatmeal, if it’s not some slow cooked flax laden kale bowl, or bananas or any fruit or a piece of bread are unhealthy are orthorexics. They believe there is such a thing as “eating clean” or that you can “detox” with some weird diet. I pity them. I’m 5’7” 120lbs and I eat in moderation. Some days I binge junk food, some days I eat little, 90% of the time I’m in between. I move my body and I don’t drive everywhere and I try to lift heavy things sometimes. Some of it is genetic, a lot of it is realizing I’m up to 125lbs and my pants are tight so I cut back on something or move more. |
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I’m 5’4” and 110lbs, size 0/2. Age 39.
Breakfast - big smoothie with Fage 5% yogurt, frozen blueberries, frozen banana. And black coffee. Lunch - usually a sandwich I make with deli meat, cheese, mayo and mustard. With some crackers and a sparkling water or a Coke. Snack - cookies and whole milk or a Clif bar. Dinner - usually a Blue Apron meal, half a frozen pizza from Trader Joe’s, or some takeout like an Indian curry and naan. Bedtime snack - I often have a small bowl of cereal with whole milk. I love cereal. I have no idea how many calories this is. |
People definitely don’t appreciate the effects of alcohol and lack of sleep and how the two go together. The single best thing I ever did was essentially eliminate most alcohol consumption. We still drink and eat poorly at times, but it’s limited to a few days and we just want to go back to normal. |