When a friend confides about a really major secret and it changes things...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Somebody tell the OP to take it down a notch it's not that serious. If you can't be friends with the bitch with the Scarlett Letter then don't - nobody aside from yourself gives a shit.

I bet her family... Husband and kids would give a shit. Op has every right to be pissed- her friend changed the game.

This is why her friend's behavior is so hurtful. Her family, who may adore her, has no idea what she did. How can people live with these secrets?

We all have secrets that we hide away from everyone.

[Anonymous]

This happened to me some time back. Both the H and W were old friends from university/graduate school. She confessed to a deep love affair with her soulmate, a married, older colleague at work. I told her H, a wonderful guy and successful man who was from a wealthy family. He was devastated, but since they had no children yet, he decided to file for divorce. She tried unsuccessfully to pursue something with the man at work, but he would not leave his wife. She had to eventually leave that workplace, and has never attained the position she desired. Her ex-H is wildly successful and happily remarried. He and I are still great friends because he knows I have his back. I encourage people who know for sure to consider telling the aggrieved spouse if you think they can handle the truth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Somebody tell the OP to take it down a notch it's not that serious. If you can't be friends with the bitch with the Scarlett Letter then don't - nobody aside from yourself gives a shit.

You wife doesn't mind that you are getting it on with that woman you met last night at the bar. In fact she likes it. Feel better now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Somebody tell the OP to take it down a notch it's not that serious. If you can't be friends with the bitch with the Scarlett Letter then don't - nobody aside from yourself gives a shit.

I bet her family... Husband and kids would give a shit. Op has every right to be pissed- her friend changed the game.

This is why her friend's behavior is so hurtful. Her family, who may adore her, has no idea what she did. How can people live with these secrets?

We all have secrets that we hide away from everyone.

Sure, everybody has a skeleton in the closet somewhere, but having an affair is a big one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:SICK. All of you witches who condone this behavior and applaud this whore are simply terrible.

Condone? Meh. Every adult is responsible for their own choices and the consequences. I'm not there to be my friend's moral compass if s/he is not asking for that.

Life is more chill when you're not getting all worked up about someone else's drama.

[Anonymous]

These liberal losers crack me up- they are all smug and casual and defensive of the whore in question until their spouse does it to them- then it's a way different ballgame.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These liberal losers crack me up- they are all smug and casual and defensive of the whore in question until their spouse does it to them- then it's a way different ballgame.

Way to drag politics into it. You sound psycho BTW.

[Anonymous]

I thought like 80 percent of people have had affairs, or am I remembering that wrong?

[Anonymous]

OP hasn't responded in a while but I bet 19:26 is serial "meh" poster and 23:13 and 23:15 is serial "unhinged" poster. But I digress.

Here are the facts:

OP is friends with a whore who confessed to her.

Why MOST of you condone this is BEYOND!!! JEALOUS?

I wouldn't let this tramp alone with my husband for two hot seconds.

All of you beating up OP - give it a rest. On the other hand, OP if you don't confront your "friend" and cancel the Cape trip after all of this then you deserve what you get.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP hasn't responded in a while but I bet 19:26 is serial "meh" poster and 23:13 and 23:15 is serial "unhinged" poster. But I digress.

Here are the facts:

OP is friends with a whore who confessed to her.

Why MOST of you condone this is BEYOND!!! JEALOUS?

I wouldn't let this tramp alone with my husband for two hot seconds.

All of you beating up OP - give it a rest. On the other hand, OP if you don't confront your "friend" and cancel the Cape trip after all of this then you deserve what you get.

Do you really think this way or is this just something you write here? Because you sound like a horrible person yourself. Not having had an affair apparently doesn't make people decent if we can judge by posts like this. Your thinking sounds like it belongs in the middle ages.

[Anonymous]

And you sound crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And you sound crazy.

Really? I don't think so. I don't think people should have affairs, but you sound filled with hatred. You don't sound like someone I would ever want to know. Calling someone a whore? Gross.

[Anonymous]

And I would not want to be friends with a person who would have sex with someone who was married. Call them a whore? Hmm? Glad we aren't friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And I would not want to be friends with a person who would have sex with someone who was married. Call them a whore? Hmm? Glad we aren't friends.

I said i don't think people should have affairs so that is not the issue. Your issue with me is that I am not filled with hatred the way you are.

[Anonymous]

You two both sound like children.

"I know you are but what am I?"
"You're hateful."
"No, you're hateful"

Maybe time to go to bed?