To the OP- I haven't heard of that as a sign for a gay person in particular. Guys and girls have tongue piercings for different reasons, personality, to be different and for sexual pleasure. Part of me (I won't say which part) is thinking that you need to take his tongue for a test drive. If he's good with it on you, a female...MAYBE that' why he has it. It doesn't indicate that he has it because he is gay. However, if you are stating that 75% of his friends are gay men, THAT along with other things might make me wonder. It would be helpful to know what other factors are making you think he maybe gay or bi. Have you slept with him? Is he comfortable in bed or kinda awkward? That could be a sign to look for.

Good luck!

Anonymous wrote:Also, consider learning how to spell.

There's always one smart ass! Some people type fast or use phones.

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Anonymous wrote:What do you mean? An attraction? Flirty friendship? Texts and emails exchanged?

OP here: She's starting to talk about a coworker every day. I know him - he's a tall, built, good looking guy. I noticed that they have quite a few texts going back and forth with lots of jokes about work and have lunch together multiple times a week. We have lunch together about once every two weeks. The texts haven't crossed the line but lots of jokes and rainbows, unicorns, funny memes that I sent her, etc.

We have a good marriage if not always exciting.

Tell her you are uncomfortable now before you hold it all in and build a wall of tension.

Yes, tell her you are a little uncomfortable. But under no circumstances should you accuse her of anything.

--Start working on your emotional connection with her.
--DON'T start in the bedroom. Don't ignore it, but don't start there.
--Start on more weekly/bi-weekly dates (YOU organize the sitter! YOU do the legwork!).
--Make sure you talk with her about something other than children and work every day.
--Look her in the eyes with love and lust
--Plan a weekend getaway (again, YOU do the work! It doesn't have to be a surprise, but don't put the work on her. Get her input, you call the venue).
--Have you read the 5-love languages? Read it with her, or take the quiz online and send her the results and ask her to take the quiz, too. Do what it is she needs (NEEDS) to feel loved and special.
--Send her a flirty text. Give her a gift.

Yes all of this.

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Beckygotback wrote:I would suggest getting a babysitter and surprise our wife with a fun afternoon or evening out. Make a rule that you each look at your phone once per hour (just to check it for childcare/emergency) but that you want to spend time with HER, just the two of you. Tell her that you miss her and miss time with her. Women love to feel special and very much love to know that their man has put some thought into making a special time together. Good luck!

I've planned those and it goes well for like an hour, then back to the phone. I stopped doing it

Personally, I would be at the point of checking the phone to see what is happening there. Too much candy crush? Or too much of someone else's attention. Just my thoughts if you have tried everything and the phone keeps winning.

I would suggest getting a babysitter and surprise our wife with a fun afternoon or evening out. Make a rule that you each look at your phone once per hour (just to check it for childcare/emergency) but that you want to spend time with HER, just the two of you. Tell her that you miss her and miss time with her. Women love to feel special and very much love to know that their man has put some thought into making a special time together. Good luck!

Universal for sure. Disney Land is so "small" and for that age, the rides are not as great. I LOVE Disney. Have been there 16+ times. I would not go back to Disney Land. Once was enough. Disney World = yes. Universal Studios Orlando = YES. They will have a ton of fun at Universal Studios Hollywood - lots to do for that age.

Just say no. The kids will not appreciate it. Wait until they are older. I took my kids abroad when he youngest was 10. He has memories of it, and everyone had fun. Plus they are more flexible at that age and get "the adventure" of seeing those things. You can have fun bed time reading with books about where you are going before you leave and then when you SEE IT in person, it "clicks" and they think it's very cool.

Oahu,Honolulu- Waikiki Beach. Tons of properties to stay at for families, lots to do, it's near the Honolulu Zoo - beach, pools, shopping, ice cream, just walking around. Hilton is Great, so are the Outrigger properties. I stayed at the Hilton Hawaiian Waikiki Beach Village - the ocean isn't as rough, plus there is a GREAT manmade lagoon for kids with all kinds of activities. IF you want a less busy area, still go to Oahu, but stay at the Disney Property Aulani. It's Wonderful!!!!!

14 years old, 2 weeks is fine (unless they start growing things!). My DS is 16, and EVERY WEEK the sheets are washed, PJ's - every 2 days! They get so smelly so quickly!!!

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The Notebook (I know...)
Waitress
16 Candles
Breakfast Club
Good Will Hunting
Frequency


I can keep going...I LOVE movies!

SMH!!!

I'm a Survivor watcher and struggling with this season! Why are the people not growing on me yet? Surprised to see an 18 year old on it!