Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.
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Anonymous
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Female here, married 21 years.
He has no interest in sex and it seems to me as though he doesn't even get hard. It's been 8 months since we last had sex. I want sex everyday. I have NEVER said no to him. He used to be a twice a month guy. I've dealt with this opposite drive. Now, he's a twice a year guy. How do I live this way??? We're both only 45. What are my steps to remedy this. If I reference the thread for sexless marriage solved (for a man) I've done steps 1-7. No success. |
Anonymous
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Ultimatum.
AP. Move on. |
Anonymous
| Has he gained weight over the years? Working out often helps the libido. |
Anonymous
He works out 6 days a week. We go to the gym together. We're both in good shape. We run 5K, 10K's together. |
Anonymous
I love him. I can't imagine life without him. |
Anonymous
| Tell him you need something more in your relationship. Twice a year at 45 I would leave or get an Ap |
Anonymous
I have told him this. He says he loves me, he has no interest in sex at all. I've even initiated several times, he doesn't get hard. This does not seem to both him. |
Anonymous
Wow, 8 months. Just setup an account and a dozens of guys will seek to be wth you. I would for sure. |
Anonymous
| I don't think you can remedy low sex drive. |
Anonymous
| See a doctor. |
Anonymous
| Maybe he needs you to learn some new triicks. Ask him to PIIYB |
Anonymous
He won't. Says he is content with our life the way it is. |
Anonymous
| Are you doing things around the house to help him? Are you taking care of the lawn, car maintenance, managing investments, changing light bulbs, house repairs or anything? Maybe he is exhausted and could use a little help |
Anonymous
We share all responsibility with the house, bills, kids equally. |
Anonymous
| Are you any fun in bed or do you just lay back and expect to be serviced? |