DD fell and hit her two front teeth several times over the past year. First it turned grey, now it is a brownish-gray. Dentist said not to worry, just to keep it clean and we would have to accept the discoloration until her adult teeth come. Then my job laid off people and cut some of our benefits, dental being one of them! So I waited awhile to have her teeth checked again, only she grinds them and has practically worn them all the way down. I see a little white blister on her gum, but it goes away with the baby orajel. I took her to the dentist last week, and he says I can either go to a specialist who would have to put her totally under to remove the teeth, or I could wait another 6 months, practice playing dentist with her, so that she could potentially be cooperative enough to only have local anesthesia. He said unless she was in excruciating pain, it was probably safe to wait 6 months. I am really scared to put her under, but I don't want it to get infected either. DH is a holistic practioner, and he has a collection of articles on anesthesia gone wrong on kids. So I want to get some opinions...she is not in excruciating pain and can eat, drink, play normally...so should I wait 6 months and do the local? Or do I argue with DH and go have her put under now?