Would you be okay with your wife visiting her male best friend

[Anonymous]

For a week long out of state trip, staying out of state and bringing your toddler with her?

[Anonymous]

Is there a reason you can’t go too? We have visited my out of state male friend several times, but DH always comes too—it’s a family trip.

[Anonymous]

No damn way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is there a reason you can’t go too? We have visited my out of state male friend several times, but DH always comes too—it’s a family trip.

I can't get time off. We want to do a trip later in the year and my time has to go for that?

[Anonymous]

Have you met this person? Did they ever date? I'd probably be okay with it if we're talking about a best friend of long standing, who I've met, and who I have no reason to think is a threat. Plus, people who want to have a steamy affair usually don't bring the toddler along.

[Anonymous]

If you are invited, it sounds fine. If you can't join, that's sus and you are justified being not okay.

[Anonymous]

For a week? If he’s gay fine. If not, no way.

[Anonymous]

No, if for nothing else than to spare you from having to look like a cuckold in front of your entire circle.

[Anonymous]

Is friend in a relationship? Is wife staying with friend? Is there other stuff to do in the area and friend will play your guide? Did wife want you to come but you can’t?

Or is this a single guy best friend hosting your wife in the middle of nowhere for a week and you aren’t allowed to come?

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

No way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is friend in a relationship? Is wife staying with friend? Is there other stuff to do in the area and friend will play your guide? Did wife want you to come but you can’t?

Or is this a single guy best friend hosting your wife in the middle of nowhere for a week and you aren’t allowed to come?

Friend is single. I can't come because I can't get the time of because we're going on a trip later this year. They have been friends since childhood, as far as I know they have never dated. To my knowledge, he is not gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is friend in a relationship? Is wife staying with friend? Is there other stuff to do in the area and friend will play your guide? Did wife want you to come but you can’t?

Or is this a single guy best friend hosting your wife in the middle of nowhere for a week and you aren’t allowed to come?

Friend is single. I can't come because I can't get the time of because we're going on a trip later this year. They have been friends since childhood, as far as I know they have never dated. To my knowledge, he is not gay.

It sounds like you’re OK with it so why the post?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is friend in a relationship? Is wife staying with friend? Is there other stuff to do in the area and friend will play your guide? Did wife want you to come but you can’t?

Or is this a single guy best friend hosting your wife in the middle of nowhere for a week and you aren’t allowed to come?

Friend is single. I can't come because I can't get the time of because we're going on a trip later this year. They have been friends since childhood, as far as I know they have never dated. To my knowledge, he is not gay.

It sounds like you’re OK with it so why the post?

I'm not okay with it, it strikes me as odd, which is why I'm posting.

[Anonymous]

Have you told her it makes you uncomfortable? I always ask my DH if he’s okay with it before I do something like this. If he ever said he wasn’t okay with it, I wouldn’t go. (He also isn’t the least bit controlling, so if he said he didn’t like it it would be serious). I value my relationship with my husband over my friend.

Can you compromise and do a 3 day weekend together to see the friend? You use 1 vacation day, you both are present, she sees her friend.