My wife cheated on me for 2 years with a co-worker...

[Anonymous]

And now she is blaming me for a bad marriage and wants me to leave the house and her to stay. Was our marriage great? No. But I stayed loyal and wanted to work on it. She took it to another level with the infidelity. I am not going anywhere. Am I right?

[Anonymous]

She did the damage, she can move out. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

[Anonymous]

Unless you were abusive to her, nope, she can leave.

-signed a wife

[Anonymous]

It's divorce 101. She's already talked to an attorney and now they're trying to get you out of the house which is ridiculous. Just stand your ground and say no. At the same time you can't really kick her out of the house either which makes things pretty tough.

[Anonymous]

Look up “marital property” and “condonation”

[Anonymous]

Make sure you get a no trespassing order which is different than an order of protection against the boyfriend. That way if he ever does visit the house when you're not there and you find out he's in violation of that order. It's really easy to get and it's permanent.

[Anonymous]

You are in a dangerous situation here. Make sure you always have an overnight bag packed with at least one change of clothes toothbrush Etc and any medicines you might need. Because mark my words and next thing she's going to do is claim that you physically abused her. Then you come home from work one day and find out that you are kicked out of your house for at least two weeks and you can't even go back in to get anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Make sure you get a no trespassing order which is different than an order of protection against the boyfriend. That way if he ever does visit the house when you're not there and you find out he's in violation of that order. It's really easy to get and it's permanent.

Nope, that’s not how that works.

[Anonymous]

get a lawyer, she's clearly talking to one.

[Anonymous]

Call an attorney and get real advice on your rights and how to proceed. No one here even knows where you live, and you shouldn’t take internet legal advice anyway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are in a dangerous situation here. Make sure you always have an overnight bag packed with at least one change of clothes toothbrush Etc and any medicines you might need. Because mark my words and next thing she's going to do is claim that you physically abused her. Then you come home from work one day and find out that you are kicked out of your house for at least two weeks and you can't even go back in to get anything.

this. Your wife clearly wants the house and is going to try to get you out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And now she is blaming me for a bad marriage and wants me to leave the house and her to stay. Was our marriage great? No. But I stayed loyal and wanted to work on it. She took it to another level with the infidelity. I am not going anywhere. Am I right?

I'm really sorry. Please talk to a lawyer. Make sure you are secure financially as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She did the damage, she can move out. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

+1,000

We know a woman that did that in the home...and expects to stay in the home and have husband move out.

These b*tches have some gall.

[Anonymous]

You need to talk to an attorney.

Do not move out. Record her when necessary so she can't claim a made-up abuse thing against you.

She cannot kick you out of the house. Unless it's agreed upon and she buys you out of the house, she's not getting the house.

[Anonymous]

Any proof of her infidelity is very helpful. It can often sway a judge in your favor even if it's not 'technically used'. Divorce Courts are much more receptive to men. It's no longer the woman is always right.