My daughter got beat up for bullying another child

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a kid who was bullied for two years while trying to find every possible way to get it to stop to no avail. Going to school was so stressful it cause anxiety. We finally got a lawyer and was planning to sue everyone involved. It stopped long enough for us to leave the School. There is no way in hell the school would have suspended my kid if physical action had to taken to get relief. You are damn lucky I am not the parent of the other child. Consider yourself and your child lucky that a black is all that happened. Teach your child not to be a bully, you never know who'll be at the receiving end the next time she tries to make someone her victim. I have no patience for those who takes joy out of others misery.

OK, but the person who threw the punch could be sued right back. And potentially charged with assault and battery.

[Anonymous]

Question for OP. Does your daughter still have a phone? Your answer will tell me how serious you are taking this. How exactly are you punishing your daughter?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a kid who was bullied for two years while trying to find every possible way to get it to stop to no avail. Going to school was so stressful it cause anxiety. We finally got a lawyer and was planning to sue everyone involved. It stopped long enough for us to leave the School. There is no way in hell the school would have suspended my kid if physical action had to taken to get relief. You are damn lucky I am not the parent of the other child. Consider yourself and your child lucky that a black is all that happened. Teach your child not to be a bully, you never know who'll be at the receiving end the next time she tries to make someone her victim. I have no patience for those who takes joy out of others misery.

OK, but the person who threw the punch could be sued right back. And potentially charged with assault and battery.

And then the school or school system will get sued and they have the really deep pockets. So I’m with the first commentor. I would absolutely Sue to fight a suspension for my child if she was only suspended as a result of having to deal with a bully herself after reporting the behavior to the adults who did nothing to intervene.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question for OP. Does your daughter still have a phone? Your answer will tell me how serious you are taking this. How exactly are you punishing your daughter?

I haven't punished her yet. I kind of feel like the beating she got plus suspension is punishment enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Question for OP. Does your daughter still have a phone? Your answer will tell me how serious you are taking this. How exactly are you punishing your daughter?

I haven't punished her yet. I kind of feel like the beating she got plus suspension is punishment enough.

You're wrong, and it is abundantly clear how you're raising a sociopath.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My daughter was crying about her eye, she's whining that it needs to be gone before she goes back to school. Does anyone know how to heal them fast. I don't want her to get teased. I know it's easy to say she deserves it when that's not your child going through it. She's still very young and I know she's hurt physically and emotionally.

-OP

You don't want her to get teased? That's rich.

[Anonymous]

Do you think your daughter will bully other girls again?

No? Good. Lesson learned the hard way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My daughter was crying about her eye, she's whining that it needs to be gone before she goes back to school. Does anyone know how to heal them fast. I don't want her to get teased. I know it's easy to say she deserves it when that's not your child going through it. She's still very young and I know she's hurt physically and emotionally.

-OP

Hopefully it will take a good long time to heal and she will learn some empathy as she worries about being teased. In the meantime, get her out in public and make her deal with it.
Are you are parent or a pathetic enabler?

[Anonymous]

If OP isn't a troll, she's a bad parent. Easy to see why her kid is a miserable brat, op is a shitty parent. I know many single parents doing it all on their own and they are raising great kids. Don't use that excuse. You are just a bad parent. End of story. The unfortunate thing is your daughter is the one who is going to suffer (and whoever else she chooses to bully).

Some people really shouldnt be parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My daughter was crying about her eye, she's whining that it needs to be gone before she goes back to school. Does anyone know how to heal them fast. I don't want her to get teased. I know it's easy to say she deserves it when that's not your child going through it. She's still very young and I know she's hurt physically and emotionally.

-OP

You must be a troll. No one can be this oblivious.

No I'm a single mom, who's doing everything on my own and I've never dealt with something like this before. Any advice is really appreciated.

Well, now we know where your DD gets the whining from!
Don't pull the single mom excuse. Totally unfair to all of the amazing single moms out there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My daughter was crying about her eye, she's whining that it needs to be gone before she goes back to school. Does anyone know how to heal them fast. I don't want her to get teased. I know it's easy to say she deserves it when that's not your child going through it. She's still very young and I know she's hurt physically and emotionally.

-OP

Hopefully it will take a good long time to heal and she will learn some empathy as she worries about being teased. In the meantime, get her out in public and make her deal with it.
Are you are parent or a pathetic enabler?

I think it's pretty clear she's a pathetic enabler. Kind of hard to blame the kid for her actions. She was probably never actually disciplined as a kid as OP always made excuses for her behavior. Kind of hard to know what's right and wrong when mommy has raised you to think you're always right. Being a single parent isn't an excuse for being a bad parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My daughter was crying about her eye, she's whining that it needs to be gone before she goes back to school. Does anyone know how to heal them fast. I don't want her to get teased. I know it's easy to say she deserves it when that's not your child going through it. She's still very young and I know she's hurt physically and emotionally.

-OP

Oh, shut up.

Too bad she won’t have it for her school picture. Then maybe she would know what it feels like to be embarrassed and humiliated publicly, like she did to her victim!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My daughter was crying about her eye, she's whining that it needs to be gone before she goes back to school. Does anyone know how to heal them fast. I don't want her to get teased. I know it's easy to say she deserves it when that's not your child going through it. She's still very young and I know she's hurt physically and emotionally.

-OP

Hopefully it will take a good long time to heal and she will learn some empathy as she worries about being teased. In the meantime, get her out in public and make her deal with it.
Are you are parent or a pathetic enabler?

Why would you want my daughter's injuries to take a long time to heal. That's pretty evil.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Question for OP. Does your daughter still have a phone? Your answer will tell me how serious you are taking this. How exactly are you punishing your daughter?

I haven't punished her yet. I kind of feel like the beating she got plus suspension is punishment enough.

You're wrong, and it is abundantly clear how you're raising a sociopath.

Yup, the fact that you didn't pocket her phone immediately speaks volumes. I've seen moms like you at my kids' schools. You are creating a monster and you know it.

[Anonymous]

OP is so clearly a troll. Stop feeding it.