Why do men like good girls?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men like women who show some degree of discrimination. If a 27 year old woman hops in bed with a guy on the first date, how many first dates has she had? On the other hand sometimes having a date with a bad girl is just fine.

Sorry, hon, wishful thinking. We're looking for good enough and willing.

No, you are looking for that because you're desperate. Not exactly husband material anyway. But I suspect you know this and that's why you come on here to try to pressure women to have sex with men

"Pressure to have sex"? I've been married, enjoyed it, and I have an idea of how I got that way. I am disagreeing with women who write that men want one thing in a would-be wife, when we really want something else. We don't want "good girls". Regardless of what is convenient for you, we want something else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men like women who show some degree of discrimination. If a 27 year old woman hops in bed with a guy on the first date, how many first dates has she had? On the other hand sometimes having a date with a bad girl is just fine.

Sorry, hon, wishful thinking. We're looking for good enough and willing.

No, you are looking for that because you're desperate. Not exactly husband material anyway. But I suspect you know this and that's why you come on here to try to pressure women to have sex with men

"Pressure to have sex"? I've been married, enjoyed it, and I have an idea of how I got that way. I am disagreeing with women who write that men want one thing in a would-be wife, when we really want something else. We don't want "good girls". Regardless of what is convenient for you, we want something else.

Regardless of what you may want to convince others to believe, most men feel differently from you, hence OP's post. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If all a woman has to offer is sex, then she's not special. You don't win a man's heart by sleeping with him. Sex is the least special thing humans have to offer. Everyone has the same equipment.

Wrong. Sex is very important to men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If all a woman has to offer is sex, then she's not special. You don't win a man's heart by sleeping with him. Sex is the least special thing humans have to offer. Everyone has the same equipment.

Wrong. Sex is very important to men.

I'm sure it is but any woman can offer sex. Being able to provide sex is not special in any way. It's the lowest common denominator. If that's all a woman has to compete with, she won't get very far since all women know how to have sex, everyone's genitals are built the same way, and men are capable of sexual desire toward pretty much any non-repulsive woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When I was single, my magic number was 12 dates before sex. And they have to be actual dates.

Any many who put up with your ridiculous demands is a loser.

He doesn't care what you think.

I'm sure he was banging other women while waiting for me. I'm the one he married.

Interesting. You don't care that he was sleeping with other women while courting you. Did you have a guy on the side, or are you just low drive (or were you self servicing)?

Why would I care? I was looking to marry, not to date ad nauseam. We run on parallel lines.

So no answer regarding your own sex life and drive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If all a woman has to offer is sex, then she's not special. You don't win a man's heart by sleeping with him. Sex is the least special thing humans have to offer. Everyone has the same equipment.

Wrong. Sex is very important to men.

Doesn't matter. Other things are very important to men too- like getting the girl who's a 10 over the one who's a 4. But if you want the 4, by all means.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If all a woman has to offer is sex, then she's not special. You don't win a man's heart by sleeping with him. Sex is the least special thing humans have to offer. Everyone has the same equipment.

But I have lots of male friends with whom I have fun times and share some emotional intimacy. The sex differentiates a romantic relationship from a longtime male friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If all a woman has to offer is sex, then she's not special. You don't win a man's heart by sleeping with him. Sex is the least special thing humans have to offer. Everyone has the same equipment.

Wrong. Sex is very important to men.

I'm sure it is but any woman can offer sex. Being able to provide sex is not special in any way. It's the lowest common denominator. If that's all a woman has to compete with, she won't get very far since all women know how to have sex, everyone's genitals are built the same way, and men are capable of sexual desire toward pretty much any non-repulsive woman.

This is not the way men think. They are more attracted to hotter women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If all a woman has to offer is sex, then she's not special. You don't win a man's heart by sleeping with him. Sex is the least special thing humans have to offer. Everyone has the same equipment.

Wrong. Sex is very important to men.

I'm sure it is but any woman can offer sex. Being able to provide sex is not special in any way. It's the lowest common denominator. If that's all a woman has to compete with, she won't get very far since all women know how to have sex, everyone's genitals are built the same way, and men are capable of sexual desire toward pretty much any non-repulsive woman.

This is not the way men think. They are more attracted to hotter women.

That has nothing to do with what the PP said?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If all a woman has to offer is sex, then she's not special. You don't win a man's heart by sleeping with him. Sex is the least special thing humans have to offer. Everyone has the same equipment.

But I have lots of male friends with whom I have fun times and share some emotional intimacy. The sex differentiates a romantic relationship from a longtime male friend.

Sex can easily be had outside of the context of a romantic relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was single, my magic number was 12 dates before sex. And they have to be actual dates.

Any many who put up with your ridiculous demands is a loser.

He doesn't care what you think.

I'm sure he was banging other women while waiting for me. I'm the one he married.

Interesting. You don't care that he was sleeping with other women while courting you. Did you have a guy on the side, or are you just low drive (or were you self servicing)?

Why would I care? I was looking to marry, not to date ad nauseam. We run on parallel lines.

So no answer regarding your own sex life and drive?

It's irrelevant. My genitals report to me, I don't report to them. They are not allowed to make decisions for me.

[Anonymous]

It's hard to take any of the men's comments here seriously. Think about it. Most of the men who would be spending their time posting on a DCUM relationship forum are not marriage material.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's hard to take any of the men's comments here seriously. Think about it. Most of the men who would be spending their time posting on a DCUM relationship forum are not marriage material.

LMAO.

+1000000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was single, my magic number was 12 dates before sex. And they have to be actual dates.

Any many who put up with your ridiculous demands is a loser.

He doesn't care what you think.

I'm sure he was banging other women while waiting for me. I'm the one he married.

Interesting. You don't care that he was sleeping with other women while courting you. Did you have a guy on the side, or are you just low drive (or were you self servicing)?

Why would I care? I was looking to marry, not to date ad nauseam. We run on parallel lines.

So no answer regarding your own sex life and drive?

It's irrelevant. My genitals report to me, I don't report to them. They are not allowed to make decisions for me.

So, low sex drive masquerading as superiority. Got it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was single, my magic number was 12 dates before sex. And they have to be actual dates.

Any many who put up with your ridiculous demands is a loser.

He doesn't care what you think.

I'm sure he was banging other women while waiting for me. I'm the one he married.

Interesting. You don't care that he was sleeping with other women while courting you. Did you have a guy on the side, or are you just low drive (or were you self servicing)?

Why would I care? I was looking to marry, not to date ad nauseam. We run on parallel lines.

So no answer regarding your own sex life and drive?

It's irrelevant. My genitals report to me, I don't report to them. They are not allowed to make decisions for me.

So, low sex drive masquerading as superiority. Got it.

NP. If you cannot control your genitals your as inferior. Deal with it. Accept it, move on.