Why do men like good girls?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men like women who show some degree of discrimination. If a 27 year old woman hops in bed with a guy on the first date, how many first dates has she had? On the other hand sometimes having a date with a bad girl is just fine.

Sorry, hon, wishful thinking. We're looking for good enough and willing.

Yep. It's really as simple as that.

[Anonymous]

Male here, and I know none of my friends think,like this. The only reason I have heard of this is through DCUM. Most if not all of my friends marriages, as well as mine, started as hook ups, almost right after we met the girl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Why don't they just buy it then, if that's all it is? Simpler and you could say a straightforward transaction.

You buy it by marrying them.

Legalize prostitution would be a boon for me and terrible for women, which is why it's illegal.

[Anonymous]

I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men like good girls to marry and pass on their DNA (have kids with them). This is biological conditioning because they do not want to raise other men's kids. As for plain hooking up? They want girls who are willing to have sex with them sooner rather than later.

If a man finds a suitable woman to marry he will appreciate her being a good girl. Most men are not looking to get married though before they are settled in their career and in finances so they will not continue to date someone who will not have sex with them after a few dates.

And in 10 years they'll be on DCUM complaining that their good girl wives aren't interested in sex anymore. But hey, he can appreciate the hell out of her chastity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It always took me a half dozen dates before I would even consider, let alone sleep with a guy. I knew my DH for three years before we ever had a date and we were good friends. On our first real date I slept with him which I'm pretty sure surprised him. We've been happily married a very long time and continue to have a great sex life.

Wow, after all those years you finally "rewarded" him. I feel sorry for him.

No, I rewarded myself! I hit on him.

[Anonymous]

You have all wrong good girl in the streets ... in the sheets

[Anonymous]

In my opinion, the guys who want a "good girl" are naive or are insecure. There are many women who are sexual (ie will have sex on the first date) and are good people: In fact, these women are amazing partners, great family members, and are honourable colleagues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If he's on a hunt to bang and run, rinse and repeat, then sure. But if he wants a relationship, why would he?

[Anonymous]

Sure, men like good girls gone wild, and girls good in bed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my opinion, the guys who want a "good girl" are naive or are insecure. There are many women who are sexual (ie will have sex on the first date) and are good people: In fact, these women are amazing partners, great family members, and are honourable colleagues.

Lol wut

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love sex and would happily have it every day (multiple times), but I'm also completely capable of waiting a few weeks or even a couple of months before I sleep with someone new. I've dated a fair amount, and once you sleep with someone, you can't take it back. It's out there. I'd rather not sleep with someone who is just after sex - I'm after a relationship. I don't see the problem in waiting a bit for that first time, just to make sure you're actually really interested in the person. Plus I wouldn't be interested in any guy who couldn't wait a couple of months to have sex with someone. Why the hell does everything have to be so rushed? I'm not interested in dating someone who sleeps with every chick he meets on Tinder/Bumble/Match. I'd like someone who is a little more choosy than that.

Once I'm exclusive with someone, game on.

Why should any man who is capable of dating other people want to wait "months" for you when he can be having sex with other women?

There are lots and lots of attractive women in DC. You are not special.

If he's on a hunt to bang and run, rinse and repeat, then sure. But if he wants a relationship, why would he?

You're joking. Sex is a prerequisite for a relationship. If you are avoiding that, you're playing games, there won't be no relationship, you're not going to be taken seriously, I should really stop calling relatively quickly.

[Anonymous]

OP, I am a millennial. My guy friends think this way too. It seems they have different standards for girls they hook up with and girls they date.

Now, if you are just desperate for any action at all, then you may just be grateful to get a hookup on the 3rd date even if you know she's doing it with everyone.