One of them is lying to me - the cleaners or the neighbor

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

This is funny. It’s okay to break the law and use illegal cleaners but don’t possibly break the law and smoke marijuana in the car. By the what it’s legal where I live. Not sure of where you live. I don’t do any sort of drugs by the way and do not support the use of marijuana even if it’s legal but you really has some nerve Op.

Again, for the 10th time. I don't care if someone smokes it. Just not at my house. I don't want any type of smoke near or at my house. It gets into walls.

DP. But you had no evidence they were doing it in your home. The car was in an open garage when the car doors were opened and the neighbor girl smelled weed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've had Mexican cleaners for over five years. I don't know if they're legal or not. A mother and daughter come to clean every other week. I've never had any issues with them, other than the mother cleans really well and the daughter doesn't. The daughter is not very motivated and makes this stone wall face expression when I ask her to clean something that she missed.

We've known our neighbors for 1.5 years. They are middle class family, dad, mom and two daughters, and have always been super friendly with everyone in the neighborhood and are always very nice. One of the daughters had problems with drugs until about a year ago. After rehab and a lot of efforts, I think she's off drugs now and has been living with them for a year now, taking online college classes, going to the gym, etc. I'm really hoping this problem is behind them, they're such nice people.

Our driveways are next to each other. Our garage is facing their garage. Cleaning ladies go in through the garage.

One day I was out of the house when cleaners arrived. They have a key and got in and started cleaning, as usual.

I drive up 30 minutes later and my neighbor texts me and then comes out to me and says that when the cleaners opened the car doors the neighbor's daughter smelled marijuana all the way to their garage, thought they were "hotboxing" which apparently means smoking in the car with windows rolled up. I thought surely a former drug user wouldn't confuse marijuana with anything else.

I didn't really smell anything, I have allergies and my nose is stuffed up in the mornings.

I waited until the cleaners left because I didn't want to confront them in my house. Then I texted them something like "Hey, is the car you drove here today yours? This is what the neighbors told me. I'm fine with people using it recreationally at home, but not at work or driving." They responded that this is racial profiling, this is racist, they would not do such a thing, the daughter has asthma and can't be around smoke, the mother doesn't drink, the neighbors are racist and the cleaning service is canceled because they're terrified that the neighbors will call cops on them. I think they may be illegal and that's why they're afraid, but don't know for sure.

So it didn't really go down the way I imagined it. I'm just puzzled by this bizarre incident and I don't know whom to believe.

5 years and 1.5 years……hmmmmm

[Anonymous]

Racist troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you are the A hole of the day. Congrats!

Why am I the A hole? Because I confronted them?
By the way, I have done a lot for them over the years and they're leaving because they worry the neighbors will call cops.

Op, let's just be honest. If you didnt care they smoked outside of your residence inside their own car, you wouldn't have said anything. You would have taken the super great family with the former drug addicted daughter's word with a grain of salt and kept it moving. But what you did was go right to the cleaners, whom you think are likely illegals for no established reason and accused them of smoking weed in their private car, even though you don't really care. 40-60% of addicts relapse in their first year. You look really foolish that your first instinct is that it's the daughter next door.

[Anonymous]

Wasn't it just last month we had a poster who also had some outrageous story and just kept doubling down despite everyone saying she was wrong?

She must stay up at night to come up with the scenarios.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Troll, you literally just said, "So the scenario where a young Mexican girl was smoking weed in her car with her friends is completely out of the question? Really?" So which is it? Smoking with her friends some other time or in your drive way?

??? She could be smoking that morning in the car with her mom, but that's doubtful or she could be smoking in the car without her mom and the car just smells. I was just trying to find out what happened exactly.
I told her I don't care if she smokes. It's legal in many states, soon to be legal nationally. Some of my friends smoke. I'm fine with it. Just no smoking near the house.

Also, the neighbor was on much harder drugs than weed.

You are just making yourself look really stupid. Stop talking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Troll, you literally just said, "So the scenario where a young Mexican girl was smoking weed in her car with her friends is completely out of the question? Really?" So which is it? Smoking with her friends some other time or in your drive way?

??? She could be smoking that morning in the car with her mom, but that's doubtful or she could be smoking in the car without her mom and the car just smells. I was just trying to find out what happened exactly.
I told her I don't care if she smokes. It's legal in many states, soon to be legal nationally. Some of my friends smoke. I'm fine with it. Just no smoking near the house.

Also, the neighbor was on much harder drugs than weed.

They have cleaned for you for 5 years? Did you ever come home and smell anything? No? Then they aren't smoking and nothing is getting into yourbhouses walls and carpets so drop it. And you shouldn't have said anything to them either without any actual evidence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

This is funny. It’s okay to break the law and use illegal cleaners but don’t possibly break the law and smoke marijuana in the car. By the what it’s legal where I live. Not sure of where you live. I don’t do any sort of drugs by the way and do not support the use of marijuana even if it’s legal but you really has some nerve Op.

Again, for the 10th time. I don't care if someone smokes it. Just not at my house. I don't want any type of smoke near or at my house. It gets into walls.

DP. But you had no evidence they were doing it in your home. The car was in an open garage when the car doors were opened and the neighbor girl smelled weed.

It's all such a stretch. Op is both racist and stupid and the neighbor girl is exploiting these qualities.

[Anonymous]

You 100 percent believe the cleaners
You should not have said anything

[Anonymous]

This has to be the crazy troll who creates crazy scenarios to see how people react. So lame.

[Anonymous]

Whats the big deal?

[Anonymous]

This can’t be real, right? OP has to be a troll.

As an aside, how many of you actually do what the OP claims she does: tell the cleaner about things she “missed” when cleaning? I’ve never done that once in my entire life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Troll, you literally just said, "So the scenario where a young Mexican girl was smoking weed in her car with her friends is completely out of the question? Really?" So which is it? Smoking with her friends some other time or in your drive way?

??? She could be smoking that morning in the car with her mom, but that's doubtful or she could be smoking in the car without her mom and the car just smells. I was just trying to find out what happened exactly.
I told her I don't care if she smokes. It's legal in many states, soon to be legal nationally. Some of my friends smoke. I'm fine with it. Just no smoking near the house.

Also, the neighbor was on much harder drugs than weed.

They have only lived next-door to you for a year and a half and they disclosed that to you? hmmmm.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This can’t be real, right? OP has to be a troll.

As an aside, how many of you actually do what the OP claims she does: tell the cleaner about things she “missed” when cleaning? I’ve never done that once in my entire life.

The detail about the daughter looking stonefaced (haha ironic) when OP admonishes her cleaning abilities was… Very weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This has to be the crazy troll who creates crazy scenarios to see how people react. So lame.

Pretty much the most boring creative-writing class ever.