DS is dating a stripper

[Anonymous]

I'm the AMA stripper here, love this troll thread and the accompanying judgement and hate.

Generally speaking, stereotypes have SOME basis in truth - however, no stereotype is 100% accurate. It would be unfair to buy into the stereotype that "all lawyers are a**holes," for example. Well, actually, come to think of it...



Some strippers are drug addicts with a lot of baggage. So are some [insert job title here]. OP, before you start painting a picture of this girl with broad strokes (on the off chance you're not just a troll) why don't you meet her first?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My cousin was a stripper, and she was married and windowed twice to wealthy men who were crazy about her, long after she quit work. Let your son be happy, I know that is what you want.

Ita not OPs son who is a stripper, he is playing the role of "wealthy men" in your scenario.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Am I the only person who thinks it's odd that OP has a rule that his son isn't allowed to bring a young woman over to visit unless he's "serious" about the relationship? What's the backstory there? I don't imagine my daughter would want to bring a new date over to hang out with her parents, but, if she did, why should that bother me? I can't imagine making a rule like that.

Yes, it's a strange rule.

It''s what makes me think the OP is a troll.

There are people with way weirder rulers in this world.

You want to see weird? Google the Maxwell family.

OP will come across as reasonable in comparison.

Which doesn't mean she actually is. That dinner rule is as dumb as they come.

[Anonymous]

Op rule is not weird at all. My mom told me the same thing, she said she was tired of cooking dinners for multiple boyfriends and to only bring home the ones I was serious about. It's just like you don't bring home random partners to meet your you children, maybe your family does not want to make an effort to get to know Tom sick and Harry or the female equivalent.

[Anonymous]

And seriously those saying dating a stripper is ok are full of it, including the stripper who ama. Emotionally damaged people may be good people but does not mean they are ideal or one has to be happy if your child is dating them. Think about it, strippers rub their bodies over strange men for a living, how proud for one to be part of your family.i stead of listening to one stripper gloss over her experiences, why don't you check out this forum called hustle hit where strippers swap tips how to get as much money as possible by leading men along. Op has a right to be worried, for those condemning her hope your kids date strippers somesay. The next thing people will be saying bringing back a hooker is ok.

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?133-Hustle-Hut&s=6ed39d0105b3501c758d7030123b4da3

[Anonymous]

Depends on the girl. I can say that if I liked the person, I'd much rather DS dated a stripper than one of DCUM bitches whining about MILs LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All right, I'm the OP and I came back to address a few things:

Yes I agree I have no authority over who my son dates. But I do have more invested in his happiness, well-being and success in life than a girlfriend who might leave him at any time, or divorce him after she gets married.

The naivete about strippers in this thread is hysterical. The majority of them have histories of abuse, drug problems, and eventually they start escorting on the side to make more cash. It's well-documented. None of this is news. It's not a "female-empowering" profession, although yes as a feminist we should allow all women to make their own choices. DS's girlfriend is obviously free to make her own choices, I'm not going to police her. But I do have a say over who joins my family.

Every now and then one happy stripper will trot along and do a DCUM AMA or an interview onTV, just like you'll see the PR-friends happy porn star and happy hooker doing the same things. These women DO NOT accurately represent their industry and very often they aren't accurately. It's incredibly naive and delusional to think otherwise.

However, thanks again for your replies, and this thread can end now.

Wow - you are fucking delusional. You do not -- nor will your ever -- trump the woman he marries. I feel sorry for your son.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All right, I'm the OP and I came back to address a few things:

Yes I agree I have no authority over who my son dates. But I do have more invested in his happiness, well-being and success in life than a girlfriend who might leave him at any time, or divorce him after she gets married.

The naivete about strippers in this thread is hysterical. The majority of them have histories of abuse, drug problems, and eventually they start escorting on the side to make more cash. It's well-documented. None of this is news. It's not a "female-empowering" profession, although yes as a feminist we should allow all women to make their own choices. DS's girlfriend is obviously free to make her own choices, I'm not going to police her. But I do have a say over who joins my family.

Every now and then one happy stripper will trot along and do a DCUM AMA or an interview onTV, just like you'll see the PR-friends happy porn star and happy hooker doing the same things. These women DO NOT accurately represent their industry and very often they aren't accurately. It's incredibly naive and delusional to think otherwise.

However, thanks again for your replies, and this thread can end now.

Wow - you are fucking delusional. You do not -- nor will your ever -- trump the woman he marries. I feel sorry for your son.

I hope your son married a stripper. Lack of class .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Has he seen her dance, they have good sense of rhythm and are very caring towards men similar to a nurse

[Anonymous]

OP, you have this much time to create a fake thread and maintain it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:By the way there's a forum called strippernet.

They give out all sorts of tips on how to get more money from men and how to string them along and where the best clubs are to dance at. I went there out of curiosity, and I can tell you its pretty sordid.

Right, just research.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:By the way there's a forum called strippernet.

They give out all sorts of tips on how to get more money from men and how to string them along and where the best clubs are to dance at. I went there out of curiosity, and I can tell you its pretty sordid.

Right, just research.

yes..i went to a body building forum where the guys were discussing never to date strippers because they were train wrecks and they linked to this forum. So even amongst the men they think dating strippers are crazy. So give up berating the OP over what realistically when you look at it is a terrible thing. She is not weird or controlling, she is a concerned mom.

Read some of the posts: disgusting and taking men for your ride. OP should be concerned that her son is a sucker.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197969-After-7-years-and-1-1Million-this-is-what-I-have-learned

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197116-how-do-you-gage-if-he-likes-the-aggressive-slutty-vs-the-classy-shy-type

Its all about the sale. Go there and ignore the stripper AMA bullshit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:By the way there's a forum called strippernet.

They give out all sorts of tips on how to get more money from men and how to string them along and where the best clubs are to dance at. I went there out of curiosity, and I can tell you its pretty sordid.

Right, just research.

yes..i went to a body building forum where the guys were discussing never to date strippers because they were train wrecks and they linked to this forum. So even amongst the men they think dating strippers are crazy. So give up berating the OP over what realistically when you look at it is a terrible thing. She is not weird or controlling, she is a concerned mom.

Read some of the posts: disgusting and taking men for your ride. OP should be concerned that her son is a sucker.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197969-After-7-years-and-1-1Million-this-is-what-I-have-learned

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197116-how-do-you-gage-if-he-likes-the-aggressive-slutty-vs-the-classy-shy-type

Its all about the sale. Go there and ignore the stripper AMA bullshit.[/quot

Right. Ignore my perspective, thoughts, experience and insight - I'm just a stripper.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:By the way there's a forum called strippernet.

They give out all sorts of tips on how to get more money from men and how to string them along and where the best clubs are to dance at. I went there out of curiosity, and I can tell you its pretty sordid.

Right, just research.

yes..i went to a body building forum where the guys were discussing never to date strippers because they were train wrecks and they linked to this forum. So even amongst the men they think dating strippers are crazy. So give up berating the OP over what realistically when you look at it is a terrible thing. She is not weird or controlling, she is a concerned mom.

Read some of the posts: disgusting and taking men for your ride. OP should be concerned that her son is a sucker.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197969-After-7-years-and-1-1Million-this-is-what-I-have-learned

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197116-how-do-you-gage-if-he-likes-the-aggressive-slutty-vs-the-classy-shy-type

Its all about the sale. Go there and ignore the stripper AMA bullshit.[/quot

Right. Ignore my perspective, thoughts, experience and insight - I'm just a stripper.

actually yes. you're just a stripper trying to glorify herself vs a whole community of strippers discussing the best ways to hustle money. If you think you're comparable to a surgeon, a nanny who takes care of kids, or a social worker who helps the elderly, or a teacher, you're kidding yourself. You dance naked and try to manipulate men for money. You're far from being empowered. You add less value to society than even a stay at home mom.

[Anonymous]

PP, as of above, I think SAHMs add great value to society.