DS starting to act like a gay, is this just a phase?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate the grammar police, but "grammer lesson"? Thats just begging for it.

Yeah I know. Noticed it after I posted. I also wrote 'gramatical' instead of 'grammatical'. Not done my coffee yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why most of the posters on here are deriding OP. OP is genuinely asking for advice and I, like a few others knew when she said 'the gays', she was saying it in that term because of her surroundings.

Might be hard to believe, but there are plenty of people who grow up in America and don't have gay neighbors/friends/family/co-workers and/or not interact with anyone gay.

While being gay is not a choice, I know I would be disappointed to find out if my child were gay. I can't help feeling that way, and I know others would too.

+1. At least 50% those saying it makes no difference to them are lying.

Why do you think people are lying? I mean I admit it, I would be worried that my child would have to go through a lot of struggles that he wouldn't have to go through if he was straight, but that doesn't mean I would be disappointed. What is there to be disappointed about?

[Anonymous]

Not to be alarmist, but could there possibly be anyone molesting your child?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not to be alarmist, but could there possibly be anyone molesting your child?

Um. What?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not to be alarmist, but could there possibly be anyone molesting your child?

Oh my God!!!

I feel so sorry for you PP!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:'gay' and 'homosexual' are adjectives. They should not be used as nouns. Do you call yourself a straight?

Best explanation - Thanks! Honestly, I also didn't understand what was wrong with the way OP stated it. I sometimes refer to people like that "the Asians" or whatever, but I see how that's not grammatically correct.

[Anonymous]

OP - I get what you're saying. I would feel the exact same way you do, if I were in your situation. I actually have a friend whose son is most likely gay. They noticed at a very young age, and finally in elementary school, they decided to work on acceptance. They had to get out of denial, stop wishing for something else, learn how to be supportive, which included helping the child understand his/her sexuality (other kids could be less accepting). With some things, acceptance takes a lot of work and does not come naturally. They sought a pyschologist to help them sort through their (just the parents) feelings, and joined a support group with other parents facing the same situation. Their child does not know they do this (as they don't want the child to think something is wrong with him). They have met many people in their situation who want to "deal" with this in the most positive manner. Some parents come alone as their spouse is either in denial or completely against their child being gay. The boys' parents used to cry a lot about this (even though the very much loved their son). They have come along way, and while they are pretty sure their son is gay, there's the small chance he may not be - they think they are on the right track in learning acceptance now rather than later.

[Anonymous]

hi people, by the time our kids grow up and are adults, being gay will be so much more socially acceptable. And civil rights for the LGBT community will have processed a lot. Our kids will not be phased by people of different sexual orientation and it will be so much more accepted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As long as he doesn't become one of the poors, you will be fine.

Fucking THIS.

[Anonymous]

Looks like the gays run this forum.

Oh well... Another one lost to the gays.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't worry about anything really young kids do, OP. At that age, most of my best friends were boys, so I was a huge tomboy. I spent my summers climbing trees, looking for tadpoles, etc. I'm a very active person, so the active games the neighborhood boys played appealed to me. Eventually I got into Barbies and boys like the rest of my friends. I'm still pretty low-maintenance in terms of appearance and I like sports and still get along well with guys, but I'm straight. Your son might just be "fitting in" with female friends, but might eventually resemble a more typical boy again.

and if not - it's a different world now than when we were growing up - even if your son were gay, it wouldn't necessarily mean his life would be much harder.

[Anonymous]

OP, sorry about all of these God damn no-balls liberal cowards always supporting the gays. If I wanna bash the gays, I'm gonna bash the gays. I don't want my son acting like a damn gay, and that's just that. I'm not homophobic though.

[Anonymous]

Schooooooooooooooool's out for summer!

Welcome, 15-year-old trolls!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Schooooooooooooooool's out for summer!

Welcome, 15-year-old trolls!

Its funny how dc is so dominated by god damn libs that anyone posting anything with a remotely conservative agenda gets labeled as a troll.

[Anonymous]

You people making fun of how OP talks make me sick. Makes me miss the south, where people actually have class and aren't a bunch of liberal bickerers who have a "my way or the highway" attitude.