Disclosing if you’re sleeping with other people

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Promiscuous millennials… we didn’t do that in GenX, and young people don’t do that either. It’s considered gross, and serious/normal people don’t do that. Way to ruin your reputation in high school/college - for both men and women.

I'm a Gen Xer who lived in NYC in my early 20s and absolutely did that stuff, my friends and I seemed to have two or more partners simultaneously which was fine as long as we didn't promise exclusivity. When I hit my late 20s and wanted to settle down my behavior changed and I only looked for exclusive relationships, waiting longer to have sex. Nothing wrong with any of this as long as everyone is honest and upfront about your intentions and behavior.

Are you a man or a woman?

I’m a woman, now 49 and married for 20 years with no cheating.

Do your daughters know that their mother banged 40 strangers in her 4 years in NYC?

DP. Why in the world you be talking about your old sex life with your kids? Very weird.

Talking with your kids is 'weird' but letting rando dudes ejaculate inside your is normal? Yeah, you're the freak.

Nobody allows anyone not tested ejaculate anywhere . You should use protection . I slept with multiple men in same few months period but they all had a recent STD test and protection was used. You are paranoid

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Promiscuous millennials… we didn’t do that in GenX, and young people don’t do that either. It’s considered gross, and serious/normal people don’t do that. Way to ruin your reputation in high school/college - for both men and women.

I'm a Gen Xer who lived in NYC in my early 20s and absolutely did that stuff, my friends and I seemed to have two or more partners simultaneously which was fine as long as we didn't promise exclusivity. When I hit my late 20s and wanted to settle down my behavior changed and I only looked for exclusive relationships, waiting longer to have sex. Nothing wrong with any of this as long as everyone is honest and upfront about your intentions and behavior.

Are you a man or a woman?

I’m a woman, now 49 and married for 20 years with no cheating.

Do your daughters know that their mother banged 40 strangers in her 4 years in NYC?

DP. Why in the world you be talking about your old sex life with your kids? Very weird.

Talking with your kids is 'weird' but letting rando dudes ejaculate inside your is normal? Yeah, you're the freak.

Nobody allows anyone not tested ejaculate anywhere . You should use protection . I slept with multiple men in same few months period but they all had a recent STD test and protection was used. You are paranoid

Lots of people hate women who enjoy sex, they want to shame them for behavior that would be praised in men. A woman who admits to enjoying having sex with multiple partners while single decades ago still needs to be shamed here today.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is all so funny. Retired sluts are trying to reshape the narrative 20 years later, but I bet a milion dollars each and every one of them would be horrified if their daughters did as they did.

I would be horrified if my kids were anonymously roasting people for perfectly normal adult sexual behavior they admitted to 25 years later. Hopefully I'm not raising judgmental prudes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Promiscuous millennials… we didn’t do that in GenX, and young people don’t do that either. It’s considered gross, and serious/normal people don’t do that. Way to ruin your reputation in high school/college - for both men and women.

I'm a Gen Xer who lived in NYC in my early 20s and absolutely did that stuff, my friends and I seemed to have two or more partners simultaneously which was fine as long as we didn't promise exclusivity. When I hit my late 20s and wanted to settle down my behavior changed and I only looked for exclusive relationships, waiting longer to have sex. Nothing wrong with any of this as long as everyone is honest and upfront about your intentions and behavior.

Are you a man or a woman?

I’m a woman, now 49 and married for 20 years with no cheating.

Do your daughters know that their mother banged 40 strangers in her 4 years in NYC?

DP. Why in the world you be talking about your old sex life with your kids? Very weird.

Talking with your kids is 'weird' but letting rando dudes ejaculate inside your is normal? Yeah, you're the freak.

Nobody allows anyone not tested ejaculate anywhere . You should use protection . I slept with multiple men in same few months period but they all had a recent STD test and protection was used. You are paranoid

Lots of people hate women who enjoy sex, they want to shame them for behavior that would be praised in men. A woman who admits to enjoying having sex with multiple partners while single decades ago still needs to be shamed here today.

I believe this conversation is about a woman lying in bed watching her partner get ready for his next date.

Nothing to do with enjoying sex. Just whether this is acceptable. Or a no-no.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is all so funny. Retired sluts are trying to reshape the narrative 20 years later, but I bet a milion dollars each and every one of them would be horrified if their daughters did as they did.

I would be horrified if my kids were anonymously roasting people for perfectly normal adult sexual behavior they admitted to 25 years later. Hopefully I'm not raising judgmental prudes.

Sleeping with multiple people at the same times is not 'perfectly normal behavior", slut.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is all so funny. Retired sluts are trying to reshape the narrative 20 years later, but I bet a milion dollars each and every one of them would be horrified if their daughters did as they did.

I would be horrified if my kids were anonymously roasting people for perfectly normal adult sexual behavior they admitted to 25 years later. Hopefully I'm not raising judgmental prudes.

Sleeping with multiple people at the same times is not 'perfectly normal behavior", slut.

You clearly didn’t make it into a fraternity in college, loser.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is all so funny. Retired sluts are trying to reshape the narrative 20 years later, but I bet a milion dollars each and every one of them would be horrified if their daughters did as they did.

I would be horrified if my kids were anonymously roasting people for perfectly normal adult sexual behavior they admitted to 25 years later. Hopefully I'm not raising judgmental prudes.

I’m totally enjoying it in my 40s. 25 years ago I was married

[Anonymous]

I just cannot understand sleeping with multiple people and thinking it's OK. Unless it's an accepted polyamory relationship.

Larlo is very much in the wrong and Larla should not give him another chance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Larla and Larlo have been dating for 5 weeks, seeing each other about once a week. They’ve slept together 3 times.

The last time they met up (which was early afternoon), Larlo mentioned he had plans that evening. Larla asked if it was a date, Larlo said yes. Larla asked if Larlo was sleeping with her as well, Larlo said yes.

Larla broke things off because while he didn’t directly lie, he failed to communicate he was sleeping with someone else. Larlo maintains that he did nothing wrong since they hadn’t talked about being exclusive, and was still figuring out which woman he wanted to commit to, but has told Larla he will stop seeing the other woman and exclusively date her.

Larla is debating it, but is leaning towards no, because she believes he should have been upfront and honest about sleeping with someone else even if they weren’t exclusive because of the emotional and STD risks. Dating others would have been fine, sleeping with them, not okay. Also, felt very gross that Larlo literally slept with her that afternoon and the other woman that evening.

Who is right/wrong here?

Larlo is right. Larla is a clingy, neurotic idiot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Call me old fashioned, but when I was growing up only whores and man sluts slept with multiple people at the same time.

Oh my, yes, you are old fashioned and your out-of-date perspective and feelings are invalid.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Call me old fashioned, but when I was growing up only whores and man sluts slept with multiple people at the same time.

Oh my, yes, you are old fashioned and your out-of-date perspective and feelings are invalid.

I have friends who have only had a single sexual partner, their spouse, and others who had many partners while single in their 20s and 30s. I refrain from calling any of them demeaning names or saying their feelings are invalid because we don’t have the same experience. I thought this is what we all tried to do as adults.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Call me old fashioned, but when I was growing up only whores and man sluts slept with multiple people at the same time.

Oh my, yes, you are old fashioned and your out-of-date perspective and feelings are invalid.

I bet $50 you have cervical and or throat cancer and don't even know it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Call me old fashioned, but when I was growing up only whores and man sluts slept with multiple people at the same time.

Oh my, yes, you are old fashioned and your out-of-date perspective and feelings are invalid.

I bet $50 you have cervical and or throat cancer and don't even know it.

Is this what they told you to keep you a virgin for life?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Call me old fashioned, but when I was growing up only whores and man sluts slept with multiple people at the same time.

Oh my, yes, you are old fashioned and your out-of-date perspective and feelings are invalid.

I bet $50 you have cervical and or throat cancer and don't even know it.

Is this what they told you to keep you a virgin for life?

Bless your heart. You're loaded up with HPV and clueless as a dog.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Call me old fashioned, but when I was growing up only whores and man sluts slept with multiple people at the same time.

Oh my, yes, you are old fashioned and your out-of-date perspective and feelings are invalid.

I bet $50 you have cervical and or throat cancer and don't even know it.

Is this what they told you to keep you a virgin for life?

Bless your heart. You're loaded up with HPV and clueless as a dog.

Sister Mary Martha! Thank you for saving me from the horrors of sex! I remain chaste and afraid into my 50s!