I went to visit a swingers club for the first time. AMA

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OP strikes me as insecure and seeking validation and attention in a lot of different spaces.

You strike me as a woman that hates hot, sexy women

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OP strikes me as insecure and seeking validation and attention in a lot of different spaces.

The fatty has entered the chat!

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For those of you interested but not as brave as OP, try the Lyonesse series of books. Sierra Simone. Good on audible too. It is not for everybody: https://www.goodreads.com/series/359577-lyonesse

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Anonymous wrote:Keep the questions as clean as you can and I will do my best to answer all posted here. I won’t name the exact club or day I went, but the visit was in the last month.

I’m doing this because it was way less scary than I built it up in my mind. I am hoping to help others who are curious and nervous about making the first step/visit.

How attractive were the people? Being propositioned by people I find unattractive and having to see them getting raunchy with each other would turn my stomach.

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Anonymous wrote:For those of you interested but not as brave as OP, try the Lyonesse series of books. Sierra Simone. Good on audible too. It is not for everybody: https://www.goodreads.com/series/359577-lyonesse

Thanks for the book recco. Much appreciated. Let me know if you have more!

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Anonymous wrote:Keep the questions as clean as you can and I will do my best to answer all posted here. I won’t name the exact club or day I went, but the visit was in the last month.

I’m doing this because it was way less scary than I built it up in my mind. I am hoping to help others who are curious and nervous about making the first step/visit.

How attractive were the people? Being propositioned by people I find unattractive and having to see them getting raunchy with each other would turn my stomach.

If you read through the thread, I address attractiveness at several points. If your stomach turns at the idea of someone that you don't find attractive enjoying their body or someone else's body, this is probably not the environment for you. I didn't see anyone that I found grossly unattractive, but had I, I would have just looked away. I don't know what your personal definition of attractiveness is because that is very personal, but please keep in mind that you might be someone's idea of unattractive. Body acceptance (yours and others) is key for enjoying a lifestyle club.

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This all sounds like a n advertisement

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Were there white rocks out front? Have you installed white rocks in your own landscaping?

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How many of the men were there just to watch their wives?

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Anonymous wrote:what is the venue like? Not the exact location of course, but do they rent out a nightclub or it is a purpose-built space? Is it in some random industrial district to avoid attracting attention?

I'm just having weird visions of the jumping/trampoline place I take my kids to play at turning into a swingers club after hours.

I’m picturing the trampoline park with a ton of swingers- hilarious! I will probably giggle every time I walk into one now.

This was a custom built club, and it exists all the time as a lifestyle club. You can go any weekend. It is in an industrial area but not a bad area.

I guess you could see the cars parked in front then. Based on that (and I know it's little to go on), what would you say about financial status of attendees?

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Anonymous wrote:Were you always an immoral person or did you become one recently? What’s your plan when you meet our creator?

Shoo. This is not your thread.

Have a blessed day!

You won’t be able to shoo your way on the day of judgement

NP - neither will you, so you might want to mind that plank in your own eye, sweets. Judge not.

That’s right. Therefore it is important to live a moral life. And if u err, then sincerely repent

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Were the men packin’ and any threesomes?

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Have you done anything physical with another man yet? Kissing even?

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Anonymous wrote:Keep the questions as clean as you can and I will do my best to answer all posted here. I won’t name the exact club or day I went, but the visit was in the last month.

I’m doing this because it was way less scary than I built it up in my mind. I am hoping to help others who are curious and nervous about making the first step/visit.

How attractive were the people? Being propositioned by people I find unattractive and having to see them getting raunchy with each other would turn my stomach.

If you read through the thread, I address attractiveness at several points. If your stomach turns at the idea of someone that you don't find attractive enjoying their body or someone else's body, this is probably not the environment for you. I didn't see anyone that I found grossly unattractive, but had I, I would have just looked away. I don't know what your personal definition of attractiveness is because that is very personal, but please keep in mind that you might be someone's idea of unattractive. Body acceptance (yours and others) is key for enjoying a lifestyle club.

DP. But realistically it sounds like all the women there were in fact performing femininity (all dressed up, taking the role of the traditionally “sexy” one) whereas the men just put on a nice pair of slacks. Although I find the “lifestyle” clubs intriguing I think I would feel very off-put at the reproduction of mainstream gender stuff.

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How is this even legal. It’s a lesson of Sodom and Gomorrah