I went to visit a swingers club for the first time. AMA
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Anonymous
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Keep the questions as clean as you can and I will do my best to answer all posted here. I won’t name the exact club or day I went, but the visit was in the last month.
I’m doing this because it was way less scary than I built it up in my mind. I am hoping to help others who are curious and nervous about making the first step/visit. |
Anonymous
| Did you participate or just watch? |
Anonymous
| Actual swingers club or a general sex club? |
Anonymous
| Did it smell bad? |
Anonymous
| Can you use a fake name to get in or do they vett you and you have to show ID? |
Anonymous
| On a scale of 1-10 how attractive were the people there on average? |
Anonymous
| How old were the people there? |
Anonymous
| What was the male:female ratio like? |
Anonymous
| How does it work? Do you just walk in or do you need an invite? Once your'e in, what happens next? |
Anonymous
| What was the demographic of the people there and is it in DC md or va? |
Anonymous
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- Husband and I are new to this idea. We did not participate this time but are even more certain that we will in the near future.
- It was a “lifestyle club” that mostly caters to the swinger crowd but is open to all type of sexual lifestyles. - It did not smell bad. - We did have to present our IDs at the door. It’s a members only club so I had to register online and receive a member number. They checked that and out IDs when we got there. |
Anonymous
| Where is it located generally and did you run into people you know or was it costumed like eyes wide shut |
Anonymous
| Do people go into rooms or private areas or is it all happening out in the open? |
Anonymous
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- People were as attractive as the average population. There were some smoking hot young people, and some older or bigger people, the women generally dress to impress.
- There were more women then men there. At the club we went to, the woman holds the membership, and can bring a male guest. Only a handful of single men are allowed on any given night, so there were for sure more women than men there. - For demographics, we hit it off with a couple of couples, both were similar in age to us (40s) and professionals. |
Anonymous
| How did you find out about it? |