I went to visit a swingers club for the first time. AMA

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Anonymous wrote:I appreciate you sharing, OP. And I'm glad you enjoyed yourself. From my perspective, it just sounds sad and empty (which I realize is a me issue). Did you worry about being recognized? And what was the cost financially?

I think this really depends on your personality. I’m an extrovert who has an exhibitionist streak. For me, going somewhere that I can dance with Hubs and talk to new people with my boobs out is heaven.

I didn’t worry about being recognized. I’m not a public figure so I assume that these people have no idea who I am. I will not see most of them again. If I do see them again, I assume that they have just as much interest in discretion as I do.

A monthly membership fee was about $30 and our entry for the night was about $50. We brought our own alcohol with us and they provide all mixers. We tipped the bartenders and attendants. So all in for about $110.

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Anonymous wrote:Would you consider it safe for a solo woman? Do they offer valet parking?

I think it would be safe for a solo woman. I think you would be a celebrity! I might go with another female friend if you’re worried at first.

I didn’t see valet parking. We took an uber so I wasn’t looking for valet, sorry I can’t be more help. There was plenty of parking and the lot seemed safe.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm glad you posted OP. BF and I have been discussing attending an event. So far we haven't gotten beyond talking.

Glad I can help. This felt like going to a safe and secure dance club. No one was propositioning me or trying to grab me. No lines at the bar. The vibe is sexy and the music was great.

What kind of music?

Mix - early in the night it was pop and reggae with some dance music and a few line dances. Toward the end of the night it was dance and EDM.

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Were you always an immoral person or did you become one recently? What’s your plan when you meet our creator?

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What did you wear? Did you actually see people engaging in sex or was that behind closed doors?

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Anonymous wrote:Were you always an immoral person or did you become one recently? What’s your plan when you meet our creator?

Shoo. This is not your thread.

Have a blessed day!

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Anonymous wrote:What did you wear? Did you actually see people engaging in sex or was that behind closed doors?

I wore a see through lace dress with a plunge neckline and a pair of lace, high cut Brazilian panties.

We did see some people having sex in the private rooms with windows. We also peeked into the group sex room where lots of people were having sex.

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😴🥱

OP strikes me as insecure and seeking validation and attention in a lot of different spaces.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm glad you posted OP. BF and I have been discussing attending an event. So far we haven't gotten beyond talking.

Also glad you posted! I’ve been tiptoeing into the lifestyle for a year or so and have been to a couple of smaller play events but haven’t been brave enough to go to one of the bigger clubs yet! So far I’ve mostly used FL to find activities; are you active there too?

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what is the venue like? Not the exact location of course, but do they rent out a nightclub or it is a purpose-built space? Is it in some random industrial district to avoid attracting attention?

I'm just having weird visions of the jumping/trampoline place I take my kids to play at turning into a swingers club after hours.

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Anonymous wrote:😴🥱

OP strikes me as insecure and seeking validation and attention in a lot of different spaces.

Ok, Brenda. Thanks for your very important addition to our conversation. I did tell you repeatedly that I’m an exhibitionist, so have a cookie for your entirely predictable projection. Now shoo. This is not a thread for you.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm glad you posted OP. BF and I have been discussing attending an event. So far we haven't gotten beyond talking.

Also glad you posted! I’ve been tiptoeing into the lifestyle for a year or so and have been to a couple of smaller play events but haven’t been brave enough to go to one of the bigger clubs yet! So far I’ve mostly used FL to find activities; are you active there too?

The club was so much fun! We haven’t done any of the smaller play events yet. We will see where this year takes us! We’re not on FL.

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Anonymous wrote:what is the venue like? Not the exact location of course, but do they rent out a nightclub or it is a purpose-built space? Is it in some random industrial district to avoid attracting attention?

I'm just having weird visions of the jumping/trampoline place I take my kids to play at turning into a swingers club after hours.

I’m picturing the trampoline park with a ton of swingers- hilarious! I will probably giggle every time I walk into one now.

This was a custom built club, and it exists all the time as a lifestyle club. You can go any weekend. It is in an industrial area but not a bad area.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Were you always an immoral person or did you become one recently? What’s your plan when you meet our creator?

Shoo. This is not your thread.

Have a blessed day!

You won’t be able to shoo your way on the day of judgement

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Were you always an immoral person or did you become one recently? What’s your plan when you meet our creator?

Shoo. This is not your thread.

Have a blessed day!

You won’t be able to shoo your way on the day of judgement

NP - neither will you, so you might want to mind that plank in your own eye, sweets. Judge not.