I went to visit a swingers club for the first time. AMA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would love to watch but I’m too shy to actually go to one of these clubs.

So were we.

Seems so was the OP.

Don't hesitate, the people are normal and if you go on a newbie night it is even more welcoming. May be a lot less action in the rooms with the windows.

That said, like anywhere their are some bad apples. Go and check out the vibe. If it sparks your desires/fantasies start researching. Ask yourself what you want out of it.

Good luck, you can always walk out. Choice and free will is Primary in these environments.

It is so normal to have sex in front of other people. Smh

You know that most mammals do this, yeah? Sorry you're prudish, but that doesn't make people who aren't "abnormal".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you guys afraid of the fire of hell?

Oh good lord...

[Anonymous]

Gross and can lose your govt or private job

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Aren’t you guys afraid of the fire of hell?

Save that line of questioning for republicans.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gross and can lose your govt or private job

Yes, leaving all else aside, this seems crazy risky for anyone with any sensitive job: teaching, counseling, gov't, doctor, etc. So many opportunities to be blackmailed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gross and can lose your govt or private job

No, you cannot lose your government job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Gross and can lose your govt or private job

Yes, leaving all else aside, this seems crazy risky for anyone with any sensitive job: teaching, counseling, gov't, doctor, etc. So many opportunities to be blackmailed.

But there are plenty of physicians on the date apps who are openly looking for a booty call. Also plenty of people in government too and lawyers too. In fact I just got a dic pic from one lawyer and I tell them I'm not looking for sex but I am 40 but they don't seem to understand that I don't want sex? I want a relationship and that's all I want

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Gross and can lose your govt or private job

Yes, leaving all else aside, this seems crazy risky for anyone with any sensitive job: teaching, counseling, gov't, doctor, etc. So many opportunities to be blackmailed.

But there are plenty of physicians on the date apps who are openly looking for a booty call. Also plenty of people in government too and lawyers too. In fact I just got a dic pic from one lawyer and I tell them I'm not looking for sex but I am 40 but they don't seem to understand that I don't want sex? I want a relationship and that's all I want

You want a relationship with a member of the opposite sex that does not include sex?
And you're 40?
Maybe you should get a dog or a cat.