Why do women do so well compared to men post divorce?

[Anonymous]

Both my ex and I are doing great. (I sleep with women 20 years younger and she is married to a much wealthier man--I earn a great living for DC but nothing compared to her new guy).

I can't imagine this is a better situation for our kids, but they do attend a private school now and a horse riding camp every summer.

[Anonymous]

Islam is right about women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Both my ex and I are doing great. (I sleep with women 20 years younger and she is married to a much wealthier man--I earn a great living for DC but nothing compared to her new guy).

I can't imagine this is a better situation for our kids, but they do attend a private school now and a horse riding camp every summer.

Ugh so the new guy is providing these new extra curricular activities for your kids? F***k no take care of your own brother don't let no man give them sh**t

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do women do so well post divorce compared to men? Women look and act happier. Their love life is better. Men on the other hand go downhill....

Because they are? They got rid of that ahole. Why wouldn't they be happier without losers

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is this true? Men seem to remarry pretty quickly and move on.

But they need another 'mommy'

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women "do better" on average post-divorce.

However, a small subset of "high value" men will truly skyrocket post-divorce. There are the ones who do not fall into substance abuse, poor food choices, and spiraling thoughts. They get into better shape, date younger, etc.

But lets not miss the forest for the trees. Most men post-divorce do horribly.

Anyone would sky rocket with plummeted kid responsibilities. Duh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because people who give are usually healthier and happier than selfish people

Ehh, ignorant people look the happiest to me! Dumping on others, clueless about responsibilities, focused on only themselves, no cares or worries.
Ignorance is bliss!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rather than make it a gender thing, why not just say that if one person is dead weight in the marriage, they will often fair worse in a divorce than their spouse. If one partner takes much better care of themselves, they'll do better on the dating scene than a spouse who let themselves go. If one partner has a significantly better career, they'll eventually end up in a better place most of the time, but this will vary by couple based on their age, length of marriage, where they live, and what they got in their settlement.

You left out the part where the non default parent more formally reverts back to simple, selfish singlehood life asap.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think so.

I’m a guy and I’m doing better . Have my own place, dating hotter younger women and have equal custody with my kid .

My gf now is steps above my ex wife in terms of looks and personality. And about 15 years younger. My last gf was 18 years younger .


Issue is most women are running around and date bf the same few guys, then getting their backs blown out and ghosted then think all guys are bad. It’s their own bad decisions and no one wants to be in a serious relationship with an old bitter hag with kids. Go out on dates, EVERY woman I’ve been on date with who is divorced says their ex-husband is a narcissist. Then they go out and date narcissists apparently, because they all complain their ex-boyfriends are too.

At first I’m like, that’s not even statistically possible — but then realized women usually try to date the top 5% and they wonder why they’re pumped and dumped. It was so easy to get single moms in their 40s to have sex in one or two dates. That’s why I called it quits on dating them and stuck To younger women who want more of a relationship.

[Anonymous]

That’s good you traded up in looks. My exH is 49, is dating a mid 40s plain-ish lady who is raising three of another mans kids. Looks miserable.

He’s a high earner too. All that road travel sadly turned him into a fat drunk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think so.

I’m a guy and I’m doing better . Have my own place, dating hotter younger women and have equal custody with my kid .

My gf now is steps above my ex wife in terms of looks and personality. And about 15 years younger. My last gf was 18 years younger .


Issue is most women are running around and date bf the same few guys, then getting their backs blown out and ghosted then think all guys are bad. It’s their own bad decisions and no one wants to be in a serious relationship with an old bitter hag with kids. Go out on dates, EVERY woman I’ve been on date with who is divorced says their ex-husband is a narcissist. Then they go out and date narcissists apparently, because they all complain their ex-boyfriends are too.

At first I’m like, that’s not even statistically possible — but then realized women usually try to date the top 5% and they wonder why they’re pumped and dumped. It was so easy to get single moms in their 40s to have sex in one or two dates. That’s why I called it quits on dating them and stuck To younger women who want more of a relationship.

you sound like a real winner

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think so.

I’m a guy and I’m doing better . Have my own place, dating hotter younger women and have equal custody with my kid .

My gf now is steps above my ex wife in terms of looks and personality. And about 15 years younger. My last gf was 18 years younger .


Issue is most women are running around and date bf the same few guys, then getting their backs blown out and ghosted then think all guys are bad. It’s their own bad decisions and no one wants to be in a serious relationship with an old bitter hag with kids. Go out on dates, EVERY woman I’ve been on date with who is divorced says their ex-husband is a narcissist. Then they go out and date narcissists apparently, because they all complain their ex-boyfriends are too.

At first I’m like, that’s not even statistically possible — but then realized women usually try to date the top 5% and they wonder why they’re pumped and dumped. It was so easy to get single moms in their 40s to have sex in one or two dates. That’s why I called it quits on dating them and stuck To younger women who want more of a relationship.

Dude, it’s possible because you are a narcissist and attracting women who date narcissists.

This seems incredibly obvious to anyone who isn’t trying to dance circles around it.

[Anonymous]

My ex is smarter, wealthier better educated and ore successful than my bf who is also older than ex was. But bf is 10000000x and better towards me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think so.

I’m a guy and I’m doing better . Have my own place, dating hotter younger women and have equal custody with my kid .

My gf now is steps above my ex wife in terms of looks and personality. And about 15 years younger. My last gf was 18 years younger .


Issue is most women are running around and date bf the same few guys, then getting their backs blown out and ghosted then think all guys are bad. It’s their own bad decisions and no one wants to be in a serious relationship with an old bitter hag with kids. Go out on dates, EVERY woman I’ve been on date with who is divorced says their ex-husband is a narcissist. Then they go out and date narcissists apparently, because they all complain their ex-boyfriends are too.

At first I’m like, that’s not even statistically possible — but then realized women usually try to date the top 5% and they wonder why they’re pumped and dumped. It was so easy to get single moms in their 40s to have sex in one or two dates. That’s why I called it quits on dating them and stuck To younger women who want more of a relationship.

Younger women are just impressed by what you have accomplished. But that's temporary..once their career take off you will be the one who got pumped and dumped lmao. I am 47 and divorced and I will never date a woman under 30. These women are young hot sexy and they have a full life ahead of them. Let them date another young stud.

[Anonymous]

My ex-H is out there looking fine as wine, thriving, fit and all that. I'm pretty sure he's still self-sabotaging and breaking hearts though. He does those two things the best.