I said something really stupid/insensitive to gf and now she’s given me an ultimatum

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Same dude here: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1095794.page

Oh God! It's him. !

Op get help.
Leave your ex alone.
Stop dating until you get help!

[Anonymous]

And this troll: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/973499.page

[Anonymous]

Here he is, AI matches things easily: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/954352.page

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And this troll: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/973499.page

I’m enjoying this, keeping going and wasting your time. Also not me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, this is not even subtle, OP. You were 100% wrong. She took you at your word. Take her at hers -- if you want her back, give her a ring and set a date.

But if she were posting instead of you, I would advise her to move on and never look back. WTH, you told her she didn't make you happy and to go your separate ways just for the hell of it???

No! No! No! No! No!

OP is in no way ready to be in a serious longterm relationship. He needs to go to therapy and work on himself and his anger issues and his lashing out. Then maybe he can follow up with her. Maybe she will have moved on and maybe not. But until that happens, OP needs to stay away from her. She is telling him to stay away from her.

I am sorry that OP is hurt. But sometimes that is how things work out.

[Anonymous]

The delusional paranoia tone keeps shining through: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/939897.page

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here he is, AI matches things easily: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/954352.page

Yea, get Jeff to look into that so he can prove you wrong.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:“‘I was surely going to propose to my Gf of 4 years but instead insulted her to her face so she wouldn’t dump me first. Now my moms in town and I want us all to get together. What should I do? She said she doesn’t want to see me anymore, but I didn’t do anything!’”

-OP’s May/June post.

Yea, my mom is dead so I don’t see how that’s possible.

We all know you are unreliable, untrustworthy and make up a large % of your posts. You’re crazy dude.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I get really worked up sometimes and lash out and say things I don’t mean. I know I have this issue and I’m working on it. Well, I told my girlfriend, or I guess ex now, that she didn’t make me happy and that we should go out separate ways. That’s not true at all, I love her more than anything and want to marry her. She simply said “okay” and she hasn’t contacted me once since this happened a month ago. She’s removed me from all social media and has taken down every picture of us - we were together for 4 years.

I’ve contacted her multiple times since then but she’s replied nicely but curt. Yesterday, my sister came into town and I asked her if she wanted to join us. She said, “you said I don’t make you happy and that we needed to go our separate ways, so I’m not sure why you continue contact me. We’re not friends. So, unless you’re contacting me with an enormous apology, have gone to therapy for a while, and with a receipt for a down payment for a ring please don’t contact me anymore”. Needless to say I was left speechless. I completely understand where she’s coming from since I royally screwed up. However, I was always told never give in to someone’s ultimatum because it’s manipulation. I also don’t want to lose her though.

What are your thoughts on ultimatums/this ultimatum?

Omg, you again?

Stop harassing her, you guys broke up five posts ago and last month.

I know. he keeps posting over and over again.

I haven’t.

Yes, you have. Several of us remember. There can't be two of you. No way.

Again, I haven’t.

DP. I remember this poster, too. OP, hope your ex-gf finds someone who is mature and doesn't play your games. It's exhausting to try to deal with a man child. I had a bf like you, dropped him and he stalked me through my friends for years. It only stopped when I got married. Move on, OP.

[Anonymous]

Isn’t this also the flight ticket poster who was pondering if his ex-girlfriend he dumped would still come for the weekend and pretended to not know why’s she accepted the breakup and didn’t want to go?

He’s a nutjob.

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Anonymous wrote:I get really worked up sometimes and lash out and say things I don’t mean. I know I have this issue and I’m working on it. Well, I told my girlfriend, or I guess ex now, that she didn’t make me happy and that we should go out separate ways. That’s not true at all, I love her more than anything and want to marry her. She simply said “okay” and she hasn’t contacted me once since this happened a month ago. She’s removed me from all social media and has taken down every picture of us - we were together for 4 years.

I’ve contacted her multiple times since then but she’s replied nicely but curt. Yesterday, my sister came into town and I asked her if she wanted to join us. She said, “you said I don’t make you happy and that we needed to go our separate ways, so I’m not sure why you continue contact me. We’re not friends. So, unless you’re contacting me with an enormous apology, have gone to therapy for a while, and with a receipt for a down payment for a ring please don’t contact me anymore”. Needless to say I was left speechless. I completely understand where she’s coming from since I royally screwed up. However, I was always told never give in to someone’s ultimatum because it’s manipulation. I also don’t want to lose her though.

What are your thoughts on ultimatums/this ultimatum?

Omg, you again?

Stop harassing her, you guys broke up five posts ago and last month.

I know. he keeps posting over and over again.

I haven’t.

Yes, you have. Several of us remember. There can't be two of you. No way.

Again, I haven’t.

DP. I remember this poster, too. OP, hope your ex-gf finds someone who is mature and doesn't play your games. It's exhausting to try to deal with a man child. I had a bf like you, dropped him and he stalked me through my friends for years. It only stopped when I got married. Move on, OP.

I haven’t stalked her. We were just together last month in Mexico. Crap didn’t hit the fan until the beginning of June.

https://imgur.com/a/8aOa9Aw

[Anonymous]

Whatever you say….

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:“‘I was surely going to propose to my Gf of 4 years but instead insulted her to her face so she wouldn’t dump me first. Now my moms in town and I want us all to get together. What should I do? She said she doesn’t want to see me anymore, but I didn’t do anything!’”

-OP’s May/June post.

Yea, my mom is dead so I don’t see how that’s possible.

We all know you are unreliable, untrustworthy and make up a large % of your posts. You’re crazy dude.

Who would lie about that? Here’s the police report from the car break in that I mentioned.

https://imgur.com/a/Rib5POe

[Anonymous]

Leave her alone. I'm not sure why she responded at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Leave her alone. I'm not sure why she responded at all.

I asked if her family was okay because of the shooting in her city. Her family was in the area.